How to ask out a girl at the gym that smiled at me already?
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So this girl at the gym smiled at me twice and i put my head down these two times… i’ve heard that i didnt blow it… and now i wanna know how to ask her out or her phone number? should i walk up to her and start talking or can i give her a note with my phone number?
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Confidence. Do this.. Next time you see her and she is on a machine ask her if you can work in with her (she does a set you do a set). as you to are working out together be observant to what is going on around you. By paying attention and being observant you will be able to come up with a great question to ask her.
*** a fun one is just go up to her and bust her just say" I saw you checking me out. Why don’t you just come over and say hi? Are you shy? Then she will say she was not checking you out etc etc but then you go ok and go back to what you are doing.. She will check you out again and just stop what you are doing march right back over to her with a big smile and just go I already told you just come over and say hi! ok I will break the ice, can I work in a couple of sets with you?
EXAMPLES: 1. If the music playing at the gym is a song you like ask her if she likes the song.
2. If she is listening to an ipod point towards your ears signaling for her to take out her headphones and then just tell her "hey I have not been able to keep from noticing that you are always having these intense workouts, every time I see you, you are always so in to your workout session, I have to ask what you are listening too that is getting you so pumped up".
3. Or if she has a bottle of water next to her just walk up to her and say " Can i have a sip" ? She will probably ask you why you don’t just go get a drink from the fountain but have fun with it. just say " I usually bring my water from home with me and I forgot it this time, I’ll let you have a drink from my water bottle if you forget to bring yours one day". Take a drink then just say thank you and walk away!
Now the two of you have something to joke about with each other and getting into a conversation will be cake because you went up and not only talked to her but also shown her that you are confident by 1 coming up and having something to say and 2 asking for a drink of her water which shows her that you think high enough of yourself to ask her something personal. Now you two can also have something to flirt with eacother about
Now when you see her you can go hey water-girl how is your workout going today? I brought my own water this time! Do you want some? Hey let me jump in a couple of sets with you real quick I bet I can do your weight! Then do her weight but act like it is real tough for you she will laugh!
just have fun and don’t be scared and be playful and when the two of you talk to each other enough at the gym just say
"hey I really like talking with you here and I want to see if you are as much fun outside of the gym as you are in it. lets go get a couple of coffees at starbucks this weekend.
Don’t even ask for her phone number if she says yes just get a date and time and go " alright I am not going to get your phone number, I don’t need it, I am just going to trust that you will keep your word and meet me there this saturday at 230 pm. Does that work for you? She will say yes and then you go alright now don’t flake out on me I don’t like flaky people. She will go I wont flake out on you. I will be there. and then you go great! I will see you then and walk away and flash her a little smile!!!
When you go on the date just be interested in her figure out what she likes what she is passionate about have fun getting to know her find out what kind of food she likes and set up the next date on that date at starbucks. You found out she likes general Tao’s chicken from a little chinese restaurant by her old house when she was growing up its her favorite place to eat. Tell her hey I gotta try that chinese place you like so much lets get together there next weekend so you can show me why it is so good.
You also found out she loves dogs but does not have one then take her to the dog park after the restaurant to talk and watch dogs play and you guys can pet the dogs that come up to you and you will never have a dead conversation because there are a hundred things to talk about right in front of you! Dogs chasing each other, people throwing the ball to a really fast dog, how green the grass is etc etc etc you guys can get to know each other comfortably.
Also don’t be like a annoying chihuahua trying to hump her leg… Get to know her over the course of a few dates and wait until she attacks you..She will if you are interested in who she is and if you listen and show her you are listening by ordering her iced coffee with 2 sugars and vanilla creamer.and never act desperate ever!
She will treat you like a rock-star
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First, you introduce yourself. Then gauge her interest and go from there.
she doesn’t know you… so say hi and talk, you might find out a lot about her and then see if you really like her, if you do ask her out, notes are kinda annoying, sorry but i hate them, its like a guy can’t ask me to my face so he writes it? if you get me .. [:
DO NOT SEND A NOTE W/ A PHONE #, you didn’t blow becuz most women like the idea of a shy yet confident man, if she notices u put ur head down the first two smiles, it’s probably still cute to her but it will become childish if u start speaking in notes like a 3rd grader, now that u know she’s interested, go talk to her…if she puts up a front, she’s being childish so leave her alone for someone worth it…but for now try ur hand
DC’S flyzt GOLDN1
just give her your number and ask her to call/text you sometime, if she likes you she will call/text. Smiling is always a good sign!!