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1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
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Problems With Premature Ejaculation

It’s possible that your husband’s rapid ejaculation has gotten him so down that he’s withdrawing from sex. If so, that can be easily remedied. Quite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much more interested in sex. And even if he doesn’t, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.

Faced with involuntary ejaculation, most men try to distract themselves during intercourse, believing that by thinking about other things, they can trick themselves into lasting longer. Usually, that only makes things worse.

Don’t tune out your body. TUNE INTO IT. You need to become more familiar with your different levels of sexual arousal. You also need to recognize how you feel as you approach your point of ejaculatory inevitability, the “point of no return.” Once you recognize how you feel close to your point of no return, it’s not difficult to make small sexual adjustments that allow you to remain highly aroused without ejaculating.

Sexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation.

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How do you get a girl to like you?

How do you get a girl to like you is a fundamental question in a guy’s life.

I bet you have encountered guys who got the most successful, beautiful girls and left you astonished by their success. You couldn’t find anything outstanding about them and you are absolutely sure it is not jealousy that has blinded you.

These guys weren’t extremely smart or successful. There was nothing you could have pointed out and say that’s the reason why women fall at their feet. Nothing unusual about them and yet they had the secret code for cracking the essence of the question how do you get a girl to like you in an effortless manner.

Now, I know the clichés, we all know them about guys who are tough, playing it hard to get and hurt girls who keep on chasing after them begging for another rejection.

But those guys, I must ask myself, are they enjoying this unfertile dance? Maybe they do but I don’t see the point of getting a girl to like you if in the following day you don’t have the slightest interest in her.

A guy told me once that when he passes near a girl he fancies he look through her rather than at her. “Do that and that will do the job” he told me. Now maybe it works, we all suffer from this psychological bug as Graucho Marx famous quote implies: I do not want to belong to a club that accepts people like me.

However, these methods are not for me. I prefer staying naïve and authentic and get girls who like guys like me, who hasn’t lost a romantic point of view.

Anyway, the bottom line is I want a girl who is mature enough to appreciate my respectful attitude, my honesty and my ability to show affection.

I don’t want someone who is masochistic; a type of girl that wants a guy just because he doesn’t want her. I want someone stable though I must admit unstable girls also have their charms…

How to flirt with a girl

How to flirt with a girl is a question that occupies my mind every now and then, usually when I recognize an opportunity for an acquaintance, recruit all my wits and charms, gather my thoughts and go with high confidence towards my destination and still in spite all the efforts the opportunity often slips away because of some concealed ingredient in the communication equation.

First of all I must admit I don’t believe that flirting with a girl is a technical thing. Today you can find a book about everything: how to raise children, how to live well, ten ways to success etc…We want a manual for everything, a magic receipt so we can get what we want without sweating, without a changing process.

Well, everybody can write a manual handful of tips about how to flirt with a girl; telling you to be funny, smart, courageous, generous and charming.  I guess if you felt you possess these qualities you would be the one to write a booklet of tips and advices.

Now I am not saying those advices can not be helpful; awareness is an important thing and acquiring awareness will help one in each and every aspect of his life.

So of course when you want to flirt with a girl being aware of your messages, of your body language, of the feeling you evoke will help you transmit the right messages.

The thing is acquiring awareness is a long process of self observation, growing up, understanding your needs, knowing how to identify your own emotions and recognizing the person’s you interact with emotions.

Going through this process will buy you good communication skills: with your relatives, with your friends, employers and also with complete strangers; strangers, who can potentially become your intimate partners, if only you could learn how to communicate properly.

Hi, personally I am turned off by alpha males. You know, the type of guys who think their God’s gift to women, who are arrogant, cocky, who’s main purpose in life is to position themselves in places of power. Nothing annoys me more then a man without at least some degree of modesty.
I’ve always been sexually attracted to men who are kind, self-confident, intelligent, and sometimes shy. I find it charming and mysterious. I think there must be allot of women out there who are like me who if they were with an alpha male they would end up killing one another within a week.
How many women or gay men are attracted to alpha males?
If you are why?
If your not why?

Are you an alpha male? Please define this term for me.

I’m talking about men!
I don’t want to know about apes or wolf packs.
Candi Apples: What is the Y&R?

i just met this man who is Alpha Male i am a Alpha Female and i don’t like people coming in my house and taking control which is what he is trying to do i asked him ‘what does he think he is doing’
all he said was i am Alpha Male and i told him ‘yer i don’t give a shit’ and laughed and took over after a scuffle. my question is can this work?
Alpha Male out there would u go out with an Alpha Female?
What kind of Women do Alpha Males go for?

JUST ASKING OUT OF CURIOSITY

… supposed to actually mean

Can you define the term in the context of a group of males

and in the context of a mixed gender group

How would an alpha male be defined in these two instances?
SO PHIL FLOWERS: by definition a gay man can be the alpha male in the midst of a bunch of heterosexual males?

i.e. here on GWS?

or in the army?
I love your name by the way.
Yes Phil Flowers: Interestingly several American Presidents are said to have been gay not least of whom was Abraham Lincoln.
I have no proof of course but many historians say this is the case.
DESIRE: LOL at what you said. Of course a gay man can be the alpha male of the group.
What a weird thing for you to say!
lmao
*Trevor puts on his robes made of slaughtered elephants and tigers and sharks and dons his alpha badge and demands that the guards remove Untamed Rose and take her to the Tower for ‘deprogramming’*
UNTAMED ROSE: Oooooh! I do love me some firefighter or cop. Loads of ‘em here in SF that are alpha gays.
PHIL FLOWERS I have been tempted to give you a thumbs down for all the references to gay alpha males who have been mass murderers or ‘troublesome’ in government but perhaps you are just doing this subconsciously and if I point it out to you you can come up with some more positive examples of gay alpha males?

THANKS!
Miss Flowers: I was referring to your reference to Hitler and the "troublesome" members of parliament.
Miss Flowers: Be Silent. You’re boring me

*files nails*

…to be willing to fight off challengers to your throne. But say, you’re an alpha male who also happens to be an admirer of the principles of non-violence. Would you be willing to give up your throne in the practice of your beliefs of non-violence or would you fight to retain your status despite admiring the principles of non-violence?
a g: an alpha male is the dominant male in any group. men may want to become alpha males becuz they tend to get the most attractive women (physically speaking).

one time, composer richard wagner had sex with a man’s wife, and the man truthfully said he felt honored. now i don’t know if wagner was a true alpha male, but presuming he was – or just assuming somebody else

what do you suppose its like to be pursued, seduced, and bedded by a man who is truely on top of the game – so much so that even a guy that you’re with is blown away . . . ?

The more I live, the more I see, the more I learn, it seems apparent that the alpha male always gets the girl.
However, if it is not in your nature and you actually possess more than 3 brain cells, and look beyond self centredness and purely sexual conquests, then why do these men lose women?
It seems the worse you treat a woman, the more likely she is to stay with you. Is it that women generally have no respect for themselves? Or is some other sinister instinctual psychology at play?

I think we should be told.

Hi-I’d like to know, how do you say, a "man among man" in Japanese, besides:

男の中の男 (exp) man among men; manly man; alpha male

and

臥龍; 臥竜 ?

Please let me know and please list as any terms as possible. Thank you. :D

i used to like this guy at work – i would call him the alpha male – "handsome", quite, amazingly intelligent (becoz of the work he does ), early 30′s and married. he was kind of mean to me to begin with and when i found out he was taken i was hurt and i backed off. but later he started treating me a bit decent until i began to like him again. I know it was my fault – i wanted to let go but he played games with me too. now when he found out that i was leaving work – he seemed disgusted by me just becoz i asked him if i could say hi to him sometimes thru email. i suppose he was shocked that how dare i assume i could say hi to him – he is "the man" after all i guess. I am just hurt – i am not a bad looking chick but my self esteem has gone out of the window. i suppose i came across desperate becoz at some point i started liking his friend when i realized he was taken. but i never did anything indecent. did he thinki was slutty ? i wrote him some dumb emails – telling him that i was sorry.
well i am just wondering what impression did i give him ?did i come acrosss slutty or desperate ?
i need a guy’s point of view – what did he think i was after ? some guy told me he thought that i was coming on to him. and he is a gentleman.. very decent guy in my point of view

I’m getting tired of seeing all these girly-men get pushed around by women. As an Alpha male I can lead them and give them advice, but my power ends once they leave my sight. The only other way to fix this problem is to train girly-men to be Alpha males.

The alpha male who’s dominate but lacks everything else.

Answer truthfully if possible. Please don’t just say what sounds right.

which do you prefer to have as boyfriend/husband?

alpha male = a protector, a thropy
man of intelligence = a provider, intelligent

  
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