How do you say hi to a girl without looking and sounding weird?
Okay, this has happened a few times. I go to college and between class, I relax at one of the rec rooms we have, and every once in a while a cute girl will sit at the one of the other tables, and I feel so inclined to say hi, but I feel like I will come off as a creep. What are some good ways to approach these girls and just say Hi?
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lol wow thats ummm….. why not just sey hey how it goin im_____? its polite right and atleast it shows ur kinda sivalized
You say "Hi" or "What’s up vanilla face?" your choice
show her your wiener its always an ice breaker.
(: just smile and say hi,
but also helps if you have a convosation ready in your head
because if she replies hi, then you might just be stood there like a donkey,
try not to sound weird or desperate,
just be relaxed and talk normally : D lolol
pretty simple advise :L
If she is reading, ask her how the book is and if you read yall can discuss books. Or If she looks at you and has a nice smile and looks interested walk over and introduce yourslf.
Walk up to her look her in the eye, not at her boobs and say hi my name is. Girls hate it when you talk to their boobs regardless how nice they are look her in the eye.
don’t go up to them, say hi from a distance ( not too far) like if they’re halfway accross a room that makes it alot less creepy
There’s nothing more attractive then a man who is himself. Just walk over, say, hi and ask if anyone is sitting there. Just smile and start your studying or look for a book and I’ll bet you’ll strike up a conversation before you know it. Be you!
Observe your surroundings..if shes reading something, like a magazine or something, comment about something you’re sure she would’ve came across. Or, you could say "what are you taking?" then just start a conversation. Or, make a comment on how you both seem to be in the rec room at the same time…Or, you could wait until you see her go in first and then you go in and say just say "hey" as you settle down into a chair or whatever…But i think former ideas are better – that way you can actually start a conversation that will lead somewhere. Also, if you find out what shes taking you can always bring it up when you see her again (in the rec room) and say, "how’s ____ going?"
The quick and the brief:
1.) Relax. The most important step.
2.) Make your goal simple. REAL simple.
Trying to get laid… won’t. Opposite effect.
Make her smile, make her laugh. Very simple goal. And virtual everybody likes to laugh and smile.
Have fun with her.
3.) Smile. Briefly, NOT forever.
4.) Say "Hi!"
She does need to see before you say hi, or she might not notice you (bad) or you will seem creepy (really bad).
5.) Be sincere. Women know your intention within 2-4 seconds, if not sooner. Call it intuition. Men have it too. Learn to pay attention to how your body feels.
Women can get hit on any where from 5 – 100 times a day, staring in their early to mid teens. They might be good at spotting who is good.
They know sincerity when they see it. Your intention will give you away, so have positive intentions, to make her laugh, make her smile.
6.) You could start with a question, a situational question like "What’s that? Is it any good?"
Listen to her answer. With sincerity.
Please, no cheap pick-up lines. Bad, bad, bad, bad. This is not a bar, they don’t work so good there either.
7.) Be polite. Be careful of sarcasm.
8.) Stay relaxed. Talk to her like she is a friend, or your kid sister.
9.) Have interesting stuff to talk about. Boring is bad.
Talk about something you are passionate about.
10.) Listen to her.
Listen to what she is passionate about.
Listening is good.
If you run out of things to say… look at her and say "I got nothing!". They usually laugh.
11.) Continue.
12.) if you got a good thing going after about 20-30 minutes, ask her out on a date.
Have some planned beforehand.
"Hey, we should hang out sometime."
Does she sound thrilled? Good. (If not, never mind. Keep talking with her. Ask again in a few minutes, or don’t.)
"Hey, I’m going over to ___ on Tuesday with my friends and you seem like you might enjoy it."
There’s this small coffee shop on ___ that I like to go to on Saturday afternoon… It has the BEST ___-…."
13.) Okay, cool! You have a date! Now ask her for her number.
Doing it in this order is recommended.
Is she more likely to say yes to the guy in front of her, or the guy on the phone?
Does over the phone somehow impress her more?
Not likely.
What can you say or do on the phone that you can’t do in person that will get her to say yes?
Nothing.
And somehow remember you apart from the 100+ other guys that hit on her in the past 3 days?
Hmmm….
Besides, 99% of guys ask for her number and ditch. You got a date first, and she is much more likely to show up.
14.) Talk to her for a minute or two longer.
Now you can safely leave.
Notes:
Proximity is important. 3-5 feet is generally good.
NEVER sit/stand directly across, this is not a job interview. Ideally, about a 45 degree angle off each other *slightly* off the side is best.
Relax.
Sooner is better than later.
Waiting too long does get creepy.
Go with the 3 second rule.
Approach within 3 seconds whenever possible, or you might start over-thinking and come off as creepy. And more nervous. Tension and pressure builds, makes things go bad.
Staring bad.
Staring at boobs is real bad. As a general rule, don’t even look, especially during the conversation.
The more women you talk to, the better get. Soon it becomes like driving a car. You don’t focus on the mechanics of doing it, you just go.
And every failure is a step to success.