In need of advise. How to approach women?
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I need advice on how to approach a woman. I am confident, but when it comes to women, the confidence disappears. I’m well off, I mean I’m 6’5", in decent shape. I’m a nurse, I’m currently in medical school and I have a business. I think maybe I have focused on my success too much. The problem is that when I go out with my buddies I get looks from women, but I can never get the courage to go and talk to them. I really need help, I’m not getting any younger. Any advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.
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1) go up to one and start a conversation
2) if you work at hospital try asking out one of the staff
3) When you see one go up to her then worst that can happen it nothing happening, who know she might be "the one"
4) try going into someplace familiar like nurse gathering to start talking
5) practice on a female friend.
Walk up and say hi. Then get a conversation going like where they’re from and then buy them a drink or something. Tell them how ur in medical school also.
You’re nervous because you think the odds are against you and rejection is a very real possiblity… it is… but as long as you’re cool with that and can stick your neck out anyway – you’ll do just fine.
Now, how is it done? Take one step. All you have to do is get off your chair and point your feet in her direction. Once you’re standing up it’s too late to sit down, so just go to her. And don’t worry about what to say until you get there. Even if it’s something as corney as, "I was sitting with my buddies, saw you, and wanted to meet you. I’m John Smith (offer your hand)." Once you get there, if you massively screw up, don’t worry about it. And if she rejects you completely. Who cares? There are more fish in the sea and at least it was good practice.
No guy has all the answers. Every guy gets shot down. And there are no secret tricks. Just accept it. Best thing to do is just bite the bullet and go out there. You’ll figure out what works for you and what doesn’t. And what kind of women click with you, and what kind of women don’t.