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You were a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she had been irresistibly drawn to you.

And I am preparing to make a wild guess here, and yet could it be that as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her?

And could it be that at this time, you might be absolutely no challenge for her? And also that she believes if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and wrapped around her little finger just by saying the word?

Now I’m going to be a bit crude here, however as you know, to become a challenge once more you have to show to your ex girlfriend that her sexuality does not have any influence over you any longer. Take into account what it’s like when you’re stalking her with unreturned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that consider just what it is like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she’s told you to stop. You’re implying to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other sexual alternatives.

Your lover will not respect you again until you reject her sexual influence over you. Fortunately you’re doing that now by not personally interacting with her.

Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. You should not be “pals” with her, as that rewards her with the ongoing validation of power over you while supplying her a convenient excuse to stay separated. (She justifies that she is letting you down easy this way, assuaging virtually any guilt she may experience.)

On the other hand, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your things. More than likely a lot of your belongings are at her place, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She might get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything back.

The right response to this is  “No, not yet.” The justification is simply because her possessing your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. If you are interested in getting back together, you do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.

For the next three weeks, you need to totally acknowledge — and embrace — the fact that you are an independent man now. Take what transpired with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You’ve got a golden opportunity to transform your life, whether or not you ever get your ex back again.

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