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I like this girl that I work with a lot, and we’ve been hanging out a little bit. To be more specific, I’ll talk to her one on one at work and we’ll have very playful conversations and stuff. Outside of work if I hang out with her, its usually with her one friend (who I also work with, which kind of makes it weird/hard to make moves) and we’ll go to the movies or something. To give you some background information, I’ve never been good at making moves on girls because I’m always afraid of how awkward it will be seeing them after. We’re both talkative, so we never have awkward silences or anything, but I need help on how to take it to the next level. Keep in mind, her friend is there who i also work with, so not only could things get awkward between me and the girl if she doesnt like me, but also between her friend and im sure word would spread around quickly to everyone else. I should be hanging out with her one on one sometime soon, so that should make things somewhat easier, but I’m looking for help with both scenarios. I know you’re probably going to say "just suck it up and ask her" but this is very complicated. I don’t want to ruin our friendship, and also I like my job and the people I work with and don’t want to kind of ruin that either. Any help is greeeeaaatttlllyy appreciated, thank you all.
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Why not just be up front with her? But in a very laid back and respectable manner… Don’t just go right out and say it. Talk to her, and tell you’ve been friends for a while and that you really enjoy her company, and that you’d really like to take her out to dinner or something along the lines of that. Something simple, it doesn’t have to be full blown awesome. Just something to give it a chance to kick off the ground. Plan ahead, and when you go just be yourself… Which honestly, you appear to have no problem doing already since you talk one on one a lot.
Worst case, she won’t want to date you, but she’ll still be your friend I’m sure. Honesty goes a long way, just be truthful and tell her that you really like her and want to take her out. Even if she says it’s not a date, don’t give up but give her the space she needs to be comfortable with you. And just take it for what it’s worth and spend time alone with her. See where it goes, and maybe it will lead into you dating her over time.
Be your self.
Be a gentleman.
Be honest
You will never be sorry
Just be yourself. That’s all that matters. If she likes your real self, then it’s good. All a girl wants is a boy who knows how to be real.
Act normal
Being a girl myself i know that girls hate it when your all weird and awkward, if your really good friends just introduce the idea you like them, its easier done then said actually! If your uncomfortable doing it infront of her friend then do it online with like msn or something!!
xx Good Luck!!
ask her to hang out with you just you two, have fun, just dont think, that will make it worse when your making the move, girls like confident guys, so be confident !, and dont let that friend of hers get in the way, after a while, just ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend, dont wait to long girls dont like that either, if she rejects you then alright, just suggest staying friends, nothing will change just go on how you used to be, but im sure since shes already hanging out with you, that she is attracted =), confidence is key ! dont be a wuss.. please LOL
It sounds like she likes you, but maybe lacks confidence herself as she brings her friend along when you two hang out.
Or maybe she doesn’t want your relantionship to move on, she might like you two to just BE FRIENDS, and that’s why she brings her friend along.
The thing is you just don’t know which one it is, and you need to find out.
If you have her number, call her casually, ask her to a restaurant with you, so you can still have your one-to-one convo’s and yet it would be a date.
If she says no, don’t freak, maybe invite her other friend (that you also work with) too. Or talk to the ‘friend’ ask her what’s going on ect. Explain how you feel and that you ae confused.