How do you get a girl to like you is a fundamental question in a guy’s life.
I bet you have encountered guys who got the most successful, beautiful girls and left you astonished by their success. You couldn’t find anything outstanding about them and you are absolutely sure it is not jealousy that has blinded you.
These guys weren’t extremely smart or successful. There was nothing you could have pointed out and say that’s the reason why women fall at their feet. Nothing unusual about them and yet they had the secret code for cracking the essence of the question how do you get a girl to like you in an effortless manner.
Now, I know the clichés, we all know them about guys who are tough, playing it hard to get and hurt girls who keep on chasing after them begging for another rejection.
But those guys, I must ask myself, are they enjoying this unfertile dance? Maybe they do but I don’t see the point of getting a girl to like you if in the following day you don’t have the slightest interest in her.
A guy told me once that when he passes near a girl he fancies he look through her rather than at her. “Do that and that will do the job” he told me. Now maybe it works, we all suffer from this psychological bug as Graucho Marx famous quote implies: I do not want to belong to a club that accepts people like me.
However, these methods are not for me. I prefer staying naïve and authentic and get girls who like guys like me, who hasn’t lost a romantic point of view.
Anyway, the bottom line is I want a girl who is mature enough to appreciate my respectful attitude, my honesty and my ability to show affection.
I don’t want someone who is masochistic; a type of girl that wants a guy just because he doesn’t want her. I want someone stable though I must admit unstable girls also have their charms…
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Okay, this has happened a few times. I go to college and between class, I relax at one of the rec rooms we have, and every once in a while a cute girl will sit at the one of the other tables, and I feel so inclined to say hi, but I feel like I will come off as a creep. What are some good ways to approach these girls and just say Hi?
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Ok I have been trying to be with this girl but she won’t because she doesn’t trust me. I tried my hardest to show her that she can trust me and that I will never hurt her or treat her like crap.
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So I like this girl in class but she never talk to me. However, I sense that she always look at me, like at least once a day. I wonder if it was because I look weird or something else.
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First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.
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This girl stumbles upon another girl and sees that she has been physically abused. How would I imply this with certain signs?
How’s this? "I saw the bruises on legs and the burns on her arms. And I understood." Sorry for my ignorance I just want to turn in a good story!
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I met this girl like 3 months ago, and at the beginning i was just about the only guy that didn’t like her, or rather the only guy obsessed with her. Long story short, she liked me, i liked her but i got back together with my ex. Blah blah, we broke up and now im still friends with the girl i liked, and now like again. She doesnt want to give up a friendship, how do i just get her to take a risk and go out with me?
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she’s in my class, she’s always asking about my hispanic heritage and other very personal questions(we’ll just leave it at that), she is ghetto hispanic and im a regular mexican/european(im half spanish and half mexican) so this doesn’t work out
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Seriously, some girls seem to travel in packs.
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I think its time for me to ask a girl that I have had a massive crush to go out with me. I have never asked a girl out before so I need you guys help. What do you recommend on how to ask her out e.g. phone, text, in person, facebook ect. And can you guys right what I should say to her to ask her out, but not to corny or anything that will make me or her uncomfortable.
Cheers 
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He was talking to her before he met me. Since then we’ve been talking and hanging out. He says he likes me, and he’s unsure about the other girl, but he’s still talking to her. How do I get rid of her? Thanks!
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scenario is
-have a couple of mins to talk
-always sitting down talking to some guy friends
-never talked to her
-how do i talk to her in this situation
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I like this girl idk if she likes anyone.But please help.
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There is a totally cute girl at the gyms I go to. I have caught her smiling at me a couple of times and I know she has caught me checking her out. I am generally a confident guy but can be a little gun shy when it comes talking to girls or people I don’t know. Any tips or ideas or things I could say or do to strike up a quick conversation with this girl?!?!?!
Any advice would be appreciated!
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I like this girl but i don’t want to get serious but she wants to kiss me. She has way more experience than me. She offered to give me a kiss just not on the lips. I suggested we should kiss on the lips and she said that would be fine. Ive honestly never kissed a girl before and im confused on how to actually do it. I NEED HELP!!! i would prefer a girl to answer but anything else could be helpfull…THanx
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How to ask a girl out?!?!?!?
now i have no idea and really need help what i was thinking of saying somthing like
_______ i like you and want to get to know you better mabey we can go out…..
whenever i know thats crap what should i say and how to start the conversation to ask her out
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Its in the same place and such. Its on our lower backs… an inch above our butts.
She’s my best friend’s sister. Her brother (my friend) knows about her’s but not mine.
Why would she want the same tattoo?
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If lily and Rufus weren’t ready to have a kid, shouldn’t he be much older? In episode five after the wedding Rufus says that it took them 20 years. Does that make Scott 20? 19? If Dan is 18, how does this work?
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I am rather smart, I understand chemistry, computers, physics, and chemistry very well, I’m nice, interesting, and I do care about people, but I am a giant nerd(with very nerdy friends), and have a high voice for a male and I often get teased for it. I am also by know means good looking. I wear glasses, a big nose, and have no muscles. I have never gone to a school dance before but one to go to my junior prom. Do have any tips on how I can get a date to junior prom?
P.S.: I do have friends that are girls but none that like me that way.
P.S.S: Yes, I do realize it’s month’s away. Just Thought I would get a head start.
P.S.: Though I would add that I defiantly do not want sex, kissing, or any thing like that. Just some one to go to junior prom and *maybe* dating after.
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