Is it possible that I am too mature to attract women within my own age range? What do I do about it?
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I’m a 31 year old man, and I would like to meet someone who is around the same age, give or take a few years. Over the past few months, I’ve been getting myself out there to social events to meet single women. One thing I’ve noticed is that at some of these mixers, women who are substantially older than me appear to be completely enthralled by the conversations with me, yet the women who look like they are around my age seem disinterested, no matter how much I attempt to involve them in the conversation.
Also, I’ve had a few women in their 40s and even into their early 50s flirting with and even hitting on me. While I have no qualms with them per se (nothing wrong with a little experience), I would like to eventually get married and have children. These women are usually divorced with children. They are either not interested in having any more children, or they are beyond an age where it is safe to bear children.
I grew up looking slightly older than my age, but I don’t think I look that much older.
I’m not sure of what it means to act my age, other than meaning not acting like a child. Perhaps I have an “old soul,” but what do I do to attract women around the late 20s, early 30s age range? Do I be someone that I’m not, dumb down my behavior, eat with my hands and fart at the dinner table? Am I forced to wait to date until my actual age matches my mental age? Or is there another option for me?
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Definitely don’t change who you are. I have a similar problem only I am 21 and I tend to be better matched with older men than men my own age. I just don’t relate to my age group; our priorities are completely different.
If I were you I wouldn’t settle for anything less than you deserve. If you want to eventually have a family then you must take age into consideration. If you were content with not having children then I would say go ahead have some fun with the older women.
It could be that you are choosing the wrong places to try and meet singles your age. I think maybe they are still having fun and not ready to settle down themselves and they see that you are a mature guy and they just realize that their priorities are different.