Help! How do I approach the girl i like when i'm ready to tell her i like her?
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The title says it all I guess. There’s a girl I’ve known for quite a few years and I am 99% sure that she is into me (all thanks to learning to read body language). I AM going to tell her I like her tomorrow, but I know I’m not going to know how to get a conversation rolling right off the bat. Other than compliments, what are some good topics/ideas for a convo that can help me get to the right time when I can tell her? In other words, what is a good convo topic/idea that doesn’t make "I really think you’re cute" and "I’d like you to know I like you" sound like something completely random. To paraphrase it even more, what is a good topic for a conversation to start with the girl I like? P.S. – Thank you for having the patience to read through all of this
Sorry guys, I’m being fed stuff I already know. In my personal opinion, movies are a lame first date. Anybody ever gone to a rock climbing gym for a first date?
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stop being a pussy be bold
i agree with that KURT guy
ok so guys have told me they like me through truth or dare and vis versa or u could b like who do u like ?? thats how i would do it hope this helps
I’ve read longer, so…
Well, when I wanted to tell a guy that I liked him (and this was the very first time I built up such confidence) my friend went ahead and asked me out for him. So a good start flew out the window and the first time we met after that incident it was so awkward. If it were me, I’d just straight up go and tell her. Because that’s what I was about to do before my friend did her little intervention.
go next to her and start sayin out loud u goin to the movies tonight alone if she really likes u she will ask u if u want company
or if u are not scared go and aske her if she wants to go to the movies
i guess start off with telling something you like like for instance suppose you like movies tell her that and then go on to something else you like at then end tell her "you know what i also like, you" i dont know, sorry! hope it helps!
Just say what feels natural and ask her if she wants to go out sometime. It’s a lot easier than you think.
start with nice shirt and she will say thanks and ask her about like sports or whtever…and at the end ask her she likes you as a boyfriend
Just go up to her and tell her. Girls like confidence. Find a cute way to say it. It will mean more if you say it in your own words.
Good Luck buddy! I am sure everything will go smoothly. I wish my crush would tell me he liked me tomorrow.
If anyone has time, I have a question! It is the first one on my page under "My Questions"
you should start off with a simple hi every now and so
then start off on sentences
then go onto conversations
and within a week,you’ll be confident enough!
remember that girls don’t like to be told stuff like that suddenly
well what I was going to do with the girl I like was take her to lunch like I usually do and on the way there we usually talk about random stuff and then I would bring it up. After I told her I would say "You probably don’t like me and that alright…I was just dying to tell you." And if she responds in a positive way then you’re good if she doesn’t then just stay friends xD
I didn’t get to tell the girl I like that I liked her because my friend told her that she wasn’t coming to lunch because I wanted to talk to her alone. She automatically told her that she knows I like her so there goes that plan lol.
well, the best way, is to first think about where you wanna take her on the first date. Maybe a movie, to the park, to a restaurant. Once you’re got the idea, get her alone, And bring up the place. If she says she’s never been… you say " really? What are you doing on friday? I’d love to take you there and get to know you as more than friends cause I really like you."
Adjust your answer to hers.
1.Look presentable and cool. Don’t be intimidated by looks (hers or yours). Look around – beautiful girls aren’t always with beautiful guys. A lot of times, funny or nice is better than handsome.
2.Be confident, be assertive, and control your nerves.
3.Be prepared for her answer. A nice, calm response from you, no matter what she says can give her something to think about later, even if it doesn’t seem to go your way at first.
4.Be prepared in your speech, remember your ‘script’.
5.Do it in person instead of calling her on the telephone. but if you don’t feel confident enough call her and tell her how you feel you will have more time to engage in conversation.
6.Don’t be afraid of embarrassment. Who cares what other people think?
7.Try to be romantic, tell her when you two are alone.
8.When you tell her, say something like,"When we first met, I thought you were beautiful, but as we knew each other more and more, you became more and more beautiful. Now you’re so beautiful, that I just had to tell you how I felt. I like you a lot." Something that has a little bit of a story, and is sweet. Don’t just pass her in the hall and say "I like you." It’s not as touching, and the less touching it is, the less likely she is to respond the way you want.
9.Don’t be cheesy with her! Be absolutely real and truthful, she’ll appreciate this more than anything.
10.DO NOT say anything stupid unless you are absolutely SURE she is going to laugh. Otherwise it just makes the situation more awkward for you.
11.BE HONEST! if you like a girl, Tell her! but not in front of anyone or she may be compelled to say no under peer pressure.
12.Don’t say it jokingly or she won’t know if you really do like her or not. She might even think you were just teasing (Trying to look cool or something etc.) and get upset.
13.Don’t hide that you like her that will only make things worse!
14.Don’t crack a joke right after you tell her. She might not think your serious.
15.DO NOT EVER show her your wang.
i make THAT the conversation topic. i think its better to just tell her, instead of sneaking it into a conversation. like "look, person, i just need really need you to know how i feel about you" or something like that. dont kill yourself over how to say it. just say it. if you stutter, some girls even find that cute. so i suggest putting it all out there. good luck!
Just go up to her, get a conversation going, and when the convo slows just tell her you have something you want to tell her and seriously let her know exactly how you feel. It’s pretty simple.
well i think u should wak up to her n strt saying hey n how r u n wat not then tell her i think ur cute i like u or u can send her a cute note telling her
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Say hey if your not doing anythin over the weekend, would you like to go out, if she like to do something, bring that up and you could do something with her that she likes and ignore the comments that say ur a pussy u r not
don’t upright and ask her, like start talking to her about the conversation ans stuff. Also like flirt with her and stuff and if she is cold give her your jacket. and be nice and stuff. Go for it but be careful and don’t get your hopes to high!! see if she is flirting back too
"i think ur cute"?????????? "i’d like you to know i like you" ??????????? r u mental? that stuff never comes out of any guy’s mouth unless he wants to be alone his whole life. you think of something funny where u bump into her. like "bloody city rail trains, $10million and they can’t even run on time" or you have some joke which is only a little funny, then apologise and say her cuteness stole the punchline. you can lightly tease her but do it with a smile and a wink. the ultimate compliment is just asking for her number, or if u know her, asking her out for a ‘drink’ or something.
ask her friends what she likes than go and start a conversation about it and then ask her out or ask her to be friends. just don’t be too shy!
Just tell her, or say you got dared to tell the person you like that you like em
dude, just talk about what she likes. if you’ve known her for a few years, then just start a convo with her like you’d normally do, and then kinda joke around a bit, and then just come out and say it. if she does’ent like you the way you like her, then shes just not good enough for ya.
then you can hit on her friend!!! no kidding.
hope i helped!!!
don’t waste any more time, just tell her you want to talk to her about something, tell her that you like her but haven’t been sure how to tell her, but that you can’t waste any more time, and ask her if it’s mutual and if she’d like to go out with you and see where it leads…
Don’t hesitate. Just have a normal conversation with her and then when she’s in the middle of talking to you just randomly say "You know I really like you right?" She’ll be caught off guard but if she really likes you then she’ll be happy about it.
well you shuld keep the coversation lite and ask her for her email. and then u can tell her evreything u want her to know but if you let it be known just a little bit then she will definetley know u like her trust me i know evrey guy whu has liked me jus by the way they talk to me or they look at me. just keep the conversation lite and be funny evrey girl likes funny guys. and it doesnt matter who you r when u hav the guts to email a girl instead of bitch ass iming all day she’ll allways remember that.
As i am a girl myself, i’ll just tell you what i think would make this more ‘less random’. (ha-ha did that make sense?) I don’t know the personality of this girl, but hopefully, she might be a little like me. What i would start with would be just a normal conversation about whatever you guys talk about. Then compliments like you said, if she picks up on one of the compliments and says something more than ‘thanks’ or laughs. So if she extends on what you said, by either saying, ‘i don’t think so!’ or ‘yeah, i got this necklace the other day’ take that as an opportunity to begin talking about her. Now i don’t know if this will apply to your girl, but lots of girls usually deny it when boys compliment them. So whilst talking about her, keep saying sweet things, then, maybe after she has denied something a few times, tell her, i really think that _______ (what ever she was denying, for example, your hair is really nice) and then say, I really like you. before she has a chance to say anything. except obviously not in those words because i fail at that kind of thing XD. Anyway. i have no idea if this helped or even made sense, but good luck with whatever happens!