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Whenever I am around attractive women, I get very nervous and shy. How do I kick that habit? It tends to be a real turn off for most women. It is like I do attract women, but only of the unattractive and/or marginal kind. I need to know how do I stop being shy and nervous around attractive women.

How do women see past looks in men?

I’ve seen alot of very attractive women with guys that are overweight or just look goofy. Im a guy and i have to be physically attracted to a lady to date,have sex with her, etc.. But alot of women told me to attract women isnt about looks, its confidence and having a good personality.. But how is it women see past looks?? I dont get it.

How do women see past looks? I always wondered?

I’ve seen alot of very attractive women with guys that are overweight or just look goofy. Im a guy and i have to be physically attracted to a lady to date,have sex with her, etc.. But alot of women told me to attract women isnt about looks, its confidence and having a good personality.. But how is it women see past looks?? I dont get it.

Are guys doing this to attract ladies?

I’ve been reading on websites for men on how to attract women and I’ve read that some guys are telling other guys that they should treat hot/attractive women like they are ugly (probably to lower those girls onto their level).

Are guys REALLY doing that?

How do you pick up attractive women if your face was torn off?

A few months ago, most of my face was torn off when I got in a motorcycle accident when I wasn’t wearing a helmet. I still have eyes, but pretty much everything below the eyes was ripped off (nose, cheeks, cheek bones, most of my lower jaw, part of my tongue, etc).

Anyway, I still have a good body, but prior to this, in addition to having a good build, I also had a good looking face, so it was easy for me to date very attractive women, which I did frequently. But now I don’t know how to do this, because I look something out of a horror movie.

I don’t really want to resort to prostitution, but I also am just not at all attracted to women who aren’t physically attractive, and I don’t think the pretty women will want to date me with my face being torn off.

What should I do? This is terrible!

How to attract women?

All the relationships I had in the past the girl either made the first move or I was drunk and dont rember. I am sober now and have no idea on how to meet women let alone attract them to me. I work out so I feel like im in good shape and im not dumb I mean i real alot and travel alot so i believe I can make an interesting conversation. All that dont matter when I am actually around an attractive women. So women out there got any pointers for me?

I am young, healhy, fit and working but find it hard to attract women….?

Im 25, have my own place, car and am a personal trainer and lifeguard but i find that whenever i go out i dont get any female attention or that i do get is form not the most attractive women. i think im a good looker and i know i have high standards but ind that when i meet women they dont seem interested. whats the best way for me to sort this out… and before you put it i know im shallow and hsould lower my standards and i do have a high level of self worth. i find it easy to chat to women but cant take the next step .

Any suggestions on how i can attract them and move friednships into relationships?

Women: how should men approach you?

I’m really really confused about how to walk up and talk to women. Women are usually very cold, aloof and not often very friendly to me and I don’t really understand why. I look nice, I’m not a jerk nor an overly nice guy. And I look and dress nice. I want to get over my fear of approaching women I don’t know, but I’m afraid women will be weirded out, since that’s how they often act if I ask them out.

Let’s say I’m at a nice mall, or on campus at my school, or a festival, just somewhere a lot of people are where it’s not unreasonable for a man to approach, but not a club or a bar. What is the best way to approach if I’m decent looking and dressed well?

The idea I had was if a girl is walking somewhere, to ask for directions, and if she in a friendly manner and I sense she won’t blow me off I’ll smile and say "Oh I know where it was, I just wanted to talk to you. But I had to see if you were friendly first!" and introduce myself. How would you respond to an approach like that? The other thing I want to do is just go up with a smile and say "Hi… you are just so cute, so of course I had to come talk to you."

I’m pretty shy so it’s going to be difficult for me, but I’m dead-set at getting over my fear of approaching attractive women. I hear from time to time that I’m handsome and should have a girlfriend but I just never approach anyone! I don’t want to meet girls at parties or bars or clubs because I’ve had nothing but bad luck with that. Any advice would be appreciated!
I know the obvious things, like hold eye contact, don’t stare at her breasts, smile, ask open ended questions, have a sense of humor, don’t be needy or beg for her number/a date, don’t talk about myself too much, etc. What else needs to be there for there to be chemistry?

How can girls sense a guy’s confidence when shyness gets in the way?

I think a reason why I am not good with women is that I’m generally quiet and shy around social settings (where you’d usually meet women) and I project the wrong vibe. I know women can really pick up on a guy’s confidence, but how? I mean, I think I’m good looking and that I have a lot to offer, it is just the talking/flirting with women is what I’m not smooth at. I wouldn’t say I get nervous around attractive women, I just am worried that I’ll seem less confident. I’ve been able to go up to cute girls in my college classes and ask them to work on school stuff etc. But they all end up acting distant and not very social afterwards, like I’m a creepy guy or something. They would never really say hi if I saw them outside of classes etc. It seems the girls I meet never get a good impression of me. I’m not sure how to improve myself when interacting with women so this stops happening, and I become the kind of guy girls like to be around, not just romantic interest but for friends too.

Should I use my job to pick up women?

I am a single man and I own a locksmith business. I frequently go out on re-keys (change locks) because of relationships ending. I usually meet friendly attractive women who are going through breakups and divorces. I would be interested in dating some of these women but I don’t know how to make the move from locksmith to asking them out. Is it inappropriate or creepy to ask them out? If it’s not, then how should I go about it? I have thought about calling these women back a few weeks later to see how they are doing but I don’t want to set off the creep meter. I’m average looking, funny, street and life smart. I’m just not sure on this one. What are your thoughts?

why don't women approach men more often?

I have a fear of talking to attractive women in person. So i started searching for help on how to get over this fear. I found it’s more common than i thought. but then i got to thinking, why is it the men that have to approach women? what’s wrong with a woman making the first move and starting the conversation?

*NOTE* If your reply is going to be criticizing me for my fear or just to say "get over it" then please don’t bother replying. I only want replies about my actual question.

how can i approach women just to be their friends w/o letting my sexual urges get in the way?

I have to learn how to do this in my new job as a doorman at a trendy bldg with dozens of young attractive women. As much as i can act like sexual thoughts dont cross my mind it does. And i think they are sensing this. But i really want to be friends with these women, how can i approach them, what types of things can i say. If i dont I wont be a good doorman and they dont deserve that. By the way i am single 26.

How as a younger guy(19) can I attract women 21-25 out?

I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls

Do all men want to be alpha males? In nature, of course, to maintain your status as an alpha male you have…?

…to be willing to fight off challengers to your throne. But say, you’re an alpha male who also happens to be an admirer of the principles of non-violence. Would you be willing to give up your throne in the practice of your beliefs of non-violence or would you fight to retain your status despite admiring the principles of non-violence?
a g: an alpha male is the dominant male in any group. men may want to become alpha males becuz they tend to get the most attractive women (physically speaking).

Men is it much harder for you to approach a good looking women over a cute one?

Do you feel intimidated by an attractive women?
Or do you have no problems approaching women of all types?

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