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i go to a huge highschool and see this girl like 3 times throughout the day but how do i make a convo with her and get her number because i dont wana say something stupid and look like an idiot
include how to start the convo ive gotten girls numbers before i just need to know how to start the convo with her cause shes a year older and i dont wanna look like a dbag

i can get women to like me i have lots of women as friends but they dont like me i make them laugh im am decent looking i dont talk to them alot i have never had a deep convo with a girl or flirted and i am single and getting depressed any tips on how to make girls attracted to me should i make them feel special by comforting them when there sad
Please help !

I just started my first year of college two weeks ago. I’ve never had a gf, sadly, because I’m just a shy, nice guy. I’ve always fallen in the ‘friend’s zone’ right away. It seems like girls want the guy who is outgoing, confident, and they don’t seem to care that those are the guys who ALWAYS wind up cheating.

I just dont’ know what to do to make a girl start a convo with me. I can’t start the convo because I’m avg looking at best and I feel like I’m making a fool of myself because I know they aren’t interested in me. I’m a really nice guy, I’m pretty smart, I’m interesting.. but I’m just too nice and quiet. I would never cheat on a girl EVER, but it just doesn’t seem like that’s a quality girls want, sadly. I noticed so far one girl who was giving me a few smiles during our first speech once, but when I went to strike up a convo with her a different day, she seemed bored and uninterested in talking to me.

I find it hard to be confident because no girls give me the time of day.

im kinda shy and i need a way to start a convo with girls in my class. i want to get a girlfriend btw im 14 (freshman)

Whats the best way to strike up a convo without looking like some creep? Best way to ask for phone #? Uh yeah, the usual

I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls

Alright so I have liked this girl for a while but never got the opportunity to really talk to her until lately… Lately she has been on Facebook and I have talked to her for the past couple of days and she has stayed online for hours talking to me so I think she is sort of interested although when I ask her questions her answers are only one words and I feel like the convo is one sided some of the time.. At school I am in no classes with her which sucks, and when I want to approach her she is always with a group of friends that are girls and I don’t know how I could. So if anyone can help me with this dilemma it would be greatly appreciated. Also my other question is what do I talk to her on Facebook chat to get her more interested in the convo and have her talk more..
So basically my questions are:

How do I approach her at school when she is around all her friends?
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How do I say something on Facebook chat so that she will respond with more then a. "yes" "no"…etc.
@BadAl…I don’t have my license and I won’t get one for at least 3 months…how would I go on a date with her when I can’t drive..I am not gonna have my parents drive me…

There is this girl i like and she knows i like her. We txt for hours but real convo at school is not at much and to me she seems more flirty (as with me) on txt. How can i talk to her more. I talk to her most of all the class im in with her. How can i talk to her more. I see her in the hallways and stuff, but how can i gradually increase the flirting lvl.
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There is this girl that use to stare at me alot and once even waved at me but at that time i was very shy and didn’t how to talk to girls but now i do know how to talk to girls and every time i try having a convo with her she either watches the other way or just ignores me.

Everytime I go to talk to a guy I freeze up. I want to try having some guy friends because I’m able to talk to girls perfectly, but I wanna try guys. How do I start a convo? Is it ok to be friends with guys if they already hav girls as friends? How do I get over the fear?

There was this girl I use to work. Well some of the things that make me wonder if she liked me are as follows:

-She asked if she made me a little bracelet, would I wear it so I told her yes. And she made it for me and I still have it.
-When I would go to sit down to take a break, sometimes she’d follow and sit with me and talk to me.
-When I burned myself at work, without me even asking for anything, she went to the nearby store and stole some burn-aid stuff just for me.
-When her boyfriend would visit her at work, she’d sit with him. But sometimes as she would start to walk away with him, she’d look back at me for some reason.
-She told me one day she had a dream about me. Not a wet dream or anything, but a dream.
-When I was feeling kind of jealous one day about her boyfriend and stuff, it’s like she knew even without me really showing anything and she asked me if something was wrong. I could tell she wanted me to say something there but not sure what.
-A few weeks after she had to quit, she went back to get her last check and she hugged me when she came in. But while she was there, we talked some and she asked for my number and hugged me again before leaving.

The thing is though, she did call once, but for some reason she didn’t again. During that phone convo though, I was a little bit shy and not talking much, so that could have something to do with it. So overall, what do you think? Just being friendly or was there something there?
I wore the bracelet for a good couple weeks. But like I said, I USE TO work with her, so it’s off now. But I do still have it.

  
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