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Im 20 yrs old and I find alot of white girls attractive but have never really got around to dating any. All I ever date are black women but I think white girls are hot. Also im from the hood..lol ..but I have a good job and I know how to be respectful to women. I just dont really know how to approach white women especially since im never sure whether or not she even likes black men

I’m a mixed guy (halk blk half wht) but whenever I approach black women they always reject me or turn me down. Its the opposite with white women tho. I’ve dated many white women and they seem to be drawn to me a lot more. I would like to try dating a black girl.

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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

Ok i was at the store, there was this beautiful black girl i wanted to talk to!! She was around (18-24) so she probably was in the dumb stage in her life where she just liked N3ggers and not good black men.. So I’m we are both check out and i say hello, she says hi, i said, hows your day going and BTW you’re very beautiful, and before i could even get another word in she goes OOOOOOOOOK gotta run bye?? I didn’t see a ring on her finger. She is the fifth black-girl that’s turned me down so is there a manual on how to talk to them?
A lot of black women are hard to approach but, they get mad when we get white girls. OOOOh your sooooo right about that!

Do White women approach Black men better than Black women do? One thing that most people believe is that white women are more aggressive when it comes to letting a man know they’re interested. How is this so?

i get is that in NJ white/black/spanish women are not attracted to south asian men. ive seen enough. i cant say all women but the majority dont. white/black/spanish girls in NJ cant even imagine that a south asian guy born and raised here can be a soulmate. ive seen brown skin guys get rejected all the time. myself included. no we dont smell bad, or bad accent. we are educated, clean cut….i guess they dont see as sexual or attractive. ive approached hundreds of girls all shapes and size but nothing. i go by the personality. actually women go by what they feel rather than what they say. makes me wonder y im even posting here. some people say keep on approaching, one will say yes. kind of hard to do that when the white girl says f-off before u even say anything, than u go to second girl and she ignores u, third girl tells u to get out of her country. all of this has happened to me. i get told i look colombian. so my point is how can one continue to approach when women talk back like that. the ones that dont and i show interest say no thanks and walk away. i see black guys get all types of girls way easier. maybe hollywood has given the stamp of approval for white women to date black men. black women just dont like me. we have a great connection and when i call them its no answer.
well im 30years old now. never had a gf. im not the loner type but became one not by choice. my prime years are gone. not in my 20′s anymore. ive learned to make friends with the lonlieness. gets easier. ive had a hard time finding a social circle so im usually by myself. from diners to movies to clubs i go by myself. get used to it. the hate just makes u numb after a while.

i get is that in NJ white/black/spanish women are not attracted to south asian men. ive seen enough. i cant say all women but the majority dont. white/black/spanish girls in NJ cant even imagine that a south asian guy born and raised here can be a soulmate. ive seen brown skin guys get rejected all the time. myself included. no we dont smell bad, or bad accent. we are educated, clean cut….i guess they dont see as sexual or attractive. ive approached hundreds of girls all shapes and size but nothing. i go by the personality. actually women go by what they feel rather than what they say. makes me wonder y im even posting here. some people say keep on approaching, one will say yes. kind of hard to do that when the white girl says f-off before u even say anything, than u go to second girl and she ignores u, third girl tells u to get out of her country. all of this has happened to me. i get told i look colombian. so my point is how can one continue to approach when women talk back like that. the ones that dont and i show interest say no thanks and walk away. i see black guys get all types of girls way easier. maybe hollywood has given the stamp of approval for white women to date black men. black women just dont like me. we have a great connection and when i call them its no answer.
well im 30years old now. never had a gf. im not the loner type but became one not by choice. my prime years are gone. not in my 20′s anymore. ive learned to make friends with the lonlieness. gets easier. ive had a hard time finding a social circle so im usually by myself. from diners to movies to clubs i go by myself. get used to it. the hate just makes u numb after a while.

how can i wow black women ? i seem to be myself around them but have only picked up one african american women, (what a women)

I know i sound stupid by saying i don’t know how to approach them, but i actually don’t! lol.
I mean i can approach any other woman no problem, but when it comes to black women i freeze up! haha. I’m not like this usually around any women, but it’s just with black women. I don’t know why it is, but i probably think i’ll get shot down by them because i’m white. I guess i’m still cautious about the racial divide between both races and whether black women accept white men, but there is an absolute stunner at my gym (she’s black) and i’ve said "Hi" a couple times to her, but never actually had the chance to speak to her or ask her out. I don’t understand why i freeze up around black women, it’s weird. And as soon as i see a black women, it’s like i go back to my shy teenage years of being awkward around women, but i’m 24 now and i’m not shy around women usually, it must be some spell black women have over me lol.

What are some not to obvious LGBT symbols I can use to attract women? I’m in college and i’m not "out of the closet" and I want to get a gf.. the thing is I dont know that many gay people here, and i’m not that comfortable hanging out in the lgbt center, i’m bi black women but I don’t like hanging out in minority enclaves/centers.

Can anyone make suggestions on how to attract women? I’m somewhat reluctant to approach another woman since the last girl i hit on was straight and got creaped out.
odd question but can you also tell me where to find it?

LOL… Seriously I love white women I cant help it. But the only girls that I can ever get with are black women… Im not even a black man I’m Kurdish,Irish and black and Im from the hood lol…
So how would I approach a white women that im attracted to or are white women just not into people outside there race?

i would just like to know out of curosity. like for real do yall get a little offended or think shes on ur territory…because i know sometimes black women get jelious and etc…so i just like to kno but no smart remarks please

I am a black woman, and I’m open to all races. However, it seems that white boys are much more hesitant to aprroach a black girl, especially a dark skinned, not super skinny, black girl. So I want to know, are white men attracted to dark-skinned black women? If so, then what is holding most of them back from approaching one?

I find that the more I travel and the more women I meet, the more I am attracted to black women. I am white, well educated, great job and well off (not silly rich) but I am intimiated in approaching a black woman. What is the best way to overcome my intimidation?

  
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