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Their seems to be a pattern, why do I fall for the same type of woman often? Im a genuine nice sincere man, I think my problem is im to nice. I want a woman that compliments my personality and qualities not the opposite. The crazy wild woman are not for me, not that I cant hang its just they tend to do what they want when they want. Any suggestions on what to do or how to approach women differently. Ladies Fellas help ya boi out cause this shit is really getting ridiculous!!

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i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?

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i know saying hi my name is, or compliments or using the setting that we are in as an advantage…

but sometimes when i say it i just don’t know what to say after

can someone give me any tips or advice of what to say when picking up women on how i can keep the conversation going?

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I’m 20 years old and I consider myself good looking, I get good grades in school, and I’m a nice person. But I notice I attract women in their mid-late 20s with kids already. Why is this?

Also, I notice I get compliments on my looks more so from guys than I do from girls. I’ve had guys in high school tell me I’m sexy and stuff. I’m not sure if they were kidding or not but I think they were serious. I don’t think I look gay. When I got those compliments I think I was putting gel in my hair and combing it back but so what?

In one class, our teacher said, "I won’t have to worry about guys and girls sending notes to each other in here unless you want to jump on (my name here) because he’s the most handsome person in this room." I took that as a compliment and smiled.

Also another incident was, we were talking about how to choose witnesses for signing wills. So our teacher said, "Don’t pick some old person like me who is all over the place, choose a nice young fellow like (my name here)" and he pointed at me.

When he said that to me, I smiled and took it as a compliment. But some of the other girls in the class laughed. Were they thinking, "Yea right, he’s not good looking."?

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Hey guys how are?
I am actually very flattered to see that many girls on that site are REALLY committed to trying to help all kind of guys to get over their shyness and start meeting the women of their dreams it is really sweet now it is my turn to get some advice!

I met more than one women in bookstores or shopping centers and most of the women are really nice and polite some interested some not, no problems. However, I have a hard time approaching in the bus because there are many people around and on the street because I hate creeping out girls, I am not a creep, I am not a stalker so I want to know what approach scares you and what approach doesn’t scare you, I am not interested in what to say as it is different from girl to girl as long as it is not a pickup line but I am interested in knowing how to make her feel comfortable when I approach in those scenerios thanks?
Guys thanks for answer, it was great! However I am interested in the positive aspects of approaching not negative, I don’t ever go on the bus or in the street and use sexual comments or shower a woman with a compliments. Also I am talking about approaching a woman on the street in the day time when there are lots of people around (City and shopping streets)! Thanks. One more thing I am interested in the answer of girls who are Comfortable talking to strangers, not the answers of the ones who get freaked out by it.
Sorry for what I wrote in the additional details, just ignore it and say whatever you wanna say! Again I am sorry for writing it.

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she gives me compliments like on facebook pictures like "Nice picture..its like ur giving out a bad boy look vibe" or something. I like her and I have kinda asked her to hangout but online…we don’t see each other much so thats why. I just send her some songs and she was like "You send me nice music.thanks:)"
i don’t know if its just friend thing or more…..guys any tips??

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i know saying hi my name is, or compliments or using the setting that we are in as an advantage…

but sometimes when i say it i just don’t know what to say after

can someone give me any tips or advice of what to say when picking up women on how i can keep the conversation going?

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I’m 20 years old and I consider myself good looking, I get good grades in school, and I’m a nice person. But I notice I attract women in their mid-late 20s with kids already. Why is this?

Also, I notice I get compliments on my looks more so from guys than I do from girls. I’ve had guys in high school tell me I’m sexy and stuff. I’m not sure if they were kidding or not but I think they were serious. I don’t think I look gay. When I got those compliments I think I was putting gel in my hair and combing it back but so what?

In one class, our teacher said, "I won’t have to worry about guys and girls sending notes to each other in here unless you want to jump on (my name here) because he’s the most handsome person in this room." I took that as a compliment and smiled.

Also another incident was, we were talking about how to choose witnesses for signing wills. So our teacher said, "Don’t pick some old person like me who is all over the place, choose a nice young fellow like (my name here)" and he pointed at me.

When he said that to me, I smiled and took it as a compliment. But some of the other girls in the class laughed. Were they thinking, "Yea right, he’s not good looking."?

I mean when at first, I thought both of my teachers were complimenting me But at the same time, I can’t really be sure because I’m the only guy in class. Sometimes if you’re the only guy in class, people tease you.

I don’t think I’m ugly but sometimes I feel funny if people say things about my looks. I’m not sure if they’re messing with me.

I don’t think being the only guy in class is what it’s cracked up to be. I mean if my teachers just wanted to lighten the tension, why couldn’t they say something else?

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First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.

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i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?

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The title says it all I guess. There’s a girl I’ve known for quite a few years and I am 99% sure that she is into me (all thanks to learning to read body language). I AM going to tell her I like her tomorrow, but I know I’m not going to know how to get a conversation rolling right off the bat. Other than compliments, what are some good topics/ideas for a convo that can help me get to the right time when I can tell her? In other words, what is a good convo topic/idea that doesn’t make "I really think you’re cute" and "I’d like you to know I like you" sound like something completely random. To paraphrase it even more, what is a good topic for a conversation to start with the girl I like? P.S. – Thank you for having the patience to read through all of this
Sorry guys, I’m being fed stuff I already know. In my personal opinion, movies are a lame first date. Anybody ever gone to a rock climbing gym for a first date?

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There are times in my highschool when girls tend to flirt, flirt, and flirt.What is it that causes these girls to do that.Many girls tend to overlook the boys they call normal looking and the ugly ones.Don’t they think that these type of boys want compliments too.

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I have been playing it really smooth on a girl and im running outta things to say, She wants to talk to me but I cant come up with anymore subjects, or compliments, what do i do?

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