How can I get a girl to like me if I have an unattractive appearance?
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I am UNDERWEIGHT(5`9 tall and 105 pounds) and I want to get a girl to like me/get a girlfriend. But it seems like EVERY girl hates skinny guys like me. So how can I get a girl(and other people) to see past that appearance and see the real me inside? Is this even possible?
Here is a picture of me if you wanna see for yourself:
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=490877905&albumID=487352&imageID=6120495
And it seems like this appearance is genetic, so I can’t change it no matter how much I eat or exercise, and I do both A LOT.
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Your not deformed (or "ugly)! There are people with their faces scarred, missing limbs, and worse. You’re focusing too much on just your appearance– try to focus on whats inside, ‘kay? There’s someone out there for you =)
just work on your personality bro.
i dont think you look underweight, i think you’re fine! and i know from my personal experiences that most girls like skinny guys…so maybe you just arent looking at the girls who would be right for you…
well try acting nice to them smile everytime you look at her. breath,? well what ever the problem is ask her or anyone. and if the girl doesnt like you move on.
You are pretty cute honestly.
Looks are the last thing I look for, I always go for personality first because that’s what really counts
I bet there are girls at your school that think you are pretty cute, just start talking to girls.
lol its not about appearance now its about how to express urself
go out more often (its important because u need to get to know more people)
have more confidence (this is essential since u can’t be shaking while asking a girl out)
and have determination (its rele rele important because its the only thing keeps u from getting off ur track)
Hope u get one soon ^^
wear contacts and smile more! bring out your inner self and people will start to know you for who you are. my dad eats this one stuff that he mixes into his drink and it makes you gain as much weight as you want. its like a sports thing. try it out and see what happens. talk to the girl more and if its not working then go to a girl who likes you for you even if you are underweight..ps…you looked fine to me in the picture.
if u have a sweet and cool personality than the nice s will come to u because they won’t care about the apperance only the not so wonderful s go for guys with looks.
Your appearance is not all of what will "get" you a girlfriend. If she is the "right" girl for you, she’ll look at your personality more so than your outward appearance.
Try to be you, and if someone is willing to accept you for you then they won’t worry about the fact that you are skinny.
Good Luck
Well let me tell u something it doesn’t matter what u look like if u believe that ur hott ur hott! its called self confidence its the number one thing ever girl looks for in a guy trust me theres alot of not so goodlooking guys that have a lot of confidence and they get alot more girls then the better looking guys that just dont have the confidence
trust me u can make a girl believe anything if u do
Dress Better and try to have conversation with her
….and dress a little less conservative
please, you’re going about this all wrong.
do you have contacts? if so, wear them. you’re a cutie. show your eyes. if you don’t think that you have a nice body then enhance your other features.
your clothes are nice but it looks like you’re trying to go for a look that a lot of guys have. problem? the same body type (i.e. jock) goes for it as well. you are not that body type. therefore, girls view you as different because you don’t look like the other guys.
pac sun and urban outfitters should become your two new favorite stores. a slim cut jean will polish you and won’t look like it’s too heavy on your thin frame. point in making: don’t buy loose baggy jeans.
your solid shirt looks like it’s just hanging on you. try a print and a slimmer tee. prints bring the eye up and fill out your upper body. a horizontal stripe has the same effect.
be bold! if you can’t look like other guys then stand out! confidence is killer, any girl loves it. smiling has the craziest effect on people. open up and be yourself. facades work for a while but extending an act out over a long period of time is just way too much to keep up. it’s best to just find out who you are however long it may take and, as crazy as it sounds, be yourself. if you’re confident with who you are then it’ll start to leak out onto your appearance and draw people in. you’ll be easy to talk to, your personality will be real, and, best of all, you’ll be unique.
best of luck.
The thing I find most attractive in a guy is his smile. So when you meet a girl give her a smile.
Don’t go after girls with only the thought of going out with them, become their friends. That way they get to know who the real you is and maybe one day one of them will get to really like you. And if they don’t well you’ll get lots of great friends.
Also don’t be in a rush to get into a relationship.
Trust me, there are decent girls out there who will just care about who you are in the inside. If I met you, I would want to get to know you. Maybe you should try being friends first unless you find someone who’s on board with going out with you.