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Young men today are just as conflicted as anybody, due to media influence.

Often, we won’t approach a woman because we feel that we will be made fun of BY OTHER GUYS, either blatantly of just that they will be laughing in their heads.

If there were no other men around, I’d have no issue whatsoever approaching any woman. Woman are ususally approachable and nice. But I’m worried about what other men will think of me for some reason. I guess because I was teased as a kid by a few other boys.

I’m really trying to REFRAME my perspective and see it more as if I could actually INSPIRE other guys if they see me talking to an attractive woman. But deep down inside, I am still aware of how I PERCEIVE they are reacting to me.

Please tell me this is all just a load of BS and just mental noise that I need to learn to tune out.
Good, so it’s basically left-over mental chatter from when I was a kid. Good to know that it’s not real and it’s all in my head. I can face something like that and eventually it will go away once I learn to stop hearing it.

I think this is what a lot of guys are actually afraid of–themselves.

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The woman’s sexual desire for the man in this mortal realm is a joke.
When they think of sex, they only think of what he can do, how they feel, they don’t think about him looking sexy and think how lucky they are this sexy guy is doing them.
Isn’t the woman’s lack of physcial sexual desire for the man’s body part of the curse males carry with them as a result of Adam sinning in the Garden of Eden?
Most women are unfortunately bi-sexual and can just turn off their desire for the man(even sexually) as easily as the flip of a switch(this is a mockery of the man’s uncontrollable sexual desire for the woman).

If there is a God, he didn’t design women’s bodies or minds with this extremely strong burning desire to REALLY WANT AND REALLY NEED sex with men as vice versa.

For men, sex is more than just physical, it is also about fulfilling his actual sexual desire for what he finds sexy, a concept that women do not possess for men.

If God intended for women to sexually desire men more than other women both in terms of compansionship and in terms of the visual and God successfully did this, he quickly made the male form ugly to women in the Garden of Eden after Adam sinned as part of all mens’ punishment(for Adam’s mistake), while he let women keep their sex appeal but gave them painful periods and painful childbirth.

But since we’re supposed to be in a different body than the body of a decendant of Adam after Adam sinned, surely women MUST find men more sexually attractive than they do in this mortal realm.

And don’t give this BS about how we’re not going to have sex in the afterlife or Heaven. I think we will be able to and I think we most defintiely will. If we still have our gender and our sex organs, then we still have the ABILITY to have sex, even if it’s just for recreation and fun and pleasure and fullfilling sexual desire. For horny virgin men in their 40s to suddenly die before having sex, they’re going to want to experience this as spirits in Heaven, and if it’s what they want, then surely they’ll get it.
I believe in the afterlife, even in heaven, when men approach women for sex, women will find men so much more desirable in that realm than here, they will almost never say no, and sex will almost always happen between male spirits and female spirits.
Afterall, for this to be the ONLY realm where we can have sex, but then after we die it’s too late and we couldn’t even if we tried, that would be cruel of God, especially on men, since men desire sex with women moreso than vice versa, at least in this mortal realm anyway..
ON A SIDE NOTE,
If there are more exclusively straight men than exclusively straight women, yet, the population between the genders is 50/50, the only ways we can balance this out and make sure all straight get the women they want is by
A) Legalizing prostitution
B) Convincing straight women to be more "easy" and sleep around with lots of men
C) Have more women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands by sleeping with other men.
If there are unfortunately too many bisexual and lesbian women in a society of 50% men and 50% women, then one, two, or all three of those above ooptions are the ONLY WAY to solve this, assuming we don’t legalize rape.

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I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)

Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.

How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.

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I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)

Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.

How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X

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All i keep seeing when i’m on the net is sites claiming they help guys to pick up women and show them techniques on how to be successful with women etc. Do you think it’s all a load of BS and that men should just approach women when and how they want, like i do!? haha.

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All i keep seeing when i’m on the net is sites claiming they help guys to pick up women and show them techniques on how to be successful with women etc. Do you think it’s all a load of BS and that men should just approach women when and how they want, like i do!? haha.

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I think they are a bunch of BS. I’ve tried some of their tactics, as well as some provided by therapists and none of them work. I’m in my 40′s and still getting the same kind of treatment from females I got in elementary school.

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