How to approach an older woman, or “cougar”?
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For a while now I’ve found mature women in their late 30′s and 40′s to be really hot. I just turned 21 and feel my chances of interacting with one are way more likely now that I can go to bars and clubs.
But how do I go about getting one interested in me? What things do I have to do and say differently? Are there any of these "cougars" out there that could lend some advice?
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You must be a person feeling inadequate with those your own age. Something is wrong. Or do you want a mother figure or think you can walk all over an older woman. This is not natural.
You must think you can ill treat her. Like cheating on her. I can’t see you perfectly satisfied with someone that much older.; When you are only 30 she will be 50 and going through the change of life. Having hot flashes and such.
For goodness sakes get someone your age or younger. I think you want a maid and do what you want out there.
get a 21 year old girl please, make it normal.
Nothing’s sexier than a confident guy who knows how to handle himself. Compliments are always good!
Be prepared to be used, my friend. We’re not looking for a ‘relationship’ with a 21 yr old. Sorry but that’s how it is.
Get a pizza delivery job in the burbs.
pervert lol. this question made my day.
Talk to them about baking cookies and you’ll be in.
the fact that your fresh "meat" attracts the cougar.
Approach them and treat them as you would a woman your own age. They’ll get that you’re into them and respond appropriately (with a come hither look or with a who the hell do you think you are look).
Don’t mention their age. They are women after all.
Wow, um ok. Your 21… my advice is to find someone your age. Anyone who is 21 years old and interested in 30 and 40 year olds knows that they can’t get 21 year old puss sir you fail
try to become their pool boy, they will just sit outside and watch you clean.
You just turned 21 and you already want to go cougar hunting?… If you have to ask on yahoo, it will never happen. Go get some game, douche.
You need to make alot of money or be a trust fund baby. Sorry but it’s the truth. Women that age who are single usually have not had relationships go their way and are jaded. They also want more out of life, and expect it.
A large **** wouldn’t hurt either… and the confidence and maturity to go with it.
as much as I disagree with cougars, simple. flaunt it. your 21, probably in the best condition of your life, and exactly what a cougar is looking for. be confident, show you are willing, and most importantly, good teeth (teeth are high maintenance and therefore show that you care as a whole).
LOL, ZKY you rock . . . loved the fresh "meat" comment.
Okay I’m in my 30s . . . bring it on boys!! Never been a cougar before but who could say no to 21 yr old fresh meat!!
Seriously, you won’t have ANY problems with the cougars my love . . . women out on the prowl of any age love a good looking, fresh male. Act confident, sweet and be clean and well dressed and you won’t have any problem picking up any girl.
When I was 29 I dated a 19 yr old guy, briefly, but I thought my dad would take a heart attack because of the age difference.
Now, ten years younger, or older, is no big deal.
If a man can date a woman 20 years younger, why can’t a woman date a younger man?
BUT………make sure you do it just for the thrill, not a long lasting relationship and remember, whatever girl YOU choose, make sure she’s clean, you don’t want to catch any nasties.
When it comes to actually choosing a relationship choose someone your own age. When you’re 40 you don’t want to be dating a menopausal 60 yr old with false teeth and gray hair!!
Have fun!!
Where can women over the age of 40 find younger, sexy men who are interested in them?
A: Try a bookstore——-under fiction. A: