Comments on: How do you say hi to a girl without looking and sounding weird? http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html Tue, 07 Jun 2011 09:59:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Anonymous http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-10088 Anonymous Sat, 07 Aug 2010 02:56:30 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-10088 Don't do it at all. She might think you're sexually harassing her. What if she has a boyfriend or male friend (especially if he likes her) coming around? They might start a fight with you. Only do it if you are introduced to a girl by family or friends. This is how a lot of females are being kidnapped, raped, and/or killed. So you'd better be careful before you land in jail. Don’t do it at all. She might think you’re sexually harassing her. What if she has a boyfriend or male friend (especially if he likes her) coming around? They might start a fight with you. Only do it if you are introduced to a girl by family or friends. This is how a lot of females are being kidnapped, raped, and/or killed. So you’d better be careful before you land in jail.

]]> By: Jason http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6097 Jason Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6097 lol wow thats ummm..... why not just sey hey how it goin im_____? its polite right and atleast it shows ur kinda sivalized lol wow thats ummm….. why not just sey hey how it goin im_____? its polite right and atleast it shows ur kinda sivalized

]]> By: pinbacker http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6098 pinbacker Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6098 You say "Hi" or "What's up vanilla face?" your choice You say "Hi" or "What’s up vanilla face?" your choice

]]> By: Blkwrpp http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6099 Blkwrpp Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6099 show her your wiener its always an ice breaker. show her your wiener its always an ice breaker.

]]> By: Melissa http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6100 Melissa Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6100 (: just smile and say hi, but also helps if you have a convosation ready in your head because if she replies hi, then you might just be stood there like a donkey, try not to sound weird or desperate, just be relaxed and talk normally : D lolol pretty simple advise :L (: just smile and say hi,
but also helps if you have a convosation ready in your head
because if she replies hi, then you might just be stood there like a donkey,
try not to sound weird or desperate,
just be relaxed and talk normally : D lolol
pretty simple advise :L

]]> By: chill http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6101 chill Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6101 If she is reading, ask her how the book is and if you read yall can discuss books. Or If she looks at you and has a nice smile and looks interested walk over and introduce yourslf. If she is reading, ask her how the book is and if you read yall can discuss books. Or If she looks at you and has a nice smile and looks interested walk over and introduce yourslf.

]]> By: two_speed51 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6102 two_speed51 Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6102 Walk up to her look her in the eye, not at her boobs and say hi my name is. Girls hate it when you talk to their boobs regardless how nice they are look her in the eye. Walk up to her look her in the eye, not at her boobs and say hi my name is. Girls hate it when you talk to their boobs regardless how nice they are look her in the eye.

]]> By: Samant http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6103 Samant Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6103 don't go up to them, say hi from a distance ( not too far) like if they're halfway accross a room that makes it alot less creepy don’t go up to them, say hi from a distance ( not too far) like if they’re halfway accross a room that makes it alot less creepy

]]> By: Gloria http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6104 Gloria Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6104 There's nothing more attractive then a man who is himself. Just walk over, say, hi and ask if anyone is sitting there. Just smile and start your studying or look for a book and I'll bet you'll strike up a conversation before you know it. Be you! There’s nothing more attractive then a man who is himself. Just walk over, say, hi and ask if anyone is sitting there. Just smile and start your studying or look for a book and I’ll bet you’ll strike up a conversation before you know it. Be you!

]]> By: Jenny http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6105 Jenny Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6105 Observe your surroundings..if shes reading something, like a magazine or something, comment about something you're sure she would've came across. Or, you could say "what are you taking?" then just start a conversation. Or, make a comment on how you both seem to be in the rec room at the same time...Or, you could wait until you see her go in first and then you go in and say just say "hey" as you settle down into a chair or whatever...But i think former ideas are better - that way you can actually start a conversation that will lead somewhere. Also, if you find out what shes taking you can always bring it up when you see her again (in the rec room) and say, "how's ____ going?" Observe your surroundings..if shes reading something, like a magazine or something, comment about something you’re sure she would’ve came across. Or, you could say "what are you taking?" then just start a conversation. Or, make a comment on how you both seem to be in the rec room at the same time…Or, you could wait until you see her go in first and then you go in and say just say "hey" as you settle down into a chair or whatever…But i think former ideas are better – that way you can actually start a conversation that will lead somewhere. Also, if you find out what shes taking you can always bring it up when you see her again (in the rec room) and say, "how’s ____ going?"

]]> By: msmarrina http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html/comment-page-1#comment-6106 msmarrina Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:56:14 +0000 http://how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you.net/how-do-you-say-hi-to-a-girl-without-looking-and-sounding-weird.html#comment-6106 The quick and the brief: 1.) Relax. The most important step. 2.) Make your goal simple. REAL simple. Trying to get laid... won't. Opposite effect. Make her smile, make her laugh. Very simple goal. And virtual everybody likes to laugh and smile. Have fun with her. 3.) Smile. Briefly, NOT forever. 4.) Say "Hi!" She does need to see before you say hi, or she might not notice you (bad) or you will seem creepy (really bad). 5.) Be sincere. Women know your intention within 2-4 seconds, if not sooner. Call it intuition. Men have it too. Learn to pay attention to how your body feels. Women can get hit on any where from 5 - 100 times a day, staring in their early to mid teens. They might be good at spotting who is good. They know sincerity when they see it. Your intention will give you away, so have positive intentions, to make her laugh, make her smile. 6.) You could start with a question, a situational question like "What's that? Is it any good?" Listen to her answer. With sincerity. Please, no cheap pick-up lines. Bad, bad, bad, bad. This is not a bar, they don't work so good there either. 7.) Be polite. Be careful of sarcasm. 8.) Stay relaxed. Talk to her like she is a friend, or your kid sister. 9.) Have interesting stuff to talk about. Boring is bad. Talk about something you are passionate about. 10.) Listen to her. Listen to what she is passionate about. Listening is good. If you run out of things to say... look at her and say "I got nothing!". They usually laugh. 11.) Continue. 12.) if you got a good thing going after about 20-30 minutes, ask her out on a date. Have some planned beforehand. "Hey, we should hang out sometime." Does she sound thrilled? Good. (If not, never mind. Keep talking with her. Ask again in a few minutes, or don't.) "Hey, I'm going over to ___ on Tuesday with my friends and you seem like you might enjoy it." There's this small coffee shop on ___ that I like to go to on Saturday afternoon... It has the BEST ___-...." 13.) Okay, cool! You have a date! Now ask her for her number. Doing it in this order is recommended. Is she more likely to say yes to the guy in front of her, or the guy on the phone? Does over the phone somehow impress her more? Not likely. What can you say or do on the phone that you can't do in person that will get her to say yes? Nothing. And somehow remember you apart from the 100+ other guys that hit on her in the past 3 days? Hmmm.... Besides, 99% of guys ask for her number and ditch. You got a date first, and she is much more likely to show up. 14.) Talk to her for a minute or two longer. Now you can safely leave. Notes: Proximity is important. 3-5 feet is generally good. NEVER sit/stand directly across, this is not a job interview. Ideally, about a 45 degree angle off each other *slightly* off the side is best. Relax. Sooner is better than later. Waiting too long does get creepy. Go with the 3 second rule. Approach within 3 seconds whenever possible, or you might start over-thinking and come off as creepy. And more nervous. Tension and pressure builds, makes things go bad. Staring bad. Staring at boobs is real bad. As a general rule, don't even look, especially during the conversation. The more women you talk to, the better get. Soon it becomes like driving a car. You don't focus on the mechanics of doing it, you just go. And every failure is a step to success. The quick and the brief:

1.) Relax. The most important step.

2.) Make your goal simple. REAL simple.

Trying to get laid… won’t. Opposite effect.

Make her smile, make her laugh. Very simple goal. And virtual everybody likes to laugh and smile.

Have fun with her.

3.) Smile. Briefly, NOT forever.

4.) Say "Hi!"

She does need to see before you say hi, or she might not notice you (bad) or you will seem creepy (really bad).

5.) Be sincere. Women know your intention within 2-4 seconds, if not sooner. Call it intuition. Men have it too. Learn to pay attention to how your body feels.

Women can get hit on any where from 5 – 100 times a day, staring in their early to mid teens. They might be good at spotting who is good.

They know sincerity when they see it. Your intention will give you away, so have positive intentions, to make her laugh, make her smile.

6.) You could start with a question, a situational question like "What’s that? Is it any good?"

Listen to her answer. With sincerity.

Please, no cheap pick-up lines. Bad, bad, bad, bad. This is not a bar, they don’t work so good there either.

7.) Be polite. Be careful of sarcasm.

8.) Stay relaxed. Talk to her like she is a friend, or your kid sister.

9.) Have interesting stuff to talk about. Boring is bad.

Talk about something you are passionate about.

10.) Listen to her.

Listen to what she is passionate about.

Listening is good.

If you run out of things to say… look at her and say "I got nothing!". They usually laugh.

11.) Continue.

12.) if you got a good thing going after about 20-30 minutes, ask her out on a date.

Have some planned beforehand.

"Hey, we should hang out sometime."

Does she sound thrilled? Good. (If not, never mind. Keep talking with her. Ask again in a few minutes, or don’t.)

"Hey, I’m going over to ___ on Tuesday with my friends and you seem like you might enjoy it."

There’s this small coffee shop on ___ that I like to go to on Saturday afternoon… It has the BEST ___-…."

13.) Okay, cool! You have a date! Now ask her for her number.

Doing it in this order is recommended.

Is she more likely to say yes to the guy in front of her, or the guy on the phone?

Does over the phone somehow impress her more?

Not likely.

What can you say or do on the phone that you can’t do in person that will get her to say yes?

Nothing.

And somehow remember you apart from the 100+ other guys that hit on her in the past 3 days?

Hmmm….

Besides, 99% of guys ask for her number and ditch. You got a date first, and she is much more likely to show up.

14.) Talk to her for a minute or two longer.

Now you can safely leave.

Notes:

Proximity is important. 3-5 feet is generally good.

NEVER sit/stand directly across, this is not a job interview. Ideally, about a 45 degree angle off each other *slightly* off the side is best.

Relax.

Sooner is better than later.

Waiting too long does get creepy.

Go with the 3 second rule.

Approach within 3 seconds whenever possible, or you might start over-thinking and come off as creepy. And more nervous. Tension and pressure builds, makes things go bad.

Staring bad.

Staring at boobs is real bad. As a general rule, don’t even look, especially during the conversation.

The more women you talk to, the better get. Soon it becomes like driving a car. You don’t focus on the mechanics of doing it, you just go.

And every failure is a step to success.

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