How do you get a girl to like you is a fundamental question in a guy’s life.
I bet you have encountered guys who got the most successful, beautiful girls and left you astonished by their success. You couldn’t find anything outstanding about them and you are absolutely sure it is not jealousy that has blinded you.
These guys weren’t extremely smart or successful. There was nothing you could have pointed out and say that’s the reason why women fall at their feet. Nothing unusual about them and yet they had the secret code for cracking the essence of the question how do you get a girl to like you in an effortless manner.
Now, I know the clichés, we all know them about guys who are tough, playing it hard to get and hurt girls who keep on chasing after them begging for another rejection.
But those guys, I must ask myself, are they enjoying this unfertile dance? Maybe they do but I don’t see the point of getting a girl to like you if in the following day you don’t have the slightest interest in her.
A guy told me once that when he passes near a girl he fancies he look through her rather than at her. “Do that and that will do the job” he told me. Now maybe it works, we all suffer from this psychological bug as Graucho Marx famous quote implies: I do not want to belong to a club that accepts people like me.
However, these methods are not for me. I prefer staying naïve and authentic and get girls who like guys like me, who hasn’t lost a romantic point of view.
Anyway, the bottom line is I want a girl who is mature enough to appreciate my respectful attitude, my honesty and my ability to show affection.
I don’t want someone who is masochistic; a type of girl that wants a guy just because he doesn’t want her. I want someone stable though I must admit unstable girls also have their charms…
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Approaching women in bars is not difficult. A wingman can be helpful to break up a pair of girls or get them at your table, but going alone can be just fine. If you’re desperate, just leave. Girls can smell despiration a mile away. That has a small stink of desperation, and if the girls in the bar see you get rejected once, you’re pretty much shot for the night. Sit at the bar or at a small private table. You have your money on the table (it’s the closest item men have to attract "horny women"). Dress nice, in darker clothing (to appear dark, mysterious, etc.) Have a drink or two, and just watch the action. Scan the room. See who you want to have sex with. Sooner or later, girls are going to approach you. Wonder if you’re waiting on someone. Or if you’re just lonely. By not approaching, you’re not buying girls drinks that you have no chance with. Girls who approach you will likely sleep with you because you’ve already made the list of people they will sleep with. Now you just have to close the deal.
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im 18 and i havent had much luck with women, mainly going on dates,
i dont know where to look, and mainly how to approach complete strangers and ask them out, i am pretty shy so approaching women is hard for me, thanks
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I have problems approaching women. How do I start? Do I just walk up to them and say hello, simple as that? Or do I need to come up with some line to make them smile?
Lines are easy but using them at the right time, with the right tone, and the right vibe is just nearly impossible if it’s not sincere.
My question to you ladies. How would you like a guy to approach you if you see him across the room? If you are at least somewhat attracted to him, how would you like him to approach you without having feel minipulated?
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Hey everyone! My friend says latin america has a lot of women that approach men more often than men approaching women.
Tell me what you think!
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Do you feel intimidated by an attractive women?
Or do you have no problems approaching women of all types?
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I believe i could have more confidence approaching women if I had more experiance, how would you suggest i get more experiance and confidence approaching them?
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This also applies for the men in their 30’s as well.
I notice that approaching women in places like clubs, bars, grocery stores, and etc, only seem to work for men in their young twenties.
By their mid 20’s and older, women seem to ignore the public approach.
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women are drawn to the "alpha" male. I’ve never really gotten a hold of that concept. What is it? Is it a man that is physically appealing? Or is it a man with strong self-confidence? Or is it both? Can it be achieved by any man no matter how attractive or how ugly they are? How can a guy tell if they have the qualities of the "alpha" male? Can those traits be hidden within the man? I’m assuming when women say they are looking for MEN they are looking for the alpha males (guys with their heads on straight, take care of themselves) and Beta males are the boys. Or is this just a looks thing and if you’re genetically not attractive you are considered a beta male? If anyone of you have the time to explain it, would be greatly appreciated
Do alpha males need no approaching women? Or do they still need to do the work
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