Women realistically, nice guys?

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Do women actually like nice guys at all? and even consider them for dating?
I try to always be nice to girls, especially those of which i have liked in the past, and it has gotten me nowhere. I know all about book sources such as ‘The Game- how to pick up women’ and how they work and how to apply them, but i never use them because i want to try to establish a relationship (before i go crazy), on just being nice rather than a strategic mind trick most pick up artist would use. But i’ve had no luck so far.

But girls who i am not attracted to, i would say that i unintentionally wouldn’t treat as nice as i would otherwise, always seem to like me. Theoretically i should easily be able to establish a relationship with one of these girls, but i am just not attracted to them. They come off slightly, needy.

I’ve tried switching the tables and circumstances, by applying my attitude i would to girls i am not attracted to, to the ones i am – but this doesn’t seem to work either – because then they just think i am a jerk.

What should i do? I am great with conversations and at making girls laugh, and i am often commented upon as ‘cute’ (which i hate), so this is not my issue. Could someone please Analise me and my situation?

Ladies, do you think too many men are lacking in confidence and self-esteem these days?

I mean just look at all that "self-help" materiel out there aimed at men: How to Pick up Women, How to get Women to Notice You, etc. I’ve even seen titles such as How to TALK to women. Really? are some men really having difficulty doing simple things like initiate conversations?

How to approach random woman?

My friend has social problems and lately it’s starting to depress him because he wants to talk to women but his too nervous and inconfident that he is constantly making himself look bad.

Later today he called me up and was asking for my help. So I decided to tell all of our friends and we want to start a game. Talking to random girls around the school, I figure that if he has social problems the best way to cure it is to force him into several conversations. He said he is down with it, so starting tomorrow we want to start finding girls to talk to in front of him and then eventually force him to do it.

Me and my friends want to play a game to see who can approach the most women. How should we go about this without becoming annoying, I don’t want to scare girls away, just make new friends. what’s the best way to approach a girl in the hall??

how to get the balls to talk to the girls that i like?

i guess is just CAN NOT talk to girls that i like, i always avoid them as much as possible and sometimes try to catch their eyes but thats all i can do, im unconfident about conversations with attractive girls even when they like me and i know it. but talking to unattractive girls is no problem… sort of…

im just trying to get rid of this "phobia" type thing i have. im not really asking for a pep talk, just looking for ideas or excercises or whatever worked for someone who had this problem once also.

how to approach women?

i dont know what to say when it comes to approaching women and starting conversations

How can i pick up a cougar?

I’m having no luck with girls my own age so i
think i will get with someone whose older I’m 23

is there anyplaces where old women hang out for young guys?
i tried the mall but when ever i ask for a number they give me weird stares
i wait at the supermarket carpark after work/school some nights and try to help mature women with their things
and start up conversations i remember one night i was turned down by 6 women at the coles carpark last time
I some times drive around during the weekends and pull over to chat up women jogging but its harder then it looks in the movies
cause they just keep jogging.
i’m on the verge of giving up
but where is their hunting ground duke mack

and I try the PUA stuff I’ve read the book twice and am reading a third time i do all the negs and stuff buts not working

How can i pick up a cougar?

I’m having no luck with girls my own age so i
think i will get with someone whose old I’m 19

is there anyplaces where old women hang out for young guys?
i tried the mall but when ever i ask for a number they give me weird stares
i wait at the supermarket carpark after work/school some nights and try to help mature women with their things
and start up conversations i remeber one night i was turned down by 6 women at the coles carpark last time
I some times drive around during the weekends and pull over to chat up women jogging but its harder then it looks in the movies
cause they just keep jogging.
i’m on the verge of giving up

HOW DO I PICK UP MILFS AND COUGARS?

How can i pick up a cougar?

I’m having no luck with girls my own age so i
think i will get with someone whose old I’m 19

is there anyplaces where old women hang out for young guys?
i tried the mall but when ever i ask for a number they give me weird stares
i wait at the supermarket carpark after work/school some nights and try to help mature women with their things
and start up conversations i remeber one night i was turned down by 6 women at the coles carpark last time
I some times drive around during the weekends and pull over to chat up women jogging but its harder then it looks in the movies
cause they just keep jogging.
i’m on the verge of giving up

How to tell if a girl likes you/How to get a girl?

There’s this girl in one of my classes (I’m a freshmen in highschool). She has talk to me a couple of times; not conversations but just comments. She also has complimented me. Well anyway. I really like this girl and really want to go out with her. She’ll talk to me one day and the next totally ignore me. It’s so confusing to tell if she really does like me. I am kinda shy so i need some good ways to approach her. I only have 15 days because school is going to be out. I really like her. I think about her 24/7. I know that she is single =-). How can I let her know I am too? I want her to know i like her but not make it look like i’m obsessed with her. Please respond ASAP. Thanks everyone!!!

How to approach women?

Well I go to college and I wondering how do I apporach and meet new women on campus. Its hard for me to just go up to random girls and say things like "Hey Hows it going" or w/e. I have a hard time coming up with things to say that can start conversations, I suck at convo starters.

I go to a commuter college so meeting new women is hard for me, and I need some ideas.

How can I approach women without feeling afraid?
So your saying that I should try and talk to girls in my class in college?

I am really shy, so holding conversation is hard for me. Whats a good way to practice and make it easier.

So class is a good place where else, maybe clubs or parties or my friends.

How do I approach a woman? Women answers mostly please?

I am a young man and have never dated and I am a little unsure how to approach women. I am a Christian and I want to try to initiate conversations in a respectful manner. Where am I most likely to find true Christian women and how do they like to be approached? How do you know if a woman wants to be approached?

Is it possible that I am too mature to attract women within my own age range? What do I do about it?

I’m a 31 year old man, and I would like to meet someone who is around the same age, give or take a few years. Over the past few months, I’ve been getting myself out there to social events to meet single women. One thing I’ve noticed is that at some of these mixers, women who are substantially older than me appear to be completely enthralled by the conversations with me, yet the women who look like they are around my age seem disinterested, no matter how much I attempt to involve them in the conversation.

Also, I’ve had a few women in their 40s and even into their early 50s flirting with and even hitting on me. While I have no qualms with them per se (nothing wrong with a little experience), I would like to eventually get married and have children. These women are usually divorced with children. They are either not interested in having any more children, or they are beyond an age where it is safe to bear children.

I grew up looking slightly older than my age, but I don’t think I look that much older.

I’m not sure of what it means to act my age, other than meaning not acting like a child. Perhaps I have an “old soul,” but what do I do to attract women around the late 20s, early 30s age range? Do I be someone that I’m not, dumb down my behavior, eat with my hands and fart at the dinner table? Am I forced to wait to date until my actual age matches my mental age? Or is there another option for me?

I need to learn how to pick up women help please?

i need to learn how to pick up woman , i need line and contiuned conversations and shit i need VAGINA i’m 17 in high school and still havnet gotten VAGINA yet HELP

How to get girls on my vacation?

I am going on vacation to Hawaii soon. I am 17 years old. Can anyone give me any advice on scoring some chicks when on vacation? The beach wouldn’t be the best spot, not because i am fat or anything, im skinny, but i don’t have like a great gym body, you know, like huge pecs, or abs cuz im too lazy for that haha. anyway, not to sound cocky at all, but i am a very good looking guy. i get a lot of girls here at home, but ive always had problems like walking up to random girls and starting conversations, eventually leading to getting some, the girls i get, ive known for a while. So the ideal situation would be something like sitting in the lobby at night, looking stylin, and finding some hot girl to talk to. or even at a restaurant or something, but that would be hard cuz my rents would be around. anyway, could you give me advice on this? i have my own room for a few nights btw

How to approach women after a long relationship.?

It has been 2 years since my separation and ultimate divorce from a 9 year relationship/marraige. I have been on one date and got four phone numbers since that all fizzled. I am 32 yearts old and I have forgotten everything I knew about meeting women.

I guess you could say that I am the push-over type of guy. I weigh 205 pounds and am 5 ft- 9 in- I am not muscular. However, I have been told that I am cute and charming. I am the type that looks about seven years younger than I am. I have been told that I look like Tiger Woods.

I always ask questions, and can hold good conversations about lots of topics. I have a good job, and I have a car.

I believe that I have a lot of positive qualities, but evidently no woman that I have met thinks so. Can anyone give me some advice on meeting women in your 30′s?

How to get a girl to like you?

im interested in a few girls at work. ive already had some conversations with them on breaks, nothing serious, just small talk. but what do i do to get them to like me?

obviously you cant make one like you, but you can make it more likely that they can be attracted to you. i do a great job at being myself, seriously i do. but i just want her to be attracted first. once she is i know that who i am will determine whether she likes me or not. so i guess my Q is "how do you attract a girl?"

What do you think about martial arts teaching women to kick each other?

in the cl*t. I over heard two conversations about this technique. Does it work. What does it feel like to get kicked directly in the cl*toris.

How to break the ice and get comfortable with a girl?

Me and this girl, we like each other very much, but we are both pretty shy. Especially me, I get super nervous when I am with her, and I hate it. When we talk over SMS, its great, we talk about all sorts of things, but when we are together, it ends up being really awkward. The conversations usually are just "hey", "hey"… "how are you?", "yea good, you?" … "yea Im fine" and then it usual goes silent and we kinda just stand there awkwardly… can I do something to make this a lot easier? I enjoy every minute with her, but we usually don’t end up talking much and its a shame…
Another related question… seeing as I do SMS her a lot, is there a point where I am SMS’ing her too much? I like telling her how much I like her, how great she is, how I cant wait too see her again, that I miss her etc… but I am not feeling as though I get the same response from her, but I may be wrong. Is it better to just step back, stop SMS’ing and just wait until she SMS’s me out of her own accord, because so far I have started every conversation…

How do i get a girl i’m seeing to stop talking about herself so much?

She plays a lot of sports and that’s all she talks about when were on the phone. She goes on and on and when i try to steer the conversations somewhere else she always goes back to it, unless ofcourse i’m talking about her. Should i let her know i find this frustrating? should i just put up with it? or should is there a way i can get her to do it less without bringing it up?

How to make a conversation more interesting with a girl?

I can make small talk with a girl, saying hi, making comments, so I guess I’m in. But the problem is you can’t just keep talking like hi, how are you, how was your class, how your summer. So how do i make the conversations more interesting and more meaningful to have some sort a real friendship with the girl?
In high school, all help is appreciated!
Thanks

can you get a girl to like you if she hates you?(girls answer plz)?

if a girl you like hates you and when you try to talk to her she looks away and talks to a freind? how do you let her get to know the real you if she doesnt know you very well? the girl i like at school barley knows me but she is a friend of my best friend so when im in conversations with him and his freinds she seems like a really nice girl but she for some reason just really seems to ignore me. how could i become freinds with her and eventually ask her out?

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