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I tend to have a lot of trouble approaching women when I am at clubs or bars during the weekends. How should you approach a woman at a bar or club? I always make some excuse in my head and then go with it. F.ex.:"Nah, she is not that good looking anyway" (even though she is)
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I have problems approaching women. How do I start? Do I just walk up to them and say hello, simple as that? Or do I need to come up with some line to make them smile?
Lines are easy but using them at the right time, with the right tone, and the right vibe is just nearly impossible if it’s not sincere.
My question to you ladies. How would you like a guy to approach you if you see him across the room? If you are at least somewhat attracted to him, how would you like him to approach you without having feel minipulated?
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Sometimes when Im out at the nightclubs or bars, I see beautiful women everywhere naturally ofcourse. I never had a problem approaching women because they usually approach me first. Although ya know some chicks feel they to good to get up and go talk to a guy. So how do I approach a woman who’s beauty makes her intimidating? Also what are my chances usually in that kind of situation?
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How do normal guys get women? Im guessing alot of guys dont read on the internet how to get women. And some guys are really good with women, how do they know what to do?? What am i doing different then them. Anyone know how i can get better at approaching women with ease not being nervous at all and then getting them to like me?? WHY IS THIS SOO HARD
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Like the question above, i have trouble just approaching women in general, i don’t really know why because im not that bad looking (not trying to sound conceited ) but i have been having a reall tough time approaching women in general unless i’ve been around them a few times. any tips on ice breakers? convo starters? anything…
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Some people i know have no problems in approaching women in a bar/club etc etc but i somewhat find this hard to do. How can i be like this? Thank you.
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I am such a wimp….I am not bad looking, I have had quite a few attractive girlfirends in the past, but they usually approach me… I am such a coward when it comes to approaching women, how can I get some confidence?
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I am a little slow at understanding things when being shown how to do something or given an instruction and I took an iq test and get well below average. It affects my confidence when approaching women cause I am embarrassed of my disability.
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Why do women complain about how men go about approaching women, but don’t just take the reigns and start showing men how approaching is supposed to be done- by doing the approaching themselves?
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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I am what I would consider pretty short, 5’6”. I have always been a little self conscious about my height when it comes to approaching women. All of my relationships have been with shorter women, around 5’4” or so, but would like to pursue a woman who’s around 5’8”. So I was wondering if there is any reason for me to be nervous about pursuing a taller woman, or am I just overreacting about the whole height thing.
Be honest, advice from women preferred.
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i’ve been going out around 3 months quite heavily now, around twice a week, trying to meet someone special, go to several spots on a weekly basis, I actually feel alot more confident than when I first started, dancing etc, but my main weekness is approaching women at the club, sometimes when i’m dancing solo I think people start to wonder if i’m gay or something as i have spent a few nights now with no joy at the end of the night and they see this guy solo and think is he strange or smt? I feel i started off with more luck now, maybe I should try some diff spots? new faces new people then etc like a fresh start, the current places I go its actually quite easy to see the same faces over and over – any suggestions on how I should switch my game up? I usually go in shirt/jeans with boots, gelled hair etc, go to the spots that play my music as I can really get down to it on dancefloor, and feeling the vibe etc, I usually start dancing to the side of them subtley, any tips?
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I am always the one approaching women and engaging in conversation or asking them out to a movie or dinner or coffee. I don’t use pickup lines because they don’t work (other than for making the lady laugh maybe as an ice breaker) and they make you look and sound like an idiot.
My problem is that it takes 2 people that like EACH OTHER to get to the date. I just feel like I am approaching girls that I like, but they don’t like me in that way or aren’t attracted to me.
I figure that if a woman approached me, I would know that SHE was interested and then I could put forth the other 50%.
So my problem in a nutshell is that I am putting out MY 50% but not getting any back.
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Any suggestions on how to break in a conversation when approaching women?
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I thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
Ops. Wrong section…
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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i dont know what to say when it comes to approaching women and starting conversations
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I heard a lot that most men have fears from approaching women
if that is true so why women say there is a lot of hit on them ?
one of them is lying
@R P : you are right man
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believe it or not how you stand or walk when approaching women is a difference cause women can read body language very well. So when talking to a group of girls how should i stand when talking to them?
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I am decent looking, a professional, take care of myself and dress nice. I haven’t dated in almost ten years and have no nearby friends. I want to know how to approach women such as at a Starbucks or the gym. I smile but don’t get much response so I don’t pursue them as I feel like I would be bothering them. I feel helpless in this alot and worry that I may have missed my chance in life at falling in love. I would like advice from women on what they would suggest and any guys who have found ways to overcome this type of problem too. Thanks for your help!
Thanks for the advice. I know I fear alot with approaching women. I find it hard for them to even notice me and then sort of panick if and when they do. I will keep trying.
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My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’
In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.
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