How can I get a girl to trust me?
Ok I have been trying to be with this girl but she won’t because she doesn’t trust me. I tried my hardest to show her that she can trust me and that I will never hurt her or treat her like crap.
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I think the question is, What did you do for her not to trust you?
You need to think, "What did I do too loose her trust?"
And if you didn’t do anything, she’s an idiot.
You need to be more spacific.
sorry- the history of men is bad- ill never blame a woman for not trusting a man… ball is in her court! you just have to keep trying
believe me, she will cause you a lot of headache!!!! Find someone who is not so insecure. You will feel like you have a electronic leash on being with her and she will cry every time she thinks something is going on!!!
show her she can trust you . call her tell her where your at dumb stuff like tha . or maybe she just uses that as an excuse cause she doesnt want to be with you .
well if you have to try that hard just to get her to trust u there must be something huge that is keeping her from not or it could be that she just doesn’t like you like that
show her
you must have doen somethign to loose her trust.
is not gonna be easy to get it back…the only thing is wait for her..so she can see you really mean it.
Say, "Look, I really like you, and I’d like you to give me a chance. What do I need to do to prove to you that I deserve a chance?"
Most girls would turn to putty at this
…..helloo? No offense it’s probably cause she doesn’t like you like you think she does.
if not, give it time and DO NOT become clingy. just giver her space, but not to much. maybe when you text her, take a min to text back so she doesn’t feel overwhelmed. if your still going to school, maybe don’t hang out with her EVERY saturday or wednesday or w/e.
give it time and she’ll open up…every girl does…especially when you say something really sweet and cute! and cuddle with us lol
good luck =]
What happened for her not to trust you? If your not sure yall need to talk about it and if she wants to trust you again she will be honest and tell you what you need to do to gain her trust again. If she won’t talk about it then she probably has no intrest to be with you. Ya’ll need to talk about it……..
If she’s been hurt by someone who was supposed to love her (like a parent or bf), then she’s not going to trust anyone quickly, if at all. She’s got baggage. So you have to figure out if you want a gal with that much baggage, who will likely never trust you and spend her time accusing you of things you didn’t do, or if you want a gal who has a healthy view of relationships. You can’t help her on your own, by the way. This kind of baggage requires professional therapy.
EDIT: read what Chelsea wrote. That is a very good example of a gal with baggage. She would be so high-maintenance that it would be impossible to make her think you’re trustworthy. Even if you did everything she says she wants, she’d still want more. Sorry, but I used to be the type, so I can see these things.
This reminds me of my last relationship, I never trusted him
Its just some girls have been so hurt its hard to just trust a guy, but something that would help alot for me was,
spend all your time with me, call me randomly, make sure you don’t forget to call before i go to bed, be really really sweet and tell us how much you like us . just don’t mess anything up in the first month or so, not saying you should ever but, the first couple of months has alot to do with us trustin you. I know you were probably like whhhhat when I said spend all your free time with her but.. if you really like a girl that shouldn’t be a problem, and dont go from spending alot of time with her to barely any, if you have to just minimize it day by day lol.
Trust is hard to get back once it is broken. I would say time, patience, and understanding on your part if she is worth it.
Good luck!
Trust comes in time and if you show that you are consistent with the things you and do. Hopefully she will let her guards down enough to see you and what you are offering. She is reacting to being hurt emotionally, mentally and do hope I am wrong but physically as well. I believe our society has trained guys that all women, ladies, girls should be treated as second class citizens or worse, objects. But to be honest with you, there are women out there, the ones who do love and respect themselves, I not talking about but the females is what I call them who will allow men to run all over them. Call them out their name and dress in a way to attract the wrong type of men and really thing "what’s the problem." Well men will do only what you allow them to do. We raise our sons to respect women even if they do not respect themselves. No need to yell to get your point across; no need to call her out her name nor is it called for to treat her less then you are. The Golden rule is, treat others as you want to be treated and it will come back to you but when you see on tv, videos’ that women being treated like trash and the women in real time don’t put these guys back in line, this is what you get, the injured ones not wanting to trust the person God put in her path way of life and she may just end up losing out on a good thing because of her past hurts and pains. We need to show one another respect, honesty and love on a daily basis but most importantly, give one another time to see what life has to offer. Don’t be in a rush to be with someone. Learn to be friends, first and for most and in time, things will unfold all by themselves. Maybe one day, things will change but be strong for her and have patience and if it is meant to be, it will. Time is moving so make the best of it. Send her notes, good morning, etc but do not over whelm her…give her time…I hope she sees you for whom you are and make it work out, if not, move on and the right one will be waiting for you as long as you are on your path, for filling your dreams.