How can a man boost his confidence to approach women?
Need help with women?
Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women:
1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to build REAL attraction Read more...
Ladies? Gentlemen? Any suggestions?
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Just be natural, if you have something to hide its just not worth it and will show. Take some risks like a funny dance move and laugh about it. Smile and be welcoming to all and you will see it pays off!
You may think you’re over your head. And that’s not a bad approach. She’s going to sense that you look up to her, and are shy about approaching her. She should take that as a compliment. Be yourself. If you’re right for each other, the "approach" will be worth it.
eye contact and smiles. these two will get you into the practice of actually looking at people you’re interested in(instead of assets, should a conversation begin) and generally let you know by the return look whether or not the person is interested in you. Regardless, you can always walk up and say hello. Strike up a conversation, if you have trouble finding a topic, I’ve found that if you’re in the same place as someone else, chances are you’re doing something similar… ie going to school or work… and talk about that.
Confidence comes from inside you, so look at yourself to see what it is that is holding you back. Ask your dreams to tell you — and then continue to ask until you understand — our unconscious mind doesn’t know how to be very clear in dreams.
Clean, fresh hair, dress well, find a few topics that really interest you, and be prepared to chat — to answer her tough questions as well as ask her some too.
I don’t know if this is one of serial dating events or not, but no matter where you are — SMILE — it makes people wonder what you’ve been doing, and that is a great opener.
best of luck!
I don’t have an ego but my friends ALWAYS approach me for advice on this subject. I have a lot of success with women so here are a few pointers you should follow:
1) When you approach a woman, don’t try to use any lame pickup line or talk about school, work, politics, or any boring subject. The first 30 seconds are the most important part of your conversation because you’re trying to reach the Social Hook Point. To get to this point, you must ALWAYS use as your opener: ask any woman: "What do you think about …." it can be about anything but make it interesting because women will open up to you if you are extroverted and unlike the rest of the lame men who hit on them. For instance, say you need a female perspective on something and ask her what her feelings are about your roommate or a friend who’s considering getting back with an ex-gf who mistreats him. She will give you her honest opinion and think you are thoughtful and brave for approaching a stranger to discuss something this important. Once she answers your question, jokingly reply so you’ve been in this situation before eh? Once you make her smile within the first minute, you must maintain a strong body posture and be friendly and followup by asking her interesting and thoughtful questions about what her wildest dreams are or talk about her interests and embarrassing moments. You are trying to escalate her emotional levels and if you do this, you will walk away at the very least with a phone number
Goodluck
Ok, here’s some things you can do to present yourself confidently, making it easier to intrique a woman:
1. Make eye contact with her and smile.
2. After a bit, when she looks away, walk up to her and smile, and say "Hi, I’m ___." and flash her a smile. Create conversation from that and act very interested in her, but not obsessed.
3. Don’t stutter. Although some women like the dorky, nervous, stuttery-type, you’re trying to approach with confidence, so remember to talk smoothly and calmy. Ask her questions about HER.
4. Yes, confidence makes you sexy even if you’re not-so-attractive. But be sure not to cross the line and start getting cocky. Major turn-off. A guy who talks about how many weights he can lift, how many times he goes to the gym, how hot he is, how many women want him, etc., is the most annoying thing ever. However you can still talk about yourself, just don’t brag or get cocky and you’re fine.
Some things to help boost your confidence:
Groom well (shower with nice body wash/shampoo/conditioner, wash your face, brush/rinse/floss, clear any acne, etc), dress nicely or whatever you feel confident in, wear colgone or something you like the smell of that makes you feel sexy, style your hair differently, wear clean clothes… There’s many things you can do… these are just some suggestions.
Wow my fingers are killing me..
bye and goodluck to you buddy
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