How to approach women in public places like bookstores, coffee shop etc?Mainly in universities?
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How to approach women in public places
How can u approach a girl whom i had never met.
In a place like universities (I am an Uni student and i want to talk with girls whom i don’t even have the slightest relation i mean they are not in my classes)
Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.
1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?say something that i can start a conversation!!
2. If the person is interested, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?
thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!
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The best way yet to approach a girl is just to be natural and approach normally. Go over to her and say: "Hi, I’m _______ and i want to meet you because you look like an interesting person."
Doesn’t really matter where you are at when you approach her. This one always works even though it’s really simple.
Approaching like this will make her instantly attracted to you because you had the courage to walk over to her with nothing but a simple conversation, which also makes you look confident about yourself. It shows her that you don’t need some cheap pick up lines or something ‘catchy’ in order to talk to her.
It also shows her that you are decisive and that you know what you want and also that you try to get what you want. In this case, getting to know her.
Anyway I know that approaching like this is kinda hard if you haven’t done that before. But trust me it works every time.
If you approach like this the girl will have no reason to reject you because all you ask from her is to meet her. You didn’t asked her out yet, or you didn’t asked her to have sex with you. It’s just a simple name exchanging and socializing.
After that simple sentence you can continue the conversation. The important thing is the opening. The ice-breaker. Later on just go with the flow.
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Talking to girls in public places can seem like a scary thing to do, especially if it is something you are not used to doing. But talking to girls is a learned skill, just like learning how to snow board, ride a bike, or play your favorite video game. The first time you do something, it is always uncomfortable because your brain is not used to do it. Then, the more often you do it the easier it becomes.
I will never forget the first time I tried talking to girl at school. It took me days to work up the courage to talk to a cute girl. I was only ten years old at the time, but I had already learned how to be afraid of rejection. I learned it from watching television. I learned it from previous experiences. I also learned it from my friends. Looking back on it now, it all seems so silly and illogical, but most of us learn how to fear the feeling of rejection at a very early age. The good news is that you can unlearn it.
Here is a simple exercise that will illustrate how illogical fear of rejection is. If you need to ask another person for directions because you are lost you have no qualms about walking up to them and asking them where a certain place is. Even if they are too busy to help you or do not want to help you, you will forget about that interaction in a few seconds or a few minutes. Yet, when we want to talk to someone we are attracted to, we assign a whole different meaning to it. Even though in reality it is very much the same experience. Our brains are so powerful that they can trick us into thinking and/or fearing that we are about to get rejected.
So how does one actually talk to girls in public places? It is a lot easier than you think. Do not let your mind and social conditioning get in the way. There are literally hundreds, if not thousands, of ways to approach and talk to girls. One way to approach them is to pretend, in your own mind, that you have known this stranger for years so you walk up to them naturally and comfortablely and start off with some kind of neutral opener. It could something as simple as "hi" or "cool necklace, what’s the story behind it?" or "can you believe so-and-so died the other day?" or "oh my gosh, did you see that couple arguing outside?"
Neutral openers are great ways to start conversation because they are simply neutral. For example, walking up to a girl and saying "you’re cute" is not neutral. Asking a girl what she honestly thinks about a certain topic can be considered neutral. Since communication between two people is mostly non-verbal, how you ask something can be just as important, if not more so, then what you are actually saying. I’ve started conversations by asking women if they preferred boxers or briefs. I recently got a phone number from a girl by simply starting the conversation by asking her what she thought of the first lady’s dress she wore the other night.
It’s fine, just don’t come off like a creep who stands too close and smells like soup. Be friendly and polite, if its in a bookshop ask her about the book she’s looking at(ex: ‘i heard of that author, is he good’, ‘i always loved that book’, etc) if she’s interested ask if you could buy her a coffee around the corner or sometime. smile. blushing is always a plus. if she’s not interested and she says no or isn’t responding well she might be taken or something, back off. say bye politely and leave.
….don’t wear shorts under a trenchcoat. we’ll assume you’re a flasher.