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I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls
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Confidence is the key…have a wing man to help boost you up. Let the girl do the talking at first until you get comfortable. Don’t worry, you’ll get there.
You ought to get more sleep. That way you wont worry so much.
My fiance is 19 I am 22. he picked me with confidence, well he tried to have confidence. 1 tip never ask a girl you are interested in to by you alcohol before or on the official first date
Just get out there and have fun. Maybe if you went out to meet new people rather than be fixated that you want a girl might help. After you build social skills I think you’ll be quite successful at getting any girl you want. Well..most anyways.
First of all you maight truly be "very good looking" but if women pick up on this vibe, they will think your stuck-up. Try loosening up and pretent you’re just hanging out with your sister when your communicate. The rest will fall into place.
For years I had the same problem. In my twenties, not bragging, but I could turn a few ladies heads. However, I was freakin way too shy and nervous around women. They all thought I was conceeded and stuck on myself because I never approached them. As a learned to loosen up, many of the ladies who were regulars told me they were interested for years, but thought i was too into myself and they would not be good enough for me. How wrong they were and I lost out on lots of good lovin. Loosen up, talk to your "sister" and let the rest fall into place.
ah to be your age again,being from the bay in the 60s getting it on with girls was as easy as asking,stop shaking if your what you say give it a try.ASK one thats interesting to you. don’t worry we all have dry spells,I’m in one. all I can tell you is unless you start working on opening lines to talk you’ll stay in park.
Yahoo! Personals….works for the age thing and maybe it will build confidence to start an email friendship with someone with the same hobbies or interests, etc. It’s certainly easier than a bar full of drunks! Take some great pictures of yourself, put some time into your description…and its ok to be honest. The good women dig that. Just be you…not who your trying to be at bars.
You also mention your going to college! Great! College towns are so much fun. Look into student activities and join a club, don’t be afraid to make new friends…it’s easier to with people that enjoy what you do. Chess, movie, debate…no club you like? then start one! Man, enjoy college and college girls. Let loose and live!