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How do you get a girl to like you?

How do you get a girl to like you is a fundamental question in a guy’s life.

I bet you have encountered guys who got the most successful, beautiful girls and left you astonished by their success. You couldn’t find anything outstanding about them and you are absolutely sure it is not jealousy that has blinded you.

These guys weren’t extremely smart or successful. There was nothing you could have pointed out and say that’s the reason why women fall at their feet. Nothing unusual about them and yet they had the secret code for cracking the essence of the question how do you get a girl to like you in an effortless manner.

Now, I know the clichés, we all know them about guys who are tough, playing it hard to get and hurt girls who keep on chasing after them begging for another rejection.

But those guys, I must ask myself, are they enjoying this unfertile dance? Maybe they do but I don’t see the point of getting a girl to like you if in the following day you don’t have the slightest interest in her.

A guy told me once that when he passes near a girl he fancies he look through her rather than at her. “Do that and that will do the job” he told me. Now maybe it works, we all suffer from this psychological bug as Graucho Marx famous quote implies: I do not want to belong to a club that accepts people like me.

However, these methods are not for me. I prefer staying naïve and authentic and get girls who like guys like me, who hasn’t lost a romantic point of view.

Anyway, the bottom line is I want a girl who is mature enough to appreciate my respectful attitude, my honesty and my ability to show affection.

I don’t want someone who is masochistic; a type of girl that wants a guy just because he doesn’t want her. I want someone stable though I must admit unstable girls also have their charms…

The most that are attracted to me are overweight women and gay men! arghh! it isen’t fair to me.What could it be?Im not being racist but,im just not attracted to neither.And i dont do anything that would allure gay men.
Im 195lbs,green eyes,solid build 5/9 head shaven,and dress casual.
Good answer guy’s thanx.

I’m 27 m. never had a girlfriend ever, but at least i want to start meeting and connecting with women now. I’ve met women at work, … went to dance classes sometime ago. went to school for years and there was never any girl that would care about me. Well i never talk cause i’m quiet but still. I don’t feel anyone is ever interested. They may just interact with me BECAUSe they have to( example: group project at school) but doesn’t seem they have any interest in friendship or more.

Recently i met a girl at work. She’s really attractive to me, personality wise. But she’s one of those outgoing people.. she has a life already. and i’m only meeting her now cause the boss told her to come and help us temp workers. She is a permanent worker for years there.

So that girl really attracts me when i talk to her. She’s awesome but there’s no way for that to turn into anything. It’s just a temp job and it will end soon.

What else can i do? Is it just up to luck in getting friendships?

I think they are a bunch of BS. I’ve tried some of their tactics, as well as some provided by therapists and none of them work. I’m in my 40’s and still getting the same kind of treatment from females I got in elementary school.

i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?

There is this girl that says she into me. when i was that into her she was all over me she never stop texting me. I asked her out on a date and now she has been playing hard to get. My friends say that its because im nice and to available should i stop being sweet and just start being the on night stand guy. i am so confused how do i get her on the first date.

i guess there are guys out there who do have a hard time attracting women why do you think that is? do you think that it could somewhat the parents fault?

Asian, white, etc. I’m not talking the street mentality black man. I’m talking educated, respectful, smart and the whole bit. Seems women are timid or perhaps concerned of their public perception which is quite heartbreaking. After electing George Bush for 8 years does anybody give a issh what the public thinks?

There is this girl at school who I am in love with, and we’re pretty good friends, she’s said that I’m pretty cute, but not in the way that she would really want to date me, and I was wondering if there is any pheromone cologne that I could put on that will make her more attracted to me. So if anyone knows of a cologne that can do that and where i can buy it, that would be great.

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Please answer realistically and reasonable…

Im a 21 year old virgin and i hate it. However While I can get fatties, and fuglies, I know the only way I’ll get the hot, athletic white 18 year olds – the kind of girls who drive men of all ages crazy – is by paying. Trying to get these girls is a whole different ball game. It’s like the difference between making your high school basketball team and making it to the NBA. When I approach the former, I can see their faces light up. When I approach the latter, I get treated like a leper. Im not good looking either, i have no personality, and no confidence, so its understandable that i can only attract ugly fat desperate women. (i know i want what i cant get) Im a nice guy and that seems to only attract ugly women. So i have several questions; first, How do i get rid of the ugly fat chicks? Second, would going to a high class hooker be my only real chance of having sex with a hot chick? Third how do i cope with being out of the league of the women i want? I cant get confidence, i cant improve my looks, and i cant build personality. Am i doomed to die a virgin?

i don’t see women doing this, women can look how they want, follow who they want, and dress like they want, and talk like they want, but if a man does things he normally does around women he gets no where

so men change there approach cuz they want to meet women, why can women just acept men how they are?

I know this may sound like the strangest question, but i have always known that im bisexual, iv had relationships with men and have no problem taking to men when im out on the town but iv had relationships with women but they have been introduced to me through friends so really its like half the ‘legwork’ is done. Iv been single (by choice) for a while and think that im ready to try dating again and have some fun but i have no idea where to start, all my close friends are straight, so im finding it difficult. Im realising that women are all i want but its like starting form the beginning. How do i attract women?

im having problems attracting women im not that good looking btw im also 21yrs old and never had a real gf i just need to know what can i do i got the personality and im very sweet and shy

I know a lot of people say beauty is only skin deep, but in reality, everyone in society is at least a little shallow.

Looks may not be everything, but looks is what allows other people to find out who and what we are on the inside.

I’ve tried being all that "be yourself" stuff but that only gains me females as just friends. How can I turn it up to be more than friends?

I’m considering getting the for him/for her set at Victoria’s Secret but I am wondering if it will be a waste of my 50$.

Men are you a little proud of your facial hair? X
Women, do you find facial hair a turn on?

I don’t seem to attract the type of women I like personality wise as well as women who share the same interest and, taste I do. It seems I only attract complete opposites that i have nothing in common with.

I’m 17, fit (ish 4 pack lol), alright looking, and currently single. I’ve just moved to Hawaii, and am attending a new highschool, I’d appreciate any advice (regarding attracting women) you can throw at me providing it is useful. Thanks much, this is my first Yahoo Q btw.

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