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I’m a 31 year old man, and I would like to meet someone who is around the same age, give or take a few years. Over the past few months, I’ve been getting myself out there to social events to meet single women. One thing I’ve noticed is that at some of these mixers, women who are substantially older than me appear to be completely enthralled by the conversations with me, yet the women who look like they are around my age seem disinterested, no matter how much I attempt to involve them in the conversation.

Also, I’ve had a few women in their 40s and even into their early 50s flirting with and even hitting on me. While I have no qualms with them per se (nothing wrong with a little experience), I would like to eventually get married and have children. These women are usually divorced with children. They are either not interested in having any more children, or they are beyond an age where it is safe to bear children.

I grew up looking slightly older than my age, but I don’t think I look that much older.

I’m not sure of what it means to act my age, other than meaning not acting like a child. Perhaps I have an “old soul,” but what do I do to attract women around the late 20s, early 30s age range? Do I be someone that I’m not, dumb down my behavior, eat with my hands and fart at the dinner table? Am I forced to wait to date until my actual age matches my mental age? Or is there another option for me?

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i need to learn how to pick up woman , i need line and contiuned conversations and shit i need VAGINA i’m 17 in high school and still havnet gotten VAGINA yet HELP

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I am going on vacation to Hawaii soon. I am 17 years old. Can anyone give me any advice on scoring some chicks when on vacation? The beach wouldn’t be the best spot, not because i am fat or anything, im skinny, but i don’t have like a great gym body, you know, like huge pecs, or abs cuz im too lazy for that haha. anyway, not to sound cocky at all, but i am a very good looking guy. i get a lot of girls here at home, but ive always had problems like walking up to random girls and starting conversations, eventually leading to getting some, the girls i get, ive known for a while. So the ideal situation would be something like sitting in the lobby at night, looking stylin, and finding some hot girl to talk to. or even at a restaurant or something, but that would be hard cuz my rents would be around. anyway, could you give me advice on this? i have my own room for a few nights btw

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It has been 2 years since my separation and ultimate divorce from a 9 year relationship/marraige. I have been on one date and got four phone numbers since that all fizzled. I am 32 yearts old and I have forgotten everything I knew about meeting women.

I guess you could say that I am the push-over type of guy. I weigh 205 pounds and am 5 ft- 9 in- I am not muscular. However, I have been told that I am cute and charming. I am the type that looks about seven years younger than I am. I have been told that I look like Tiger Woods.

I always ask questions, and can hold good conversations about lots of topics. I have a good job, and I have a car.

I believe that I have a lot of positive qualities, but evidently no woman that I have met thinks so. Can anyone give me some advice on meeting women in your 30′s?

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im interested in a few girls at work. ive already had some conversations with them on breaks, nothing serious, just small talk. but what do i do to get them to like me?

obviously you cant make one like you, but you can make it more likely that they can be attracted to you. i do a great job at being myself, seriously i do. but i just want her to be attracted first. once she is i know that who i am will determine whether she likes me or not. so i guess my Q is "how do you attract a girl?"

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in the cl*t. I over heard two conversations about this technique. Does it work. What does it feel like to get kicked directly in the cl*toris.

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Me and this girl, we like each other very much, but we are both pretty shy. Especially me, I get super nervous when I am with her, and I hate it. When we talk over SMS, its great, we talk about all sorts of things, but when we are together, it ends up being really awkward. The conversations usually are just "hey", "hey"… "how are you?", "yea good, you?" … "yea Im fine" and then it usual goes silent and we kinda just stand there awkwardly… can I do something to make this a lot easier? I enjoy every minute with her, but we usually don’t end up talking much and its a shame…
Another related question… seeing as I do SMS her a lot, is there a point where I am SMS’ing her too much? I like telling her how much I like her, how great she is, how I cant wait too see her again, that I miss her etc… but I am not feeling as though I get the same response from her, but I may be wrong. Is it better to just step back, stop SMS’ing and just wait until she SMS’s me out of her own accord, because so far I have started every conversation…

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She plays a lot of sports and that’s all she talks about when were on the phone. She goes on and on and when i try to steer the conversations somewhere else she always goes back to it, unless ofcourse i’m talking about her. Should i let her know i find this frustrating? should i just put up with it? or should is there a way i can get her to do it less without bringing it up?

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I can make small talk with a girl, saying hi, making comments, so I guess I’m in. But the problem is you can’t just keep talking like hi, how are you, how was your class, how your summer. So how do i make the conversations more interesting and more meaningful to have some sort a real friendship with the girl?
In high school, all help is appreciated!
Thanks

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if a girl you like hates you and when you try to talk to her she looks away and talks to a freind? how do you let her get to know the real you if she doesnt know you very well? the girl i like at school barley knows me but she is a friend of my best friend so when im in conversations with him and his freinds she seems like a really nice girl but she for some reason just really seems to ignore me. how could i become freinds with her and eventually ask her out?

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I am a young man and have never dated and I am a little unsure how to approach women. I am a Christian and I want to try to initiate conversations in a respectful manner. Where am I most likely to find true Christian women and how do they like to be approached? How do you know if a woman wants to be approached?

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I like this girl that I work with a lot, and we’ve been hanging out a little bit. To be more specific, I’ll talk to her one on one at work and we’ll have very playful conversations and stuff. Outside of work if I hang out with her, its usually with her one friend (who I also work with, which kind of makes it weird/hard to make moves) and we’ll go to the movies or something. To give you some background information, I’ve never been good at making moves on girls because I’m always afraid of how awkward it will be seeing them after. We’re both talkative, so we never have awkward silences or anything, but I need help on how to take it to the next level. Keep in mind, her friend is there who i also work with, so not only could things get awkward between me and the girl if she doesnt like me, but also between her friend and im sure word would spread around quickly to everyone else. I should be hanging out with her one on one sometime soon, so that should make things somewhat easier, but I’m looking for help with both scenarios. I know you’re probably going to say "just suck it up and ask her" but this is very complicated. I don’t want to ruin our friendship, and also I like my job and the people I work with and don’t want to kind of ruin that either. Any help is greeeeaaatttlllyy appreciated, thank you all.

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