Ladies- how would you react if a man who approached you at a bar refered to himself as an “alpha male?”
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As for me, I’d want to laugh…but I’d be kinda afraid that he might be insane. I’d probably just throw on a plastic grin, say "oh! ok then!" and scurry back to my girlfriends to warn them about the freak.
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Actually this happened to me last year in real life, although it was with a man I knew.
We had been working together in one of my projects. From the beginning I felt he was a very tense and insecure individual, but I was concentrated in work and not in him per se. Nevertheless, I was uncomfortable, but I could not point about what. Through time this person began to display what I call "ugh" characteristics. I felt he was having problems with me, because I was the director of the project (something I later discovered was true).
Nevertheless, when the project finished we all went to a bar. By that time he had behaved so much as a jerk with me, that I just communicated with him IF necessary.
He was again flirting with me, what he called his "killer look", what meant to stare at a female for 45 minutes like a madman. This "killer look" eventually attracts someone to turn and look at him because is sooooooo weird. Anyway I was getting annoy with this and I asked him to stop it, at that point out of the blue he told me: "I am an alfa male". My reaction was to tell him like bewildered: "You an alpha male? I have never noticed…mhh….funny you say that…"
I left the bar. He still tried the "killer look", but I never more looked in his direction…he never more said about the"alpha male", and I never ,more invited him to work with me.
i would turn and run
"congratulations, return to your pack"
That would be the sign I was looking for that I shouldn’t be hanging around in bars…. If I were you, that is. I don’t go to bars.
Yikes.
I would just walk away and never go back to that bar again!
tell him you are a betta women and he isn’t good enough for you!
I’d look at him and tell him I like Alpha males cause being an Alpha female that’s what I’m looking for.
I would think that an alpha male probably would not need to tell you. Not wishing to shatter an already brave approach, I believe I would let him talk a while before slipping away. It is very difficult for a man to be comfortable as himself in a bar setting. The polite ones deserve the same in return.
laughing at Brad D. : )
Yeah, I’d probably laugh too. But hey, I’ve heard far worse come-on lines.
lol ahhhhh at-least you didn’t get to offended at his pic-up line.
If a Man referred himself as an Alpha-Male, then I would have to tell him to return to his pack and assume his position in the wild. But then again, self acknowledgment of being a dog, would raise the red flag, that he’s not worth being with, unless he came out of prison, then that would answer his "male superiority" come-on line.
I had a similar experience with a woman who referred to herself as "drop dead gorgeous"
I told her to drop dead, then.
"Really now? Well I am a praying mantis sort of girl. I’d love to grab a bite."
How about, "I didn’t know you knew Greek!" Then ask him to tell you all about Plato and Aristophanes.
Snort and splutter into my drink. Hope he’s joking. Have horrible feeling he’s not.
Id laugh in his face then pretend to throw a ball, If he goes after it then id start to worry.
I would try to be polite, but laugh to myself later.
I might share it with a friend as an amusing anecdote.
Just tell him his fly was down to see if he would look
A true strong person does not have to Shout It.
HAHA. HappyBullet is actually right. He is right. We feel the same way when women act all "I’m a strong woman… I’m a woman and I can take care of myself" and so on.
I would smile and refer to myself as an alpha female. A very angry, rabid alpha female who wasn’t interested in him.
I’d laugh so hard that my drink would come out my nose. Then I’d turn my back on him and continue hanging out with my friends. I don’t go to bars to meet men.
woof once in his face
say "down boy"
and leave him
I’d just tell him I’d had one for lunch, thanks.
Id say " oh wonderful…are you gonna howl now?"
I am with you on that I wouldn’t be able to stop laughing. I like a male who is comfortable enough in his own skin he doesn’t need to preen nor pose. With the dog male I would make it quite clear that he wouldn’t be drinking out of my water dish……….ever!