Are you an alpha male? Please define this term for me.
I’m talking about men!
I don’t want to know about apes or wolf packs.
Candi Apples: What is the Y&R?
What are examples of a "disrespectful" approach compared to a "respectful one"?
Do you think these guys are often times successful in picking up women, that they don’t have incentive enough to want to change?
Could some women actually prefer this approach & think its cool & consider a more gentemenly approach "corny"or "lame".
While many men state that they love women, are attracted to women, etc… why do women think (or pretend to think) that men are unattractive? Is it foolish pride on women’s part to hate to admit they find men attractive?
On one response to another question, one woman said she only finds 0.1% of men to be "sexy". Is that true?
Why do women hate admitting that they’re attracted to the opposite sex?
My theory:
It seems like a lot of women try to act like men are unattractive.
I think this has something to do with a "power" move by many women, as women want to hold the upper-hand and the position of power regarding sex & attraction, so they act like most guys are disgusting and unattractive. To many of these women, suggesting that a man is "sexy" or "gorgeous" is a means of submission to the opposite sex.
Men on the other hand do not care about this power ploy, as they find it trivial; and readily state that many of these women are "hot" and attractive.
Here’s the other question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnuE2oCWySP3e19MtOJng1cYxgt.?qid=20070730111744AAxvtME
moxie_slacker: You seem annoyed and upset. Perhaps because I told the truth and struck a nerve? Instead of making personal attacks against me like a child; how about addressing the issue instead?
I’m a "random dude online", and you’re a random chick online. Your point?
I’m not talking about "all women being interested in men"… I’m talking about so-called heterosexual women that hate to admit they find men attractive. Moxie, it’s safe to say that you fit the description in my question, as you are also an arrogant narcissit that feels insecure about stating she finds men attractive.
You mad? LOL
Let me also state the premise:
Men like to feel desired… just about as much as women.
Many women fail at the ability to make her man feel desirable. Truth. Men continuously go on about "hot" women, and women enjoy this attention, despite the fact that many women pretend this attention is unwanted. She likes to feel desired.
Delicious: Wow! The first truthful and honest post on this question so far!
As far as men being called "players" and "studs" when having sex with many women, whereas a woman is seen as a "s.lut" and a "ho" for doing the same — well, that is something I want to go in to later (perhaps a different question). However, I will say that this notion is fair? Why? For one, with all of the perks and advantages a woman gets in the dating/sex scene, why do women want to keep all of their perks, yet want to "even out" the few perks men get? Is that unfair?
The reason why men are congratulated and admired when they have sex with many women, is that MEN are the ones that have to WORK HARDEST for the sex, have to almost always initiate conversation and make the first move… this is a lot of pressure put on the men. A woman that wants sex is guaranteed to get sex and she doesn’t have to work hard for it, other than drop a few hints. Since it’s so much harder for a man to get sex, it’s only fair
moxie_slacker: Why would I not "like" you. I don’t even KNOW you. This is the first time I’ve ever seen your screen name, and you’re already saying I have something against you. I think you put way too much importance on yourself. As far as you being a "s.lut", well that was TMI on your part, since I never asked. But, alas, that description of you is not at all surprising. Also, no one said anything about whether you’re "smart" or not. The fact that you have to announce such a thing speaks volumes of your own insecurity.
I have no problem with women, just the misandry from women that goes on.
Yes, I was going to respond because I always respond when false accusations about me are made. I stand up to lies and libel. That’s just who I am.
I am UNDERWEIGHT(5`9 tall and 105 pounds) and I want to get a girl to like me/get a girlfriend. But it seems like EVERY girl hates skinny guys like me. So how can I get a girl(and other people) to see past that appearance and see the real me inside? Is this even possible?
Here is a picture of me if you wanna see for yourself:
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=490877905&albumID=487352&imageID=6120495
And it seems like this appearance is genetic, so I can’t change it no matter how much I eat or exercise, and I do both A LOT.
I met this girl through her cousin and I know for a fact that she likes me. And I like her a lot too. But when I see her how can get her alone to tell her I like her & love for her to go out with me
Hey men my girl wants me to work her hard and she likes hip hop, nor the slow R&B, do you have any suggestions of nasty hip hop songs?
When I approach a woman and start talking to her I ask her where she works and what area. then I say I have to go to the toilet, get my diary & pen, put her name in, where she works and the location so the next day I can ring her up at work and talk to her and ask her out.
I have a crush, but I’m not sure i she likes me. I’ve got the feeling she does. when i told her about a plan to prove that im not trash to people who called me that, she was worried that if i got expelled. and when i said i might go to another school she was worried like crazy too.
I want to know if she likes me or not. and how should i get her heart?
Well i told her i like her, but i dun think it’s a good thing to say that i want to be with her.
oh yeah. im not that popular and people act like im a puppet.
i dun dare face her and the way we contact is by IMing with skype.
you can get her picture here
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=611121&op=1&o=global&view=global&subj=1014584601&id=1014584601
the one on the left
and she’s the counselor type girl. and she’s pretty populer
Y’know, those seminars (books, etc..), similar to Tom Cruise in Magnolia, where a guy inspires and teaches men about how ineffective their natural instincts & logic are for picking up women. They teach how to become an alpha male and use techniques that take advantage of more lamentable parts of women’s nature. I’ve heard that there’s a disproportionate amount of men that grew up without a father involved in that kind of thing. My feeling on it is that the techniques might work, but what kind of woman are you going to end up with?
I grew up in the North and now I live in the South. I seem to be having a hard time getting a girlfriend, and I’m not sure what the problem is. I’m a muscular guy and I notice women checking me out & I know I’m not Fugly. I admit I’m a bit shy to start a conversation, but once I’m in a conversation I have no problem talking. And I really don’t want be like most of the guys in the area who seem to hit on anything with 2 legs and a croch. The funny part is that everytime I head back north to visit family and friends, I have women hit on me all the time. What is the deal?
Is this true? we have a 3yr old child & are ttc#2 but are so hoping that we get a Girl next, but my boyfriend has a little bit of a low sperm count, can someone please explain to me how often we would need to have sex & when to stop PRIOR to ovulation? since he has a low sperm count & want to conceive a Girl, …well then how often would we need to have sex? & to also conceive that Girl! …
I frequent coffee shops and go to Barnes & Noble often. Usually, I will see beautiful young women at these places, seated at tables there. How do I approach them to start a conversation without appearing creepy? What do I say to them? What do I talk to them about? I would especially appreciate answers from women. I want to meet single women, but do not want to offend them or appear creepy.
