I attract the women but cant hold a conversion worth crap?
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So for some I’m attractive. I also work out, not because i want to be muscular but because i love the pump. I spend most of my time reading books and studying and what not.. the other time i spend working out or at work (im in my 20s).
When I go out, I tend to attract women, as I am relatively attractive and confident. However, once I get into conversation, I flop.. evidently few females really want to talk about the latest technological advances or engineering feats or how the theory of relativity can be used to prove much more than we though and the accuracy of it is outstanding.. just like how gravity as we know it is actually an incorrect theory..
anyways.. i suck at speaking to girls.. what sort of topics should I practice and use when I converse with them? Any tricks?
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I get shy as well as keeping up conversation.Try to focus on them,ask what they like to do,see,this way they feel less likely to get frustrated with a dry conversation.The idea is to not be talking about other things unless they refer to things you might both like.
just be yourself
ask questions about her get to know her…chicks like that shit dude trust me…no girl likes a cocky dude…they want someone who is interested in them…show her you care by talking about her interests
even asking about how her day or weekend went or plans for the upcoming week
heres a list of what I think is a good conversation holder
-music: almost every single girl likes music so its really easy to talk about
-pets: cats, dogs, even a fuckin fish
-hobbies: something she does maybe she enjoys working out like you? find some common ground
actually, id say dont practice. if you practice you will tend to try and reuse lines or conversations youve had perviously. Instead id say you should study on apperiance, what i mean is try to study on how to pick up a girls interests while talking to her. When starting a conversation try to stick to a neutral stance at first the switch to her interests. If you do that youll be able to hold her interest in you and not flop once you start to talk.
The right girl for you will be interested in the same things you are. Just be yourself, and you’ll find her, and it will be easy to hold conversation.
Yeah, unless you find a girl who is really into stuff like that, it’ll be hard to just break the ice by talking about gravity. I think a good skill to practice with talking to almost ANY girl, is asking us questions. I know we sound conceited, but it’s true, we love talking about ourselves. Ask us our name, return the questions we ask you, ask about jobs, hobbies, what they’re doing, why they’re there, anything like that. And when they answer, seem interested. And always always ALWAYS remember what they say. You’ll look like a jerk if later they bring it up and you have no recognition of them saying it. Hope this helped (:
OH YEA GIRLS CAN
What careers or majors you’re each pursuing. Where she’s from or what interests/hobbie she’s into.
Or you can come up with something depending on your surroundings; maybe if you’re at a bar you can talk about what drinks you guys like or poke fun at the one person who’s making a fool out of themselves. If you can make her laugh then she’ll like you(well most girls will anyways). If you’re at the gym think of something fitness related to talk about; but don’t be creepy or appear to be a personal trainer…that wouldn’t be good.
Who knows, maybe you’ll find a girl who will enjoy talking about tech advances. Hey, you never know, right?
Just try to be yourself and don’t force anything because girls can tell when you’re struggling to make conversation.
I’ve noticed this from personal experience, sometimes it’s easier talking to some people. Almost as if you have an instant chemistry and the conversation just seems less forced. I know, that was probably completely pointless but thought you should know.