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Me and this boy I live with have been recently spending time together. We’ve gone out for drinks, I’ve gone out with him and his friends, we hang out at home (actually, we live together). We have been going to bed together (no sex, just cuddling/some kissing) for about 5 nights now. I have a feeling that he may like me, but I’m also not really sure. We cuddle on the couch when we’re watching tv, and he always initiates it by putting his arm around me or rubbing my back.
On wednesday, I asked him what was going on, because I’m not sure if he just wants someone to cuddle with and be close to, and isn’t really interested in me. He didn’t answer my question very well, I made it clear I didn’t want to be played with, and I don’t want a cuddle buddy, I want something more than that. Apart from not answering my question very well, he told me he thought I was the sweetest girl, and am extremely cute, and cant help himself from wanting to be close to me, but he wasn’t sure he could commit to anything.
We’ve spent the night together every night since then, as well as we’ve spent time with each other during the day. On thursday, he invited me to come out with him and two others for a plane ride over the city at sunset, and later took me on a ride around town on his motorcycle, and we stopped and got frozen yogurt. So, we do cute/fun things together. That same night we watched a movie together and when we were going to bed, he told me I could leave if I didn’t like him. I reassured him that I should stay then.
I’m wondering if maybe he is realizing that he likes me? Or is entertaining the notion. Should I be the first one to come out and say that I like him?? Or would that push him away??
I just don’t want to end up hurt by forming emotions for someone who doesn’t like me.
I feel like he isn’t ready to show his affection towards me in front of friends or our room mates. Maybe that is because he is unsure of what is really going on with us?
Tagged with: affection • couch • drinks • emotions • fun things • motorcycle • notion • plane ride • room mates • spending time • sunset • sweetest girl • watching tv
Filed under: getting a girl to like you
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It should be pretty apparent to him (as it is to all of us) that you like him. I think he would have to be senseless not to see it too. It’s also apparent that he likes you too.
Question is, what’s the next step here? You two seem to share a lot of intimate time together, that has to mean something to both of you.
To me it sounds like something is going on between you.