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Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women:
1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to build REAL attraction Read more...
My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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DISCLAIMER i dont want any pua advice
i dont have problems with confidence or how to talk to a girl or anything like that i talk to lots of people girls and guys everyday and get along with most of them i am naturally a very social person. my only problem is i dont have the social knowledge of how to progress relationships in this country (usa) I often times see a free music show on campus or want to head out to a bar just to hang out but when my few close friends our busy i would like to have some girls im close enough with to call up and ask to come with me. I would also like to date some girls the problem is i dont know what is proper ettiqute on how to go from casual acquaintance to more. In my original country you cannot really hang out with a girl unless you are married to her
*im not trying to spam i posted this a few times but got no response
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As a teenager growing up I was pretty good looking and confident with myself being healthy and athletic. As I got older mental problems crept up and then went all out. I used to just tell girls my interest straight up like "you look hot" or "you look really good today" so-and-so.. and then flirt after or whatever. Basically fearless in pursuing people I really liked. As I got older with all the madness I became really physically ugly. Now if I try to do it like I did before I just come off as creepy. I hide me feelings now and I am so unsuccessful with women. People find my disrespectful in general because I am so shy now. How can I improve myself again and get my confidence back? I’ve been alone for a long time now.
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I am really lost as to how to begin. I live on an island of 5000 people in Washington State. I really want to find someone and the end game is to find a woman for life. I have a business, money, security, and everything else I guess except for the confidence anymore. I just feel like I am going to be single for ever. I need inspiration. I need a kick in the caboose HELP!
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Don’t men know that women don’t get turned on sexually by way of money. Seducing women with your personality( sincere charm, wit , confidence, smile, and of course doesn’t look as bad as the elephant man) is the only way to turn women on sexually.
Money will only turn on there greedy side. And when you finally get sex after 3 or 4 dates you paid, she give it to you because of obligation not because she hot for you. But if you can turn her on wit ya personality she cant help but jump on you after the second date and will probably take you out and pay on the 3rd date.
Nice Guy’s game(how they get money) is money. Real men’s game is himself. I advice you guys to save ya money and learn to talk to women. What do y’all think, guys and gals ?
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I’ll be brutally honest. I have no confidence, or self esteem. I used to have it, i think, a long time ago, but somehow i lost it. Not only am i unable to make friends and meet women, i don’t even know how to approach strangers, and start talking to them.
I am 100% socially inept, and quite self concious about everything to the point that i have become neurotic and paranoid.
With all that, i am willing to pick up a hammer and start fixing this, but before i start whacking away in a aimless frenzy, id like to know some tips to improve myself from you fine folks.
So lay it on me, what must i do?
Thanks
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this is what a female GS poster suggested when asked how can a man make himselvf attractive to women for a casual affairs and sex
"Well, you want to be well-groomed, smell good, be dripping with confidence, and develop that lovely art of being charming. It helps if you are good looking…
Basically, don’t let them get to know you, but focus on charming them and turning them on with how good you look and smell and sound. And never show fear or nervousness. Always be in command of yourself and the situation. Take any rejection with a laugh and a smile. Also, being able to make a woman laugh will help you there…"
My ANswers Suck
fcuk you. even regular looking women have no problems getting guys for just sex. and confidence and personality prolly doesnt even matter for women. they can get sex so easily.. go fcuking figure
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I’ve seen alot of very attractive women with guys that are overweight or just look goofy. Im a guy and i have to be physically attracted to a lady to date,have sex with her, etc.. But alot of women told me to attract women isnt about looks, its confidence and having a good personality.. But how is it women see past looks?? I dont get it.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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I thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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As a teenager growing up I was pretty good looking and confident with myself being healthy and athletic. As I got older mental problems crept up and then went all out. I used to just tell girls my interest straight up like "you look hot" or "you look really good today" so-and-so.. and then flirt after or whatever. Basically fearless in pursuing people I really liked.
As I got older with all the madness I became really physically ugly. Now if I try to do it like I did before I just come off as creepy. I hide my feelings and I am so unsuccessful with women. I tried to redo all whole strategy but people find me fake or I’m not doing it with faith or something. Don’t know. People find my disrespectful in general because I am so shy now. How can I improve myself again and get my confidence back? I’ve been alone for a long time now.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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but most importantly i need advice on accepting myself. I’m 18 and need advice on how to talk to and get girls, when ever i talk to a girl or anybody i don’t know i mumble or talk too low. I know that girls love a man that is confident enough to be himself but i don’t really have much confidence, i care alot about what people think and i don’t really accept myself because i’m some what of a nice guy and i know people (especially girls) mess over nice guys, and nice people seem to get messed over by everybody. I hate being so nice and sensitive, i’m not saying i want to be cold hearted but more tougher and assertive. I really need help, i’m a grown man now and i still can’t get girls. And I know some smart ass gon say try drinking and i already do that and trust me i feel good when i drink because that releases every inhibition i have because i don’t care what people think and i just do whatever but i don’t want to become reliant on alcohol because then i would become an alcoholic with worse problems than what i have. So can I please get some advice?
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Hi I am 26. I dont know how to approach women with confidence. Today I just say the most ideal girl standing right next in front of me staring at me and I was speechless. I just stared at her for a couple of minutes and I just did not know what to say. And then friends arrived and I went away with them. I dont understand why I get tongue tied.
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I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
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I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)
Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.
How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X
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I’ve been single for 4 years now, and I really want a girlfriend. Here’s the problem: Every time I see a girl I’m interested in, I feel like there’s concrete blocks on my feet. I want to approach women, but, I just can’t seem to work up the nerve. I’ve always been kinda nerdy, both in looks, and personality. I get nervous talking to women, but, I think that if I can approach a woman, and talk to her with confidence, I should be able to do pretty well. I’m 6’1" tall, with a slightly muscular build, with short brown/blonde hair, grey eyes, and glasses. My friends tell me I’m funny, too.
Can anyone tell me how to build my confidence, so I can get myself a girlfriend?
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