How to differentiate a guy who really likes you and a guy who only like your physical appearance?
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Like i really like and enjoy this guy’s company. He said he likes me too! But my friend told me he used to be a flirt, right now she’s not sure cos they didn’t really hang out much. The guy actually admited to me that he used to made up with a girl and whatever he did in the past. He said he is determined to change because he got toyed by a girl before and he knew how it felt.
Today he asked to hold my hand (we’re not attached cos i don’t want to.) and i agreed. We started to behave really intimidatingly where he put his hand on my waist, we even hugged. He promised he’ll never let me go, and he really will wait for me till i am ready. I don’t know if he’s really TRUE or he’s just trying to take advantage of me. What should i do? Really?
I want to believe him, but currently i just want to hang out with him as a friend. I don’t want touchy stuff (though i enjoyed it) because it complicates our friendship.
Guys, i need ur suggestion?
If i tell him i am not comfy with getting touchy, and he respects me, means he really likes me right? Can i request for that? since we are not even bgf.
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okay i know im not a guy but i can still tell you my opinion!
=)
if he actually likes you for you and he said he will wait,
then ask him to back off alittle. say that you still wanna be good friends and hang out an everything but, at this point, you wanna take the whole touchy feely thing slow.
the only way to know it is to be ugly.
(i think)
absolutely
Just depends on the person, some people are sincere some aren’t you could probably test him and let him touch you a bit and then ask to stop a bit and if he cant resist or keeps trying hes probably not what you are looking for at the moment
One day you need to look as busted (rough) as you can, if you he still wants to hugg you and be all over you then yea hes into you and not your appearance as much. And yes if he really likes you he will respect your every wish ( you don’t need a guy to tell you that)…Goodluck!
If he is younger than 23 you really cant trust he means anything he says because his VALUES and PERSONALITY aren’t fully developed yet.
well in my case
when i see some girls my eyes wander around the twins but I’m attracted to some girls without feasting on them.
I say watch his eyes…if he looks at your twins too much then he likes your body and if he does it rarely then, might be he is your prince charming.
Im agreeing with those who recommend the How To Loose a Guy in 10 Days approach. If hes in it for the long run and really loves you, he’ll deal with it.