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Ok so me and another single guy friend went to a club to practice our "Ahem" game… But we both got shot down, hard, that night. Its always discouraging, i have a harder time than my friend putting myself together and trying again. I think the whole time we were there, about 3 hours, i only managed to work up enough nerve to try twice (and nearly got my ass kicked on one of those try’s). Something has to be seriously wrong here.
As a man i feel that i am obligated to have at least some ability in seducing a woman on the dance floor. I say seduce because the goal is strictly sex, nothing more. I would never look for a girlfriend in a club.
So how much training or time does it take to be able to do this like the other guys i see on the dance floor? Some of those guys clearly don’t look like they deserve to dance with such beautiful women.
Also, for bonus points: Are there any other social settings besides clubs that work just as well for picking up women for a night? Of all social settings, i feel the absolute least comfortable in a club.
Sorry to sound like a creep. I’m usually not, but when your manhood is challenged like this, well, it makes you take progressively more drastic measures.
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Confidence
Hotness
smelling great
and charm.
But don’t be hard on yourself even if you do all this you might get rejected and theres heaps of reasons. For example:
A) She has a bf and is just having a girls night out
B) looking for her knight in shining armour and the guy at the bar is defiantly not it.
3) Its that time of the month and she’s feeling pissed at the world
4) She is a lesbian
5)You remind her of her ex that just dumped her
see there are tons of reasons
dont be so hard on yourself and get back out there!
Professional pick-up "artist" = sociopath, just to let you know. Thanks to the actions of these so-called pros, more women are reluctant to go for a guy who starts talking them up. Keep trying, you’ll eventually find one that isn’t aware of the predatory behaviour of males.
As soon as I read tthat the club scene for you is just sex, I had your answer. You come across like you just want to pick up the girl and go home and have sex. I run from guys like you. You don’t have to say anything, it is written all over everything that you do. Why not jut prowl the sex online sites and get a sure thing? Why waste a cover charge, expensive drinks if you are striking out. Use the money and call a pro. The only way that you’ll get laid, is if you find someone with morals and values as corrupt as yours. You are egotistical and think you DESERVE this. You are disgusting. Please wear a condom if you do ever get some so there aren’t more of you or even another piece of you out there.
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I don’t know about other girls, but i won’t talk to guys in the club.
confidence and options. buy a drink for ‘em, mingle, shake a hand, be positive and then return. don’t look needy, look wanted.
as a girl i’m telling you if you goal is "strictly sex" then stick to clubs and bars or late night pick ups from coffee shops and other places. Beleive me if I’m at the coffee with my friends and am loud enough to be noticible and give some body sign language then pass by, look, drop a word, then do your thing.
as for club, just see if girl is alone and offer her a drink, lil talk, more dance, then offer to kick it at the lounge or somewhere where both of you can sit confortably and just move on.
I must warn you, we girls can make a guy go thru all that and then just simply back off, you need to take it in,swallow down and just move on to another girl.
but to be honest, i don’t wait for guy to approach, if i see that he is interested and I am as well, I’ll just offer him to join me and my friends …. lol
hope this helps.