I need help on what to say and how to approach women,what to say to her online and in person,Please help me?

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I need help to talk to women,to approach them,i need help,what do i say to them online,on the phone and in person,please help me,I’m 43 years old,what do i say
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well im only 16 but if this anyuse it would help by u saying hi and start a conversation like how is the day or just taker out to eat n that will work to start talking about her job well is she has one well damm if u want to get more advice watch this movie is really good is called hitch whit will smith i know is just a movie but it dosent hurt to try well da movie is whit will smith and eva mendez is really good
Well , say what you feel . Get to know them i.e say what you like then ask her what she likes. on the phone is later when you can talk about random stuff all day!! and online you sate random things i must say i find online harder then out side..
but try and experiment.
stop differentiating women from people. have a conversation about the same things you would talk to other people about. your nervousness is from thinking you have to be something other than yourself and that is a surefire way to make her anxious and have her not be able to respond too. talk about books, life, career, aspirations, hobbies, philosophy… whatever you find interesting.
also, ask questions. be prepared to ask questions that will lead to further conversation. in other words not close ended ‘yes’ or ‘no’ type questions. e.g. what are your thoughts regarding….
so relax. women are people too. establish comfort level first. don’t go in for the kill too early. let things flow and develop. a woman likes to know that a guy isn’t in a rush but is there to give her his time.
be you and that lets her be herself. good luck
(you might want to think of working with a coach for help. i work with someone and she’s great. http://www.myspace.com/meitay )