Girl crush has spiraled a little out of control. Would like some help on how to handle this situation?
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A while ago I joined a sports club and met a bunch of girls through that. In July one of the girls had a party and invited the entire team. I was pretty depressed that day, so I was just sitting around by myself. Then another girl, "Marge", came and sat beside me. She asked me what the matter was and I told her my boyfriend had broken up with me that day, on our anniversary. She said she was sorry and asked if she could tell me a secret. I told her of course she could, so then she mentioned that she had been in a relationship with another girl from the team but no one knew. Since then I’ve been fascinated by "Marge".
Up until very recently I thought it was just a little girl-crush. But I’ve started to realize that I really her. However, a few problems; she thinks (I’m guessing) that I’m completely straight. Another "problem" is that she’s a few years older than me. Couple weeks ago we were sitting down talking and I asked her "what’s up?" ; she answered with "listen, I’m 25 years old and you’re 18.. " (dialogue was a little different as there’s a bit of a language problem as well- she speaks French and I speak English; we both understand both languages though so it isn’t really a problem, just a bit strange I guess)
Also lately we haven’t really been talking very much, today she even said I was a total introvert. It’s just because I’m so in awe of Marge so I don’t always feel at ease to be completely myself. I’ve heard a bunch of girls bitch about her but then they still hang out with her more than I do, I get so jealous but know it isn’t right to tell her..
Haha okay I think I’ve gotten my point across. Question is; how do I let her know I’m interested (without being too direct) ?
How do I find out if she might be a little attracted or something?
etc etc, how do you think I should generally deal with the situation?
Alright any help would be appreciated.. thanks 
Tagged with: anniversary • awe • bitch • couple weeks • dialogue • entire team • girl crush • haha • introvert • language problem • languages • little girl • one of the girls • relationship • sports club
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What’s wrong with being direct? Be direct! Stand up for your own feelings and tell her exactly how you feel.. The worst that could happen is that she rejects you. But is that really as bad as never knowing if you could’ve had her?
Well you can’t be scared to just tell her. You have the easy end of the bargain because you know she is gay and she doesn’t know you are straight. Lesbians get crushes on straight people too so maybe she wants to make a move too but doesn’t want to freak you out. That was how it was with my gf now. Except the other way around. I was out and I liked her A LOT but I thought she was completely straight. Well, she actually was bi and really really liked me. It took her making the first move to see it and we have been together for 5 years
So as you can see… it can’t hurt!