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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

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At a bookstore: You tell a staff member or customer, whoever it is that you’re interested, that you can’t find a book. Then she asks you what book it is and you reply with the title "How to meet women at book stores"

At a coffee shop: You put a cover on whatever book you’re read that says "How to meet women at coffee shops". When you approach a woman at a coffee shop she might instantly see the title on the cover or you end up showing it to her when she wants to know what you’re reading.

A friendly woman with a good sense of humor would find this very funny and it would make for a great ice breaker. Why beat around the bush? Much of our life is about paring up with somebody. And when you talk to a woman anywhere in public she’ll know that you’re probably interested in getting to know her for dating, especially when you get flirty.
Hmm…I bet that approach I thought up is fairly original. And I don’t think it’s sleazy. I think it’d be cute and shows the guy has a good sense of humor. I see a quality woman finding it rather endearing. A sleaze ball is one who uses pick-up lines and in other ways "plays it cool".

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This question has probably been thought of many times, but never asked.

YOU, THE GUY are:

1) Nice, soft-spoken individual, but outgoing once you get warmed up

2) Minimal dating experience, but you’ve been in long term relationships (You have a hard time getting women, but when you do you know what to do)

3) Do not care for the limelight

4) Do not care so much for material things

5) Not very observant of your environment (oblivious)

6) You have a big ego only when "threatened"

YOUR GIRLFRIEND is:

1) High-maintenance, and needs the limelight to show people she is present (Center of Attention and needs to control the every situation all the time)

2) Very experienced in dating and knows how to pick and choose men at will and anytime – and dump them when the timing is right (goes through dates like photocopy paper in a copy machine)

3) Very good at observing and analyzing situations (especially at the bar and club scene)

4) Has a liking for designer clothing (materialistic)

5) Big ego all around (charm has a big part to play in this)

With that in mind, here’s a scenario:

Let’s say you two have dating for less than a year and she wants to break up. The primary reason is that she wants to date other guys (reasoning might be because she is tired of you. She can get any guy she wants by the way.

Now, in order for her not to feel guilty enjoying the "spoils of war" she wants to help you out. She tells you that she will go with you to places such as coffee shops, supermarkets, bars, and nightclubs, just to name a few places, and teach you how to flirt and pick up women so you can move forward with your life without her. And as an added bonus she is willing to set you up with her friends (sounds condescending if you ask me).

But anyhow, she is willing to do that for you so that you don’t get left out in the cold.

Would any of you guys be willing to let your girlfriend do this for you once you two break up?

I WOULDN’T! The suggestion of wanting to help me get women is already offensive as is. But I would like to hear input from everybody, especially guys that this might be happening to.

HONEST AND THOROUGH ANSWERS ONLY!

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I’m 20 years old and in college. My school is very big (40,000+ students) and I can’t believe I haven’t gotten any yet. Don’t get me wrong, I’m open to relationships, but I haven’t really mustered up the courage to actively seek out women. First off, I’m into the feminine girls, but not too feminine…the type that likes to go to the coffee shops and read a book. An independent woman. How do I give off hints? I really inexperienced when it comes to flirting/picking up girls. Any tips? Be specific.

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I frequent coffee shops and go to Barnes & Noble often. Usually, I will see beautiful young women at these places, seated at tables there. How do I approach them to start a conversation without appearing creepy? What do I say to them? What do I talk to them about? I would especially appreciate answers from women. I want to meet single women, but do not want to offend them or appear creepy.

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