Need help with women?
Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women:
1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to build REAL attraction Read more...
I want to figure out how to attract an older woman, maybe at around 40. I am 20 years old, and I am a cute college kid. I am also very smart and sensitive. But I am very interested in attracting women of that age, 40ish or so. Many times the problem is I don’t know how to go about it. In a way, I do not know how these women think or how they feel. They just seem different than people my age and I can’t fully understand them. My question is, how do I start when trying to attract a woman of this age…and also what are the needs of a 40 year old, as well as what would she see in a cute 20 year old college kid (who is smart as well)… Some guidance would be appreciated, especially coming from the perspective of older women out there that want to provide comments.
Thanks a lot,
Ken
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I’m 42, fit, look about 10 yrs younger than my age (have problem attracting women too young) How young is too young for me? Maybe I need to move to a bigger city to meet an older single woman? Where are good places to meet them?
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Alright guys, this one’s for you. How many guys want to know the secret to gaining success, OR THINK they know the secret to succes in dating women?
It’s not as difficult as you may think it is. I finally get it now, which was like the sheep’s wool over my eyes that has been lifted.
So with this said, let me know what YOU think the secret is to gaining success with women.
Ladies, you can respond as well, and see how many guys are on to what it really takes.
I’ll give my answer and women can comment on my answer as well.
My answer is simply "CONFIDENCE". It doesn’t matter how rich, handsome, powerful you are; if you don’t have confidence, then you’ll never attract women. Women want a guy who is CONFIDENT in ALL situations, so that way she knows that HE is in complete control all the time.
If anyone wants any ideas for attracting women, please feel free to e-mail me at r_bogdewic@yahoo.com
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I’m looking for some creative ideas on attracting women like guitar or something like that, this girl I like really likes "unique" guys, you know musician types.
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I’ve heard of how guys try to find ways of attracting women, picking up "chicks" and being curious to know what women want but I’ve never seen this curiosity in women. Why don’t women ever go around trying to pick up guys or get curious about what guys want? There’s also the case where women seem to want sex with a guy as much as a guy does.
Just to restate that last sentence:
there’s also the case where women "don’t" seem to want sex as much as a guy does
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I am a gay male and I just wanted answers to know how to stop attracting women so I can hit on some cute guys instead.
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I stay single by choice yet people always think I dont know how to attract women or am not getting laid. Yet this is totally the opposite I have had married guys and guys with girl friends tell me how to get women and I think if you have to have a girl friend or get married to get laid you really know very little about attracting women.
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women always act as if sexual attraction is more than just looks for them and an unattractive guy still has a chance. but i don’t see how. if he tries to impress women or show interest, they feel harassed, but when he shows no interest, they don’t even know he exists. so what exactly are wee supposed to do?
women don’t want guys coming onto them or trying to impress them. they want to do the selecting themselves, but they only select the really hot guys.
money does NOT make women like you. it makes them like your walet.
julie m, i WOULD like to attract more than one women. not that i’d wanna date them or anything, i just feel better about myself knowing that women appreciate me as much as they appreciate other cute guys around my age.
top-secret, thanks a lot. but i only wish that was true. if that was true, i would not have to worry about how women treat unattractive guys and how unattractive guys can impress women.
julie i’ll give u a thumbs up. i believe in monogamy. i’m not interested in having multiple sex partners or anything like that. i’d just like women to have a better perception of me.
shivers, i’m not looking to impress 100% or women or anything and not even looking to be the guy that all the women are obsessed with. i’d just like to have the same status with women that a lot of guys my age have; women appreciate attention from them, they actually give them a chance and don’t write them off as unattractive at first sight, they don’t automatically assume they’re not the dating type, etc.
AGAIN, i am not interested in attracting women who are looking for a guy so they can get financial stability. i’m interested in being the guy women are attracted to NOT because they want something from him, but because they are interested in HIM.
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Like seriously the whole idea of attracting women and tips and trick on how to do it, sounds more like a game rather than guidiance. And im surprised as to why some girls who fall for the crap that guys learned from dating websites and asking questions. I see it the front of THe Yahoo main page all the time. Its riduculous. Sooner or later none of those tips and tricks are gonna work, because they have been exposed to all types of losers who want to get in and get out too. What do you think of it?
I think the entire media does this in general for people to get ideas of how to treat women.. A good example of this is the movie Hitch.
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Im in highschool and im just wondering what are some good methods of attracting women
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Ok i know the all the secrets of attracting women…and its all about personality and good self-confidence.
My problem is that I have very low self-esteem, low self-confidence, very shy, introverted, and come across as angry and embittered. So what is necessary to change my behavior (which I should not have to do if life were fair) to attract women. How does one gain self-confidence and self-esteem, when I have always thought low of myself? What sorts of thoughts and/or actions work in the realworld. I am lonely (no pets allowed in my apt, moving is not an option for at least another year), and i need help. I also could use some pointers on how to not think about women at all.
It would help if I could learn how to make friends (of either sex) again too…
What is St John’s Wort?
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Please tell me natural laws of attracting women.
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Over the years there have been hundreds of books written on the art (or accident) of attracting women, but most of them have managed to miss the point entirely. There is no magic phrase, hypnosis or fragrance that will attract any woman you meet. Different women look for different qualities in men they would consider dating, so it’s best to put away all of those James Bondian fantasies of instant seduction. If you want to be more attractive to women, you’re going to have to do the legwork yourself.
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I read this article about seducing and attracting women and women’s mind games women play… http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1360369/how_to_seduce_women_by_learning_how.html?cat=41
please give me your honest input… only serious answers please…
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I have issues with attracting women, I don’t know what is the right thing to say, how to act around them, how to sell myself with the woman market… I really need help, I am not ugly, or good looking I am just a typical joe. I have a job that pays just right, I have my own place, have my own car,single, no kids, on my mid 30′s…
Suggestions please I really need help.
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i guess there are guys out there who do have a hard time attracting women why do you think that is? do you think that it could somewhat the parents fault?
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im having problems attracting women im not that good looking btw im also 21yrs old and never had a real gf i just need to know what can i do i got the personality and im very sweet and shy
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I’m 17, fit (ish 4 pack lol), alright looking, and currently single. I’ve just moved to Hawaii, and am attending a new highschool, I’d appreciate any advice (regarding attracting women) you can throw at me providing it is useful. Thanks much, this is my first Yahoo Q btw.
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