How to flirt with a girl

How to flirt with a girl is a question that occupies my mind every now and then, usually when I recognize an opportunity for an acquaintance, recruit all my wits and charms, gather my thoughts and go with high confidence towards my destination and still in spite all the efforts the opportunity often slips away because of some concealed ingredient in the communication equation.

First of all I must admit I don’t believe that flirting with a girl is a technical thing. Today you can find a book about everything: how to raise children, how to live well, ten ways to success etc…We want a manual for everything, a magic receipt so we can get what we want without sweating, without a changing process.

Well, everybody can write a manual handful of tips about how to flirt with a girl; telling you to be funny, smart, courageous, generous and charming.  I guess if you felt you possess these qualities you would be the one to write a booklet of tips and advices.

Now I am not saying those advices can not be helpful; awareness is an important thing and acquiring awareness will help one in each and every aspect of his life.

So of course when you want to flirt with a girl being aware of your messages, of your body language, of the feeling you evoke will help you transmit the right messages.

The thing is acquiring awareness is a long process of self observation, growing up, understanding your needs, knowing how to identify your own emotions and recognizing the person’s you interact with emotions.

Going through this process will buy you good communication skills: with your relatives, with your friends, employers and also with complete strangers; strangers, who can potentially become your intimate partners, if only you could learn how to communicate properly.

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Hi, personally I am turned off by alpha males. You know, the type of guys who think their God’s gift to women, who are arrogant, cocky, who’s main purpose in life is to position themselves in places of power. Nothing annoys me more then a man without at least some degree of modesty.
I’ve always been sexually attracted to men who are kind, self-confident, intelligent, and sometimes shy. I find it charming and mysterious. I think there must be allot of women out there who are like me who if they were with an alpha male they would end up killing one another within a week.
How many women or gay men are attracted to alpha males?
If you are why?
If your not why?

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i just met this man who is Alpha Male i am a Alpha Female and i don’t like people coming in my house and taking control which is what he is trying to do i asked him ‘what does he think he is doing’
all he said was i am Alpha Male and i told him ‘yer i don’t give a shit’ and laughed and took over after a scuffle. my question is can this work?
Alpha Male out there would u go out with an Alpha Female?
What kind of Women do Alpha Males go for?

JUST ASKING OUT OF CURIOSITY

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… supposed to actually mean

Can you define the term in the context of a group of males

and in the context of a mixed gender group

How would an alpha male be defined in these two instances?
SO PHIL FLOWERS: by definition a gay man can be the alpha male in the midst of a bunch of heterosexual males?

i.e. here on GWS?

or in the army?
I love your name by the way.
Yes Phil Flowers: Interestingly several American Presidents are said to have been gay not least of whom was Abraham Lincoln.
I have no proof of course but many historians say this is the case.
DESIRE: LOL at what you said. Of course a gay man can be the alpha male of the group.
What a weird thing for you to say!
lmao
*Trevor puts on his robes made of slaughtered elephants and tigers and sharks and dons his alpha badge and demands that the guards remove Untamed Rose and take her to the Tower for ‘deprogramming’*
UNTAMED ROSE: Oooooh! I do love me some firefighter or cop. Loads of ‘em here in SF that are alpha gays.
PHIL FLOWERS I have been tempted to give you a thumbs down for all the references to gay alpha males who have been mass murderers or ‘troublesome’ in government but perhaps you are just doing this subconsciously and if I point it out to you you can come up with some more positive examples of gay alpha males?

THANKS!
Miss Flowers: I was referring to your reference to Hitler and the "troublesome" members of parliament.
Miss Flowers: Be Silent. You’re boring me

*files nails*

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…to be willing to fight off challengers to your throne. But say, you’re an alpha male who also happens to be an admirer of the principles of non-violence. Would you be willing to give up your throne in the practice of your beliefs of non-violence or would you fight to retain your status despite admiring the principles of non-violence?
a g: an alpha male is the dominant male in any group. men may want to become alpha males becuz they tend to get the most attractive women (physically speaking).

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Is the fact that society frowns upon a relationship between an older man and a younger woman rooted in women’s rivalry over picking alpha-males? Men seem to have no problem with the concept.

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I’m getting tired of seeing all these girly-men get pushed around by women. As an Alpha male I can lead them and give them advice, but my power ends once they leave my sight. The only other way to fix this problem is to train girly-men to be Alpha males.

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women are drawn to the "alpha" male. I’ve never really gotten a hold of that concept. What is it? Is it a man that is physically appealing? Or is it a man with strong self-confidence? Or is it both? Can it be achieved by any man no matter how attractive or how ugly they are? How can a guy tell if they have the qualities of the "alpha" male? Can those traits be hidden within the man? I’m assuming when women say they are looking for MEN they are looking for the alpha males (guys with their heads on straight, take care of themselves) and Beta males are the boys. Or is this just a looks thing and if you’re genetically not attractive you are considered a beta male? If anyone of you have the time to explain it, would be greatly appreciated
Do alpha males need no approaching women? Or do they still need to do the work

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