I'm a fat shy guy, how do i pick up a woman? And also, I'm a virgin at 26, i don't meet drunks in a bar.?

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I havent dated since high school, im 320lbs, although i am still athletic(kind of). I wont got to clubs or bars because i drink very ocasionaly and dont need a woman that drinks alot. And i am very shy. I once tryed to hit on a woman in a dance club, but i was shy, stuttering and sweating. What do I do, am I destined to die a virgin or can i be helped?

How can i get my girlfriend to love me again? =( (girls please help)?

OK me and my girlfriend have been together a couple of months. My Girlfriend told me about a month ago that she didn’t feel the same way she did in the beginning i don’t understand what she means by this because its not like im someone new in her life we’ve been friends for years. well anyway were still together but we haven’t gotten past this because shes unsure and doesn’t know what to do.

before anyone asks no i haven’t done anything wrong, but i do love her alot and have since the beginning. can anyone help me cause i really don’t know what to do, i want her back and i dont know how long i can give her because even thought i love her, i cant take much more of this uncertainty. i know what i want and i know at one point so did she because i know and because she talked about our future together.

oh and im currently studying in another state but do visit when possible.

*** if you think it has to do with excitement can you give me any ideas to get the spark back (if your a girl whats something you would love your boyfriend to do for you??)

How do regular guys get women?

How do normal guys get women? Im guessing alot of guys dont read on the internet how to get women. And some guys are really good with women, how do they know what to do?? What am i doing different then them. Anyone know how i can get better at approaching women with ease not being nervous at all and then getting them to like me?? WHY IS THIS SOO HARD

Women: do you go out with guys who approach you?

I feel like with dating as women we get the short end of the stick, and i mean that because i feel like alot of us just settle for guys who approach us instead of guys we are interested in and attracted too. Why are women these days so scared to approach men they are interested in? Why is it in a sense that most of us just settle for tom dick and harry because they asked us out. When Bob down the street is our type but we chicken out cause he never approached us..

im just wondering why this seems to be the case.. I always feel as if i attract the wrong type of guys and the guys that i want seem to be less aggressive when it comes to approaching and due to social "norms" i miss out since i dont want to come across as "desperate" initiating advances with a guy.

Any women had any luck approaching a guy that YOU like? or do you just sit and wait for him to do it? how do you get the guy that you like to approach you? instead of Tommy down the street who you completly dislike, approach you and ask you out? i always get the Tommy type of guys instead of the guy i like. =(

Reason why ive had such terrible luck with guys.. im very particular and i do not want to settle for less.. Ive rejected so many dinner dates and what not simply because i dont want to settle for the guy other than the one i want. (yes i have a particular guy in mind) but the guy i like does not seem to be the one to approach women… i dont think ive ever seen him with a girlfriend.. or approach a girl. I know he is not gay.. he just i think lacks social skills or courting skills and i certainly dont want to be in a position where i am the one making all the moves for him because he lacks proper skills to court a women.. no way.. but i do like him. And i dont know what to do.. i guess im into him cause he is not a "player" like most guys and i want to be his first (he is a virgin). But at the same time i dont want to be the one making all the first moves. I am not a virgin and ive dated before so i dont know what to expect with someone who has never had sex and who hasn’t dated much.
@ meow kitty, you know judging by your name/avatar i would not be surprised if you do that.. lmao.

Shyness! I am a nice but shy 43 year old man. I don't know how to approach women to meet them. Advice?

I am decent looking, a professional, take care of myself and dress nice. I haven’t dated in almost ten years and have no nearby friends. I want to know how to approach women such as at a Starbucks or the gym. I smile but don’t get much response so I don’t pursue them as I feel like I would be bothering them. I feel helpless in this alot and worry that I may have missed my chance in life at falling in love. I would like advice from women on what they would suggest and any guys who have found ways to overcome this type of problem too. Thanks for your help!
Thanks for the advice. I know I fear alot with approaching women. I find it hard for them to even notice me and then sort of panick if and when they do. I will keep trying.

How to get girl back, please help?

I never love a girl like dis before, We have been arguing alot and the past few weeks we have not been seeing each other and barly talkin, She still have my ring on and have my name tatted, I just found out that she erase my number and now got another guy number save under hubby, I see that they been calling each other a lot but they was only 1 minute calls. I caught her up and she still will not admit to it, everytime I ask she will say I dnt know wat u talking bout. She just text me and said she love me and want to be good friends. But I don’t want that. Even though she cheated I played a role in that to by always picking arguments, and smothering her, Now I cnt stop feeling sad and she won’t respond to my text. Do you think she will be back, wat should I do? How do I bring that spark back? Please give me sum real opinions

Whats the best way to approach a woman at a bar if you actually want to be friends with her?

Sounds weird, but after spending alot of time at bars approaching women with the intention of picking her up, how do I just get into the friend zone without her thinking I’m a nerd who’s just practising on her?

Girls only!:Do any girls know how to stop or help when you have a vagina gets to wet all the time?

I really don’t mean to be sick it just I am sick of this.I don’t even have to be turned on and I start to get really wet and it bugs.Some times it’s hard to tell if I started my period or just Iam wet again. So I am like always running to the bath room to check.Sometime I cant though cause Iam in the car or I am at the store and I hate having to go to the bathroom to check when most the time it just me really wet again. Also it makes it really hard to keep it clean when I get this way. So please people don’t be mean! Iam not trying to be sick I just need a little help.
I know I could wear a panty liner but I hate feeling like Iam wearing a pad.Pluss I have a fiancee what if he get to close down there and can feel the liner. I don’t like that alot, it make me feel inbarest. Is there any other way to help?Or is a panty liner all I can do?

How can I be more confident to approach women?

Im kind of having a hard time building confidence to talk to a girl. I mean Ive gotten alot of comments on saying that "Im cute" lol and things like that but I cant seem to get enough confidence to go up and talk to a girl. Its more of a problem I dont really know how to approach them and what to say. Any help?

i need help getting with a girl that doesn’t want to be in a relationship or doesn’t like me?

and i need to know a way for me to go out with her because i really like her alot.!

How do you know if your just not another girl to a guy?

Like when a guy says he likes you.
But hes been with alot of girls and you dont wanna be just another girl to him.How do you know your just not another girl he says he likes?

What to do when you like a girl that just got out of bad relationship she was in for 4 years?

Hi all,

I need your help. I like this girl that just got out of a bad relationship she was in for 4 years. It has only been like 5 days that they have broken up. We used to hang out like a couple years back and she know that I like her and still does right now.

I always think about her from time to time and then a week ago while I was walking home. I saw here sitting there with her shoulder slouched and was just very emotional and depressed. The only thing that was going through my mind was that I was so very happy seeing her and just gave her big warm hugged. As we were sitting and talking. She told me she moved in right there, which is just a couple of walk from my place. She also said she just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years 5 days ago.

As we went out to eat, she was telling how bad her ex treated her and that she’s always crying, even at work, constantly. She wrote me a letter after, thanking me for making her feel beautiful and appreciated. because she said she hasn’t felt that in three years. I really do think she very beautiful inside and out. We hung out a couple of time and it felt very nice. Feels like we were couple. I hugged her and she did the same. We hold hands. We kissed, etc.

So yesterday, she told me that she feel like we were rushing things and that she just broke up with her ex and didn’t have time to herself to reflect and heal. She said she really want that and hope that I can respect that. She know that I liked her alot.

Right now she is struggling with everything, emotionally, financially, and health. I do care about her very much and don’t want to be the rebound guy. I really want to start a long term relationship with her, because I really care about her, even more than myself. What should I do. How often should I call. How often should I check up on her. Can someone let me know step by step on what I should do to make her my girlfriend. I really like her and care about her deeply and it just feels natural for me to make her happy, Thank you for taking the time to read my story and any advice will help.

How do you get your best friend to realize that the girl he is datin is in no way good for him?

ok so my bestfreind of nine years is datin this girl that i really hate…i know that is a strong word but i really do..he is in the army and for six months was in basic training…so they have really only seen each other while datin for about 7 or 8 months…the whole time he was at basic she was partying and cheatin on him..she told him she only cheated twice but i know more than that..i have told him that she is childish b/c he is 20 and she is 17 with two more years of high school..he still will not listen to anyone of his friends…he broke up with her for a month and was datin me but then we decided it was to weird…then he said he would wait a while before gettin back with her b/c he was confused about alot of things…Now as of today they are datin…i know she will cheat on him when he goes to iraq in august..then ill have to beat the shit out of her…i need someone to tell me how to change his mind that all she is, is a childish whore..So i really need a guys point of view on this one..haha..Someone HELP!!!!!!!
thank you

Really like a girl at work, how should i talk to her?

I really like a girl who works in another department of the company, she is actually in another building but i’ve meet her 2 times and she has helped me out via email alot with my work, since i’ve been with the company for 8 weeks now.

How should i go about starting a conversation through email with her, i really want to get to know her better. What a some things i can use to get her to talk to me.Feel free to write up an email on my behalf too.

How do I get this girl to like me?

Theres this girl i really like alot in my class but i dont know how i can get her to like me. I talked to her once but im to shy to talk to her agian in class… I liked girls before but never like this please help.

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