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	<title>Comments on: Define &#8216;Alpha Male&#8217; &#8211; Grateful if men and women alike would define this term cos I have no idea what it is&#8230;.?</title>
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		<title>By: Rosebud</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosebud</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An alpha male is a dominant leader,mostly a term for strong male animals, can be  used for human males too, but gender roles have changed a lot thought out history, so the alpha male is not that common any more, but maybe im ignorant, maybe there&#039;s many of them out there, it also depends on the country, some men in certain coutrys are more alpha the others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An alpha male is a dominant leader,mostly a term for strong male animals, can be  used for human males too, but gender roles have changed a lot thought out history, so the alpha male is not that common any more, but maybe im ignorant, maybe there&#8217;s many of them out there, it also depends on the country, some men in certain coutrys are more alpha the others.</p>
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		<title>By: ukcufs</title>
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		<dc:creator>ukcufs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The largest and strongest male in a group.

In this group the aforementioned male inevitably becomes the leader, because he can fight off any challengers.

Now we&#039;re more civilised it can refer to any male that takes charge, like a desisive, almost controlling personality, because in a group that person will most likely emerge as leader, they don&#039;t have to be physically strong (or at least not the strongest in a group).

In other words the alpha male is the one who, when assembled in a group of others completely unorganised with no ranks, will take charge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The largest and strongest male in a group.</p>
<p>In this group the aforementioned male inevitably becomes the leader, because he can fight off any challengers.</p>
<p>Now we&#8217;re more civilised it can refer to any male that takes charge, like a desisive, almost controlling personality, because in a group that person will most likely emerge as leader, they don&#8217;t have to be physically strong (or at least not the strongest in a group).</p>
<p>In other words the alpha male is the one who, when assembled in a group of others completely unorganised with no ranks, will take charge.</p>
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		<title>By: Jocelyn  _/_/</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jocelyn  _/_/</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t define it, but I know it when I see it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t define it, but I know it when I see it.</p>
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		<title>By: Max Power</title>
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		<dc:creator>Max Power</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know what not to do. Hire a feminist to teach you how to become an alpha male.

&quot;Vice-President Al Gore has been paying Naomi Wolf, the feminist author, thousands of dollars a month to help him figure out how to become the top dog. Ms. Wolf has been telling Mr. Gore that he is a beta male, a subordinate figure, and must learn to become an alpha male, or leader of the pack, before the public can accept him as President... 

http://www.businessweek.com/bwdaily/dnflash/nov1999/nf91102e.htm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know what not to do. Hire a feminist to teach you how to become an alpha male.</p>
<p>&quot;Vice-President Al Gore has been paying Naomi Wolf, the feminist author, thousands of dollars a month to help him figure out how to become the top dog. Ms. Wolf has been telling Mr. Gore that he is a beta male, a subordinate figure, and must learn to become an alpha male, or leader of the pack, before the public can accept him as President&#8230; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.businessweek.com/bwdaily/dnflash/nov1999/nf91102e.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.businessweek.com/bwdaily/dnflash/nov1999/nf91102e.htm</a></p>
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		<title>By: Phil Flowers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil Flowers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The best of the litter, leader of the pack,  and one with the most initiative and ability to get things done. 

Yes Trevor. 
There have been many a closeted gay man considered an alpha.  Remember Rock Hudson?  and although notorious, Adolf Hitler was said to be a closeted bi-sexual, persecutor of gay men and yet considered alpha enough to go become 
dictator of Germany. Recall also that most of the Caesar&#039;s were gay or bi.  Alpha is definitely not restricted to us heteros.

Edit- Didn&#039;t know that rumor surrounded Lincoln but it&#039;s not surprising.  It was said also of many of the &quot;troublesome young men&quot; in the interior cabinet of our parliament in the UK  during the WW II years.

Edit- I don&#039;t know what you find so distasteful about the Ceasars.  It is normal for emperors to try and expand their empires through means of war.  Perhaps you prefer Greg Luganis?

Edit- If you wish to thumb my answer down that&#039;s fine.  I&#039;m here to give my honest opinions.  I have vowed to try and do it in a more tactful way then when I was trolling however.

Edit- Good sir, you can&#039;t force people to choose who they use as examples. That is a form of censorship.  You have to accept the good with the bad. Straight people can&#039;t erase social deviants from the annuls of history and gay people won&#039;t be able to accomplish that either.  The Apostle Paul is said by many historians to have been gay.  This was supposedly his thorn in the flesh.  There is another example of  a different type of Alpha.  Whether his masculinity and character are seen as positive or negative are debated by the religious and heathen. It simply depends on who you ask.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best of the litter, leader of the pack,  and one with the most initiative and ability to get things done. </p>
<p>Yes Trevor.<br />
There have been many a closeted gay man considered an alpha.  Remember Rock Hudson?  and although notorious, Adolf Hitler was said to be a closeted bi-sexual, persecutor of gay men and yet considered alpha enough to go become<br />
dictator of Germany. Recall also that most of the Caesar&#8217;s were gay or bi.  Alpha is definitely not restricted to us heteros.</p>
<p>Edit- Didn&#8217;t know that rumor surrounded Lincoln but it&#8217;s not surprising.  It was said also of many of the &quot;troublesome young men&quot; in the interior cabinet of our parliament in the UK  during the WW II years.</p>
<p>Edit- I don&#8217;t know what you find so distasteful about the Ceasars.  It is normal for emperors to try and expand their empires through means of war.  Perhaps you prefer Greg Luganis?</p>
<p>Edit- If you wish to thumb my answer down that&#8217;s fine.  I&#8217;m here to give my honest opinions.  I have vowed to try and do it in a more tactful way then when I was trolling however.</p>
<p>Edit- Good sir, you can&#8217;t force people to choose who they use as examples. That is a form of censorship.  You have to accept the good with the bad. Straight people can&#8217;t erase social deviants from the annuls of history and gay people won&#8217;t be able to accomplish that either.  The Apostle Paul is said by many historians to have been gay.  This was supposedly his thorn in the flesh.  There is another example of  a different type of Alpha.  Whether his masculinity and character are seen as positive or negative are debated by the religious and heathen. It simply depends on who you ask.</p>
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		<title>By: Untamed Rose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Untamed Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>He is the man who when he walks into a room, he is given respect...but not out of fear.  Out of the subconscious knowledge that when the snit hits the fan...he will know what to do.  Natural leaders from our primitive backgrounds.

And any male who feels the need to say he is an Alpha...is not.

Yes a gay man can be an alpha..knew a fire fighter like that...ohh you would have liked him trevor.  Us girls sure did cry over him not being interested. 

I also dont think alpha&#039;s are just born, but nor can one &quot;learn&quot; to be one...they are created out of experience, and gifted by those around them.
Here on GSW, no I dont think we have any but then IDK if this is something you can pick up online through text.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He is the man who when he walks into a room, he is given respect&#8230;but not out of fear.  Out of the subconscious knowledge that when the snit hits the fan&#8230;he will know what to do.  Natural leaders from our primitive backgrounds.</p>
<p>And any male who feels the need to say he is an Alpha&#8230;is not.</p>
<p>Yes a gay man can be an alpha..knew a fire fighter like that&#8230;ohh you would have liked him trevor.  Us girls sure did cry over him not being interested. </p>
<p>I also dont think alpha&#8217;s are just born, but nor can one &quot;learn&quot; to be one&#8230;they are created out of experience, and gifted by those around them.<br />
Here on GSW, no I dont think we have any but then IDK if this is something you can pick up online through text.</p>
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		<title>By: Desire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Desire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The &quot;Alpha Male&quot; is a term that takes a beating from the feminists here in G&amp;WS.

Be it in the context of a group of males or a mixed gender group, the term always means the same thing.

The Alpha male...derived from the &quot;animal world&quot; is the leader of the pack.
The Alpha male ranks #1 within his circle...all the other men know this about him...he&#039;s like the Godfather, the one with the power...he gets the women, the job,  the respect, people fear and respect him.
The Alpha male epitomizes the word &quot;Masculinity&quot;, he&#039;s  a ladies man, a man&#039;s man...he&#039;s all man.

The Alpha male isn&#039;t as prevalent in America as it is in Old World countries such as Italy, Cuba, Spain etc.
Personally I think Feminism has destroyed alot of the masculinity men once had.
No, the gay man cannot be the Alpha Male amongst straight men.
The only reason Rock Hudson was thought of as an Alpha Male, was do to his Hollywood screen appeal as a ladies man. If he were out of the closet, I challenge that perception would have been changed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The &quot;Alpha Male&quot; is a term that takes a beating from the feminists here in G&amp;WS.</p>
<p>Be it in the context of a group of males or a mixed gender group, the term always means the same thing.</p>
<p>The Alpha male&#8230;derived from the &quot;animal world&quot; is the leader of the pack.<br />
The Alpha male ranks #1 within his circle&#8230;all the other men know this about him&#8230;he&#8217;s like the Godfather, the one with the power&#8230;he gets the women, the job,  the respect, people fear and respect him.<br />
The Alpha male epitomizes the word &quot;Masculinity&quot;, he&#8217;s  a ladies man, a man&#8217;s man&#8230;he&#8217;s all man.</p>
<p>The Alpha male isn&#8217;t as prevalent in America as it is in Old World countries such as Italy, Cuba, Spain etc.<br />
Personally I think Feminism has destroyed alot of the masculinity men once had.<br />
No, the gay man cannot be the Alpha Male amongst straight men.<br />
The only reason Rock Hudson was thought of as an Alpha Male, was do to his Hollywood screen appeal as a ladies man. If he were out of the closet, I challenge that perception would have been changed!</p>
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		<title>By: Miss Theo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miss Theo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 12:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just flip through a seedy romance novel.

I&#039;m sure you&#039;ll get an idea.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just flip through a seedy romance novel.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll get an idea.</p>
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		<title>By: WSIDR III</title>
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		<dc:creator>WSIDR III</dc:creator>
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		<description>Yes, he is our leader. He is the one that is supposed to be the star of the show, and the rest of us are in supporting roles. Generally he will be the guy who takes charge of all situations and tells everybody else what to do. All the women love him, and all the men want to be like him, but cannot. For example in pop culture the fonz was an alpha male. In mythology&#039;s Jason and the Argonauts, Jason was the alpha male. In our day to day lives, our arrogant bosses and our arrogant friends are the alpha males. 

The secret to being an alpha male is not to be the best, but to think you are the best, and act accordingly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, he is our leader. He is the one that is supposed to be the star of the show, and the rest of us are in supporting roles. Generally he will be the guy who takes charge of all situations and tells everybody else what to do. All the women love him, and all the men want to be like him, but cannot. For example in pop culture the fonz was an alpha male. In mythology&#8217;s Jason and the Argonauts, Jason was the alpha male. In our day to day lives, our arrogant bosses and our arrogant friends are the alpha males. </p>
<p>The secret to being an alpha male is not to be the best, but to think you are the best, and act accordingly.</p>
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