I’m 20 years old and I consider myself good looking, I get good grades in school, and I’m a nice person. But I notice I attract women in their mid-late 20s with kids already. Why is this?
Also, I notice I get compliments on my looks more so from guys than I do from girls. I’ve had guys in high school tell me I’m sexy and stuff. I’m not sure if they were kidding or not but I think they were serious. I don’t think I look gay. When I got those compliments I think I was putting gel in my hair and combing it back but so what?
In one class, our teacher said, "I won’t have to worry about guys and girls sending notes to each other in here unless you want to jump on (my name here) because he’s the most handsome person in this room." I took that as a compliment and smiled.
Also another incident was, we were talking about how to choose witnesses for signing wills. So our teacher said, "Don’t pick some old person like me who is all over the place, choose a nice young fellow like (my name here)" and he pointed at me.
When he said that to me, I smiled and took it as a compliment. But some of the other girls in the class laughed. Were they thinking, "Yea right, he’s not good looking."?
I mean when at first, I thought both of my teachers were complimenting me But at the same time, I can’t really be sure because I’m the only guy in class. Sometimes if you’re the only guy in class, people tease you.
I don’t think I’m ugly but sometimes I feel funny if people say things about my looks. I’m not sure if they’re messing with me.
I don’t think being the only guy in class is what it’s cracked up to be. I mean if my teachers just wanted to lighten the tension, why couldn’t they say something else?
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