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How do you get a girl to like you?

How do you get a girl to like you?

How do you get a girl to like you is a fundamental question in a guy’s life.

I bet you have encountered guys who got the most successful, beautiful girls and left you astonished by their success. You couldn’t find anything outstanding about them and you are absolutely sure it is not jealousy that has blinded you.

These guys weren’t extremely smart or successful. There was nothing you could have pointed out and say that’s the reason why women fall at their feet. Nothing unusual about them and yet they had the secret code for cracking the essence of the question how do you get a girl to like you in an effortless manner.

Now, I know the clichés, we all know them about guys who are tough, playing it hard to get and hurt girls who keep on chasing after them begging for another rejection.

But those guys, I must ask myself, are they enjoying this unfertile dance? Maybe they do but I don’t see the point of getting a girl to like you if in the following day you don’t have the slightest interest in her.

A guy told me once that when he passes near a girl he fancies he look through her rather than at her. “Do that and that will do the job” he told me. Now maybe it works, we all suffer from this psychological bug as Graucho Marx famous quote implies: I do not want to belong to a club that accepts people like me.

However, these methods are not for me. I prefer staying naïve and authentic and get girls who like guys like me, who hasn’t lost a romantic point of view.

Anyway, the bottom line is I want a girl who is mature enough to appreciate my respectful attitude, my honesty and my ability to show affection.

I don’t want someone who is masochistic; a type of girl that wants a guy just because he doesn’t want her. I want someone stable though I must admit unstable girls also have their charms…

How to approach/talk to women without looking desperate?

Sometime when i talk to women i feel that i’m desperate or give off the vibe of being desperate and i don’t know it. When talking to a women what are the best things not to see so you wont seem desperate?

Why do some guys find it hard to approach women in bars?

Approaching women in bars is not difficult. A wingman can be helpful to break up a pair of girls or get them at your table, but going alone can be just fine. If you’re desperate, just leave. Girls can smell despiration a mile away. That has a small stink of desperation, and if the girls in the bar see you get rejected once, you’re pretty much shot for the night. Sit at the bar or at a small private table. You have your money on the table (it’s the closest item men have to attract "horny women"). Dress nice, in darker clothing (to appear dark, mysterious, etc.) Have a drink or two, and just watch the action. Scan the room. See who you want to have sex with. Sooner or later, girls are going to approach you. Wonder if you’re waiting on someone. Or if you’re just lonely. By not approaching, you’re not buying girls drinks that you have no chance with. Girls who approach you will likely sleep with you because you’ve already made the list of people they will sleep with. Now you just have to close the deal.

What does it mean 4 mexican guys calling out to one of their male friends as some women approach “camaronas!”?

I heard this recently and want to know if it is offensive or complementary. I know that "camarones" means shrimp so what is this slang meaning?

How do i approach good looking women at the beach without upsetting or offending them?

I’m not a wannabe gangster or an a**hole or a nerd however I’am an athlete. I’m just Farley shy due to my red hair. I would like to have some honest advise from women please. "please no Ice breakers"

Thank you.

How to approach women?

I can talk to women no problem once the conversation gets going , but if i see a woman that i find attractive and want to converse with, i can’t initiate the conversation. I can never find anything to say that will start a conversation. any tips?

How do Egyptian women approach dieting and weight loss what methods do they use?

I want to know How can you approach a women without geting shy?

Im always shy and i always get scared because they might judge and i want to move fast when i first meet them.. I dont know why i always chase them .

Question for women.How do you approach a woman you are attracted to?

I work in a very large office building and I really want to meet this very attractive woman. Every time we walk past eachother, we look at eachother and smile. We have not said anythting to eachother besides hi. This has happened many times. How would I go about introducing myself to her without be too forward? I really want to meet her.

Why Am I So Scared To Approach Women?

I’m 31 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I’m afraid I might die a virgin and not be able to ever have a baby. I just don’t want to end up like lockergnome.

Why Are Guys Who Approach Women Disrepectfully Convinced That Their Approach Will Work? Or Does It Sometimes?

What are examples of a "disrespectful" approach compared to a "respectful one"?

Do you think these guys are often times successful in picking up women, that they don’t have incentive enough to want to change?

Could some women actually prefer this approach & think its cool & consider a more gentemenly approach "corny"or "lame".

What are good way to approach women at a gym?

I have started working out at a gym, there are a few girls that i see there a lot that i want to talk to but im not sure if they would even want someone approaching them. what is a good way to break the ice but not come off as desperate?

I approach girls /women in many different ways to get their attention.?

I approach girls /women in many different ways to get their attention.from making them feel good about themselves to teasing them to funny and sweet to plain sarcastic .nothing seems to work. playing hard to get to being relentless. none seem to be interested. could i be missing their cues. I see some really dumb inconsiderate guys with girls all over them. i am at a loss.

Should women approach men who they find attractive?

like say for instance the person, is cute and smart…like you share a lot of similarities…
should i, as the woman, approach this guy?
because he is just as shy as me, and if i don’t approach him, he’ll never approach me…
haha!

Is it challenging for African American men to approach women of other races in the south?

It seems that women of other races here in Louisiana (Asian and White in particular) give off negative body languages to say the least. However, I hear that in other places it would be easier. Is that true?
To answer the question below, yes those are my preferences and no it’s not just for sex.

What is the best way to approach women in the grocery store?

I want to start trying to pick up chicks in the grocery store. What are some good suggestions, such as pick-up lines or techniques.
Ryan, I have already tried the "nice shoes… wanna shag baby?" and I am still on probation for that. I really need something else.

In need of advise. How to approach women?

I need advice on how to approach a woman. I am confident, but when it comes to women, the confidence disappears. I’m well off, I mean I’m 6′5", in decent shape. I’m a nurse, I’m currently in medical school and I have a business. I think maybe I have focused on my success too much. The problem is that when I go out with my buddies I get looks from women, but I can never get the courage to go and talk to them. I really need help, I’m not getting any younger. Any advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.

White women, black men? How does a Black guy approach I white women?

LOL… Seriously I love white women I cant help it. But the only girls that I can ever get with are black women… Im not even a black man I’m Kurdish,Irish and black and Im from the hood lol…
So how would I approach a white women that im attracted to or are white women just not into people outside there race?

How to approach an older woman, or “cougar”?

For a while now I’ve found mature women in their late 30’s and 40’s to be really hot. I just turned 21 and feel my chances of interacting with one are way more likely now that I can go to bars and clubs.

But how do I go about getting one interested in me? What things do I have to do and say differently? Are there any of these "cougars" out there that could lend some advice?

How do I approach women I find attractive in public? I'm shy type at first and have lost my confidence?

It’s not like I’m ugly or a dork i just don’t have many opportunities to meet women. I’m middle aged, work alot and don’t know how to approach a women for instance at the grocery store. The main reason i’m shy towards women is fear of rejection of coarse. i’ve scanned online dating services but am not to hip to putting my picture up for the whole world to view . IE the shyness

where to meet and how to approach women?

im 18 and i havent had much luck with women, mainly going on dates,
i dont know where to look, and mainly how to approach complete strangers and ask them out, i am pretty shy so approaching women is hard for me, thanks

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