Why do I keep attracting women who are poor communicators?

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I pride myself on my ability to communicate. All the relationships I’ve had over the past 11 years have been with women who are horrible communicators. Our relationships have ended due to their ultimate refusal to communicate. Of all the women I have dated, all but one has been sexually assaulted in the past; however, my current girlfirend has never been sexually assaulted…so that can’t be the common link.

When we date, they are great communicators; but once we get into a relationship & have a disagreement they shut down and refuse to talk. This ultimately makes me more upset, scared (that the relationship is over/ending). All I do is ask questions to find out how they are feeling, and then address their feelings…I don’t yell, curse, etc.

I’m starting to think there may be something wrong with me that I continue to attract women who don’t express their feelings.

Guys answer (girls take note) : If 2 guy friends like the same girl, how do you handle who gets the girl?

I’d like some guys to answer this question so that girls & women see how we handle "matters of the heart" when it comes to a situation like this. I think we do it a lot simpler (without any drama) than the females do, but my opinion alone doesn’t count. It’s my belief that we guys can still be friends regardless of who ends up with the girl. I just want to see if I’m on the same page as most other guys.
I can see that the girls are already making this a drama case. I’m not talking about deciding "who the girls gets", I’m talk about 2 male friends (just like 2 girls) who are interested in the same person, how do the friends decide what they should do. Why do women choose to complicate EVERYTHING? Please cut the drama, ladies.

How to get girls as friend…?

This is the type of person i am to a friend
i know when a Friend is felling down and what to say to make thing better
i know when to quit say a joke if it offends friend
when a friend is felling lonely even if i’m having fun i would go and cheer them up
i listen to there problems and care it with them (but many don’t do the same for me)
i’m smart
i say some dirty jokes because i’m a guy
i don’t lie (but i don’t always say the whole truth for a reason)
i don’t get mad easily and i think i look fairly well

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so whats wrong

How do I get a girl who is indecisive about dating girls to say yes to dating me?

Also, I’m a girl. This girl has said that she likes me but doesn’t know what to do about it since she’s not quite sure how to deal with being with another girl. She’s only had one other relationship with a girl & it didn’t end well. I’ve liked her for a few months now & she now knows this. What can I say to help make up her mind & show her that I’d be an amazing girlfriend to her?

Why do I keep attracting women who are poor communicators?

I pride myself on my ability to communicate. All the relationships I’ve had over the past 11 years have been with women who are horrible communicators. Our relationships have ended due to their ultimate refusal to communicate. Of all the women I have dated, all but one has been sexually assaulted in the past; however, my current girlfirend has never been sexually assaulted…so that can’t be the common link.

When we date, they are great communicators; but once we get into a relationship & have a disagreement they shut down and refuse to talk. This ultimately makes me more upset, scared (that the relationship is over/ending). All I do is ask questions to find out how they are feeling, and then address their feelings…I don’t yell, curse, etc.

I’m starting to think there may be something wrong with me that I continue to attract women who don’t express their feelings.

When settling down with a guy/girl, what are your deal breakers?

My deal breakers are that I want a large family (preferably 5 kids, but I’d go as low as 3) & I want to be treated right (no cheating, etc.) I’d like to get married, too.

What are your deal breakers?

my would-be-wife doesn't mind me sleeping with other women? is this good or completely abnormal?

i am getting married end of this month. but she tells me she doesn’t mind me having girlfriends after marriage. she doesn’t mind if i am would be in a different r’ship with a different woman or if i am just having casual sex with other women. she says i can do it if it makes me happy. and she says she will stay with me till death. however, i am very crap actually when it comes to picking up women for sex. i am an introvert & a long-term r’ship guy.

how strange is this?

How do you get a girl to fall for you little by little?

There’s this girl i like and we work together in the mall. Were not really Close friends but we are friends & we talk to each other when we work together and i gave her a ride to her house one time. How can i get her to like me so that maybe one day in the future i can be ready to ask her to be my girlfriend?

What is the best way to approach a girl, and start a conversation with her?

I really don’t have much experience with picking up women. And there is this girl, whom I see in my community college, in between my Biology Class & my Biology Lab. ( we have class for an hour in a room, and then change rooms for a lab… but in between there is a 10 minute opening).

How do I approach and start a conversation with her?

Girls: How to curl your hair without a hair curler? (Emergency)?

I have a vocals concert today (and i have to sing solo-eep!) & i need to curl my hair. I broke my curler last week, and i really don’t have time to go and get a new one before 4pm (when my show is).

Anyone know how to curl hair without using a hair curler?
i mean im sitting here, and ive washed my hair about 8 times today because i’ve used every chemical sitting on my vanity, and nothing works! help!

Doing research for a client has made me ask this: How can straight men & women be attracted to MtF/FtM tg's?

I was doing research for a client’s report (I do freelance research and information compilation) and I came across some articles about how some heterosexual men & women are attracted to Male to Female & Female to Male pre-op transgenders but yet the aforementioned groups arent into homosexuals.

How can they be into pre-op men and women and yet not into homo-sexual men and women if the… equipment remains the same.

Girls:How long does it take you to get ready?

Shower-20 mins.
Blow Dry-15 mins.
Straighten my hair-20 mins.
Make-up-10 mins.
Clothes&Jewelry-10 mins.
All together I take an hour and 5 mintues.
My hair isn’t really to curly but super thick!

when a guy bemoans the fact that he is unable to attract women for casual affairs and sex, he is told by women?

that its because he hasnt got confidence, self-esteem, charm, is too boring etc.

QUESTION

(1) just how much confidence & self esteem are we talking about here?

(2) and what happens to this requirements of confidence and self-esteem when women are looking to settle down
you wont admit the truth. you women have major ego problems.

the guy gets all the glory the more he can score While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a wh0re?

I don’t understand why it’s ok,
The guy can get away with it & the girl gets named whore.
If the guy has three girls then he’s the man ,He can either give us some head, and sex her off,
yet If the girl does the same, then she’s a whore

How can I decorate my room to attract women?

First off let me give you a background. I’m a 22yr old male that is an only child & still living at home for 1 more year. Recently I have realized that I have been babied most of my life, leading me to not be a very mature man at the moment. However, I know I will be moving out relatively soon and I want to get the process of becoming a more mature person started before it’s too late. Obviously that entails a lot of areas of my life, but the specific question I have for everyone is how can I re-decorate my room in order to be more attractive to women? Basically when I have a girl over I want to make her feel safe, comfortable, attraction, and for her to think I’m an interesting mature man who is comfortable with himself. I really do mean this, so any help would be great!
As a side note to help those who are answering this question- my style typically is very sporty. I’m a college student & majoring in PE which is very fitting because I love to take charge and love sports. My current assessment of my room would be that its very clean & organized, but still very young boyish (my PS3, Super Nintendo.. lol). Also that it’s probably too over the top sports wise (trophies, posters, autographed pictures, etc.) I know that change is something that I really want, so thanks in advance for any well thought out and brutally honest answers!!! =)

How to Approach Women on the Train?

How & What is the best way to Approach women on the train without coming off as needy or Weird.

Also When on the train what Good Body Language signs will the woman give if she wants to be Approached?, How do you NOT Screw up the Approach?, & Finally how to know if a Woman is Attracted to you on the Train?

Thank You and Please Answer these Questions to your Full Capability

how get this girls makeup?

shes just gorgeus:) and i wonder how to get this look? and please dont be mean

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no for halloween but thank u so much:)
omg sorry i meant the one in the middle

How to Approach Women on the Train?

How & What is the best way to Approach women on the train without coming off as needy or Weird.

Also When on the train what Good Body Language signs will the woman give if she wants to be Approached?, How do you NOT Screw up the Approach?, & Finally how to know if a Woman is Attracted to you on the Train?

Thank You and Please Answer these Questions to your Full Capability

Can this job attract women? lOL….?

I’m planning to go into Economics & Management Science (in a university in Toronto) -
1- How’s the salary?
2- How is the job market for ppl at the BA level? it’ll be long till i get my MA, so how’s the BA level,
3- what jobs are there (BA)
4- wuts the job security (and jobmarket outlook for the future)..
thanks

Ps. this is in Singles cuz 1st: Women care about a man’s job
2ns: Without money u cannot date anyone thus u’ll die alone
3rd: Most Women love $$
Please keep in mind that I’m planning to work in TORONTO ONTARIO (not in usa or other partsof Canada)

How to get RID of body hair?

I have A LOT of body hair and GIRLS(thats right im a girl) shoul no have this many. Can you tell me how to get rid of body hair (legs&arms) that WONT grow more, and will totally disappear after a few times. LIKE WAXING, but a homemade remedy…simple one. MAKE SURE THAT IF I USE IT, MY ARMS AND LEGS’s hair WONT grow MORE that what it used to be.
10points

What's that movie with the guy that gets hit by the bus? Is it Meet Joe Black?

I can’t remember all the details, but its a romance and the guy & girl meet in a restaurant/bar and have an instant connection, leave and walk away from each other. They each look over their shoulders back at the other one, but at different times. Then one of them (I think it’s the guy) steps out in front of a bus and shocks the audience SOOO completely! I want to say it’s Meet Joe Black, but I can’t remember. How did that play into the rest of the movie?

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