Need help with women?
Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women:
1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to build REAL attraction Read more...
If my personality has certain traits that can’t be helped, how do I change them so women would find such things more desirable?? I want to change, but it’s hard because it’s just who I am. But "who I am" isn’t getting the job done.
Women like to be treated bad, they like confidence, they like aggressiveness and assertiveness because it comes off as masculine and dramatic. How can a man of a very quite, humbled nature who doesn’t have non – outgoing traits change his character??
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I’m 34, but the only women that seem to be attracted to me are very young… usually 18 to 25. I don’t want to date older women per se, just women my age; which would be older than the younger ones that usually think I’m closer to their age.
I’m an Electrical Engineer and have financial security. I’m not a little boy in any respects, I just have the face of one. I intimidate a lot of the older women i think. Some would rather I didn’t look younger than them because I am the man. I think a secure woman is the type i will take. In the meantime the younger ones are the only ones with the confidence.
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Everywhere I go, I can’t find a girl of my age and the same race to talk to. I want to have the confidence but they are always working, and I don’t have a current job, and I’m lost.
I wear glasses, a lot,so it doesn’t attract women.
I just want my first kiss.
I am a 25 year old black male.
It seem like glasses attract men instead of women. I just keep attracting men. I want to attract women.
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Alright guys, this one’s for you. How many guys want to know the secret to gaining success, OR THINK they know the secret to succes in dating women?
It’s not as difficult as you may think it is. I finally get it now, which was like the sheep’s wool over my eyes that has been lifted.
So with this said, let me know what YOU think the secret is to gaining success with women.
Ladies, you can respond as well, and see how many guys are on to what it really takes.
I’ll give my answer and women can comment on my answer as well.
My answer is simply "CONFIDENCE". It doesn’t matter how rich, handsome, powerful you are; if you don’t have confidence, then you’ll never attract women. Women want a guy who is CONFIDENT in ALL situations, so that way she knows that HE is in complete control all the time.
If anyone wants any ideas for attracting women, please feel free to e-mail me at r_bogdewic@yahoo.com
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I am a 29 year old male, economically independent and have never been initimate with someone of the opposite sex, no kiss, no romantic date or anything. How can I get confidence, It bothers me a little bit when I am work and colleagues of mine are always talking by their romantic partners or ex romantic partners. I always lie when I have to ask a question about relationships. I have such a problem with this because I have high functioing autism, OCD and general anxiety disorder, I have all these idosyrances that I am trying to work on.
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I am such a wimp….I am not bad looking, I have had quite a few attractive girlfirends in the past, but they usually approach me… I am such a coward when it comes to approaching women, how can I get some confidence?
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I am a little slow at understanding things when being shown how to do something or given an instruction and I took an iq test and get well below average. It affects my confidence when approaching women cause I am embarrassed of my disability.
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I have always been weird around woman and usually say the wrong things when I do get enough confidence to talk to someone I get shot down. I have been in relationships but the woman I want and tend to presue I’m told are way out of my league. I’m a nice guy but no confidence. Can I hire someone to help me in this situation!!!!
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I’m sorry but i’m kind of stuck on how to attract women i’m losing sleep cause i honestly don’t know and i want an attractive nice girl but even nice girls will leave if you don’t know how to attract them. When i go to college it’s like every girl has a bf who is cute tall and i feel like a loser cause i’m short and from what i heard college girls don’t date tall guys. I feel that someone doesn’t want to date me cause i don’t know how to attract women so were can i go or get advice to attract women especially to me having low self-esteem, and no confidence cause i’m decent looking and shy and it’s like no women is attracted to me and i feel that one wants a hispanic guy they seem to want a white guy. i know flirting does help but how do i know if they like it? Is it a hard thing to attract the women is that why they are be b-i-t-c-h-e-s to me? When should i ask for a girls number so that they don’t give me the wrong one? How can i get women to stop laughing at me and take me serious?
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I am fat, and sometimes I like my self , sometimes I don’t. I know some say it doesn’t matter what you look like as long as you have confidence, but it is hard to have confidence while you struggle to lose weight. I want to know if there are ways to get a guy to like you if you are fat and don’t have alot of confidence.
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Humor I guess is good foundation, add a little confidence for mortar. Build up from there with dreams, being friends etc.
Ladies how the heck can the average guy attract the not so average looking girl. The best one takes the 10 point cake and eat it to.
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i am 25 and i have slowly came to realize that i am really good at picking up women.but i am with a girl who i Truly love and i will never cheat on her.the only thing that i am having a problem with is all of the insecure guys on this page.so i will do for you guys what my older brother did for me and tell you how to have a great first date.
STEP 1
when you ask for a girls number understand that you are just asking for a number so if she says no then move on and ask someone else.make sure you have confidence.women are like sharks that can smell blood in the water.if they think you are insecure they will never take you serious.
STEP 2
Alright so she gave you the number.go ahead and call her that night.in my experience if you wait to call her then you lose all momentum you had.now on this first call relax she knows your going to ask her out.so don’t panic and chicken out.if you do that then you will never talk to her again.(once again confidence).talk to her for a while then ask her if she wants to go out.she will say yes.try to make the phone call short.you dont want to give her your life story on the first call.
STEP 3
now before you leave to go pick her up get rid of any dorkyness you have inside yourself.you want to be cool and relaxed.but dont be to relaxed she does want a date with a guy who looks stoned all night.Also make sure you look good women don’t want a date with a guy who looks like he hasn’t shaved in a week.also clean your car out.
STEP 4
now you are at her house.understand that this is just a date and she is not your girlfriend.this is suppose to be fun.when you leave dont be so shy talk to her on the way to were ever you are going.there is nothing worse then dead silence.
STEP 5
when you get to werever you are taking her make sure its a place were you guys can talk.NO MOVIES.if you take her to a movie then you will not get to know her.Also don’t talk her ear off and don’t show off.she likes you otherwise you wouldn’t be this far and dont be stupid and ask her questions like if she ever wants to be married or if she wants kids.she will run right out the door if you do this.
STEP 6
now as you take her home dont ask her if she had fun.you are not her dad.be confident that she had fun and when you drop her off walk her to the door and kiss her.and don’t do that panic delayed kiss that will make you look stupid.then tell her you had a good time and leave.if she had fun she will call you back.
so i know i have to ask a question or they will delete the question so my question is was this helpfull
i am not trying to change anyone.i am just trying to help some guys on here with no experience
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I am a subscriber to this seduction newsletter and it talks about using these things to attract women.
I mean, could it be for real? Can you imagine what it would be like to get girls just by talking in a different way? I can’t.
I used hypnosis to solve my confidence problems which allows you to approach more women, but I just can’t see how you can use it on other people without them knowing it as they claim it can be used.
My friend told me it’s real, but could he just be playing with me?
Oh, this is the newsletter, btw:
http://www.myspace.com/135105387
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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that its because he hasnt got confidence, self-esteem, charm, is too boring etc.
QUESTION
(1) just how much confidence & self esteem are we talking about here?
(2) and what happens to this requirements of confidence and self-esteem when women are looking to settle down
you wont admit the truth. you women have major ego problems.
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It really works my nerves that I’m called a good guy or any variation of the term.I do go to church and believe in God,I am also a virgin but I hate people thinking I am innocent and thinking oh he’s a good guy.
My general approach to a girl is going over and saying hi or bringing a prop with me like comparing my drawings,bringing a clever card or mind reading/magic trick or a craft that I made to get her opinion but I can never get them after that.I tried talking about the weather it doesn’t work.then their are those that ask if I’m still a virgin randomly(in college) and I tell them they smile say how good it is and after that I never see them again.I dress nice(like an individual) I even take guitar lessons.
What can I do to make me look or appear as a bad boy? I don’t care about settling down right now I’m just wanting to be able to get girls.How does a Bad boy approach girls? where do they meet them?
Don’t start with the confidence thing because I get put on so much of a pedestal for going to church, singing in church, being a sunday school teacher, and being a virgin that it drives me nuts.When it comes down to it I want to be treated as a person and not just a fictional character that they think is impossible to find.I’m 20 years old and I am looked at like just a little kid.And don’t give me that don’t change yourself for anybody crap.I just want to look human not fictional.
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I’ve seen alot of very attractive women with guys that are overweight or just look goofy. Im a guy and i have to be physically attracted to a lady to date,have sex with her, etc.. But alot of women told me to attract women isnt about looks, its confidence and having a good personality.. But how is it women see past looks?? I dont get it.
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First off i am a very shy guy, so shy its almost crippling, in fact i suffer from Social anxiety disorder, and its only made worse around girls i find attractive. Secondly because of this i have never approached women, and they have never approached me, because of this i feel like i am hideous or boring or unattractive, and as a result have 0 confidence, which i know is a turn off. For me confidence comes from being liked by others, unfortunately no girls seem to ever like me. Long story short, how do i "connect" with a girl i like and not look either desperate, or bitter and jaded, or look like a boring dork quiet looser. After all most women like loudmouthed jerks, or so the general consensus is… Any suggestions?
also im 21 and have never had a date or a Kiss, that is NOT a plus for my confidence btw…given that everyone else my age who is normal has had experience
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No offense but women do not seem to know much about what attracts people. Us guys are confused on a lot but we know attraction.
Guys like:
Girls who are physically hot
(in their mind they also want someone who is compatible with good character but their desires go along with physical looks)
Girls like:
confidence
assertiveness
money
Girls will argue this all the time because it sounds bad but it is reality. Which is why I am asking guys about attraction.
So how do I attract women better. I have the physical looks that cause many women to flirt with me. But once they get around me and see how insecure I am they turn and run. I go on a ton of first dates – either she likes me a lot and I have no interest or vice versa. A lot of women compliment me on my looks but the girls I end up likeing don’t stick around very long. I think its because of my confidence and maybe my neediness. How do I get over this?
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Im asking on this section because the Singles and Dating section is essentially always dead.
First off i am a very shy guy, so shy its almost crippling, in fact i suffer from Social anxiety disorder, and its only made worse around girls i find attractive. Secondly because of this i have never approached women, and they have never approached me, because of this i feel like i am hideous or boring or unattractive, and as a result have 0 confidence, which i know is a turn off. For me confidence comes from being liked by others, unfortunately no girls seem to ever like me. Long story short, how do i "connect" with a girl i like and not look either desperate, or bitter and jaded, or look like a boring dork quiet looser. After all most women like loudmouthed jerks, or so the general consensus is… Any suggestions?
also im 21 and have never had a date or a Kiss, that is NOT a plus for my confidence btw…given that everyone else my age who is normal has had experience
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I thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
Ops. Wrong section…
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