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I finally patched things up with a guy Ive been dating for five months.
I was feeling very good about a long conversation we had last night.
Now I noticed on an RSS feed off his blog (he told me about his blog repeatedly) that he has been posting very degrading remarks about women on a ‘pick up artist / guide to women’
At first I tried to convince myself that he was just trying to be witty.
But his comments come off as quite mean spirited.
He says women under twentyfive have much nicer skin and are firmer in certain parts (Im nearly 30)
He says women over size 10 are slam pigs and how bony chicks are bonergrowers and hottness.
That attractive men like him should have a special guide to picking up women.
Then he comments that he is sorry his last two chicks weren’t misbehaved because then he might’ve rubbed their faces in wet spots (i think i knows what this means -eww)
And lastly he has a few posts asking how best to pick up semi drunk chicks.
aND WORST of all i think he was talking about ME in a post.
saying how he was dating an amazing chick who was sweet hot old fashioned not a slut with a lovely face BUT how could he talk ‘her’ {me} into losing 25 lbs so ‘she’ would be size 4 instead of an 8.
ugh/
I actually called him on all this stuff and he tried to spin it as just being funny and joking.
How do I handle this ?
he is a great friend and very sweet to date BUT i ve noticed after 5 months he still hasnt moved things along to be exclusive and now im horrified
that either he IS a player and/or he is waiting for me to lose weight (i actually am slowly losing it for ME and a new job as fitness manager at a spa)
im so forlorn. 
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I finally patched things up with a guy Ive been dating for five months.
I was feeling very good about a long conversation we had last night.
Now I noticed on an RSS feed off his blog (he told me about his blog repeatedly) that he has been posting very degrading remarks about women on a ‘pick up artist / guide to women’
At first I tried to convince myself that he was just trying to be witty.
But his comments come off as quite mean spirited.
He says women under twentyfive have much nicer skin and are firmer in certain parts (Im nearly 30)
He says women over size 10 are slam pigs and how bony chicks are bonergrowers and hottness.
That attractive men like him should have a special guide to picking up women.
Then he comments that he is sorry his last two chicks weren’t misbehaved because then he might’ve rubbed their faces in wet spots (i think i knows what this means -eww)
And lastly he has a few posts asking how best to pick up semi drunk chicks.
aND WORST of all i think he was talking about ME in a post.
saying how he was dating an amazing chick who was sweet hot old fashioned not a slut with a lovely face BUT how could he talk ‘her’ {me} into losing 25 lbs so ‘she’ would be size 4 instead of an 8.
ugh/
I actually called him on all this stuff and he tried to spin it as just being funny and joking.
How do I handle this ?
he is a great friend and very sweet to date BUT i ve noticed after 5 months he still hasnt moved things along to be exclusive and now im horrified
that either he IS a player and/or he is waiting for me to lose weight (i actually am slowly losing it for ME and a new job as fitness manager at a spa)
im so forlorn.
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last year i was a little bi curous, so i decided to look online for a girl to talk to and expiriment with my feelings. I started talking to this girl and although she lived states away, i really fell for her and after a month we became girlfriends. We dated for about 5 months and she even flew to me a few times to spend the weekend. But the cheated on me so I broke up with her and slowly realised that alough i am a little bi, I prefer boys and it was just a live and learn kind of situation. Only problem is, she is still MADLY in love with me. She has a really hard life. Her parents neglect her, she is dirt poor, her friends dont talk to her, she doesn’t have much going for her. She talks about how much she hates her life and before we dated she tried to kill herself before so she has a history of depression. She texts me and calls me all the time crying, but when i try to be her friend she calls me "baby" and says "i love you" and stuff like that. It makes me super uncomfortable and bothers me that she can’t respect that my feelings towards her no longer exist. I just don’t know what to do because I feel bad for her and I want to be her friend but she can’t get over me and its been almost a year. she went on one date and left crying because she says all she wants is me. I feel so guilty for making her feel so terrible and i shouldnt have guilt about this because i have done nothing wrong. I am a very sensative person and I don’t know what to do about her….????? HELP
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