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I am beginning to come to the sad conclusion that all women need to be played. Meaning, if the guy just says the right things, makes smooth moves, and acts confident that he will have her…he gets her. I feel like women are motivated more by feeling than logic. And they WANT the man to provoke these feelings, even if it’s all a lie. Is this true? I have spent FAR too long trying to figure out what to do to attract women and have a normal sex life (as opposed to NONE). Being honest and sincere has not worked for me. They don’t “feel it” from me I guess. Maybe since I don’t get all grabby or overtly sexual right off the bat, I don’t get play. Do most single, young women even THINK about this process? Or are they all just being romanced into bed by guys who have become experts at playing them. I mean, do they all think the guy in question must be their soul mate or something? If it was all just magical and “meant to be”, no one would ever cheat, break up, or be left to raise a baby on her own at 21…would they?
I am bitter about this, no need to tell me the obvious. And please no “get therapy” or “read this PUA book” BS answers! How do women decide ANY guy is worth her time?
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If a girl just wants to have sex, believe me, everyone knows it. And she will come on to you if you are the one she ‘just wants to have sex with’. And yes, it is a female’s instinct to go after the dominant and confidant males. It’s -don’t get scared- a breeding instinct. It doesn’t mean the woman would ever want to have kids, it just is what it is. And a lot of women-and i mean alot-really do need to feel an emotional connection to feel physically aroused. If stuff isn’t working for you, if you’re not looking for a relationship, if you just want to get laid, leave the girls who are socializing alone and go to bootycall.com. That’s what it’s there for.
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but if you want to know ir more exactly read this book:
double you dating by David de Angelo
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women look for confidence in men so they know they are a real men so he can provide and protect her and women rarely think logically. they think emotionally in their subconsious mind. you need guy gets girl book
I think you’re meeting girls at the wrong place. You sound like you only meet them when you go out clubbing or to a bar – because that’s the type of girl you’ll find there. They’re looking to be played there. Do you think any relationship would have a good foundation if you met them while they were tipsy? You wouldn’t know what they were like sober – so don’t attach yourself to her until you really know.
Some girls are just sluts. It’s true.
Want a girl who isn’t? Meet her in a place that you like hanging out at. Have a hobby? Like to go wakeboarding? Talk to girls there at places that you like doing things (besides drinking or whatever). Also if you’re creepy, try not to be. Don’t stalk, don’t be clingy. If you stop caring and you’re confident, they’ll be more relaxed.
The best solution to your answer is obvious, being honest and sincere is awl good when your in a relationship, but to get things going you need abit of both feeling and logic
like say the right things, make the smooth moves but at the same time be logical and honest 
hope this helped
All women are different, if you are encountering the same thing, the same behaviour with women then I think that you have to change the type of women you are meeting – as in meet another type.
The type of women you are going for do not sound like they are a good match for you.
There are so many women who would love to have company, a friend, an honest sincere person, and they get confused by ultra smooth confident men, which is WHY, they are not to be found hanging out at certain places, like bars etcetera. A more family minded person is going to be doing those activities. I think that you are aiming for the wrong kind of woman.
In this world there are lonely men and lonely women, and also female players and male players.
When I went through a low phase in my life where I was not happy with myself, and could not keep up with my female friends in their rush to get boyfriends, yes I put a lot of thought in to this process and although I was jealous of the ultra confident attention grabbing girls, with all the drama and boyfriend, I did notice that the real success stories in terms of romance were the quieter more careful ones, the more discreet people. That’s the long ‘game’.
But don’t feel offended by these women, they are just living their lives a certain way. In ten years time they might grow out of this phase and want a guy more like you, but you have got to ask yourself why you are going for these type of women over and over – why not try different types. You will be surprised about the change in attitude.
Would also like to clarify. well it is a delicate balance, but really a woman wants to be wanted, physically, that is a big part of what turns her on, so if you have hidden all sexual desires form them in order for them to be comfortable for you, it could make them think that they are not provoking this reaction in you, and then they doubt themselves, and they find someone else. It’s about making her feel like she is a woman, that is important.
And yeah of course girls think about this process – all the ones that never get asked out, who is the single one amongst their friends, they piiine for a part in this process. But many men don’t notice them. So it does work both ways!