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How did the unfair tradition of men having to approach women for a date begin?

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I personally think it’s really unfair to us shy guys. Because we’re not comfortable with making the first move. So most of us have to live our whole lives and die as virgins. I’m 23 years old now, and I’ve accepted that I will die a virgin. It’s not because I’m ugly or anything, I’m actually better looking than average. It’s just I’m too shy, and lack the confidence to approach a woman for a date. And a woman would never approach me for a date, so I’m pretty much doomed. And there are lots of other guys out there, who share my fate. So I’m just curious, how did this whole unfair tradition begin anyway?

Since some women don't like when guys approach them, how can guys let girls know they like them?

I thought of this because of a question I read on Yahoo answers. It was about a married woman seeking advice about how to deal with men who find her attractive and approach her, when she’s married and not interested.

Just about everyone, 20 or so answers, where from people saying, (these are their words), men who approach women are "creepy," "dumb," "freaks," "desperate", "perverted", "primitive","they lack intellect", etc.

So I wonder, how does a guy date women when risking the chance of being seen as all of the above, for having a harmless attraction?

By the way, for those who may misunderstand the reason for this queston, this isn’t a question about me or to help me date nor did I get burned in the dating game. I enjoyed dating when I was single, and now I’m happily married. I’m just wondering because I like disscussing things, so please don’t take offense to this.

How can I approach women?

I just want to have a fun time with women, nothing serious. How can I make my first move? Which are good places?

Whats the best way to approach a woman at a bar if you actually want to be friends with her?

Sounds weird, but after spending alot of time at bars approaching women with the intention of picking her up, how do I just get into the friend zone without her thinking I’m a nerd who’s just practising on her?

approach women???

how to approach women correctly without being turned down?

What are some places that "are" and "are not" places you should approach women?

Especially if you don’t know them and they don’t know you.

Do you need to use one liners how do you just approach a girl and start a conversation?

How do you show confidence when approaching women?

My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’

In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.

How to approach women in public places like bookstores, coffee shop etc?Mainly in universities?

How to approach women in public places
How can u approach a girl whom i had never met.
In a place like universities (I am an Uni student and i want to talk with girls whom i don’t even have the slightest relation i mean they are not in my classes)
Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.

1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?say something that i can start a conversation!!
2. If the person is interested, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?

thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!

Women: how should men approach you?

I’m really really confused about how to walk up and talk to women. Women are usually very cold, aloof and not often very friendly to me and I don’t really understand why. I look nice, I’m not a jerk nor an overly nice guy. And I look and dress nice. I want to get over my fear of approaching women I don’t know, but I’m afraid women will be weirded out, since that’s how they often act if I ask them out.

Let’s say I’m at a nice mall, or on campus at my school, or a festival, just somewhere a lot of people are where it’s not unreasonable for a man to approach, but not a club or a bar. What is the best way to approach if I’m decent looking and dressed well?

The idea I had was if a girl is walking somewhere, to ask for directions, and if she in a friendly manner and I sense she won’t blow me off I’ll smile and say "Oh I know where it was, I just wanted to talk to you. But I had to see if you were friendly first!" and introduce myself. How would you respond to an approach like that? The other thing I want to do is just go up with a smile and say "Hi… you are just so cute, so of course I had to come talk to you."

I’m pretty shy so it’s going to be difficult for me, but I’m dead-set at getting over my fear of approaching attractive women. I hear from time to time that I’m handsome and should have a girlfriend but I just never approach anyone! I don’t want to meet girls at parties or bars or clubs because I’ve had nothing but bad luck with that. Any advice would be appreciated!
I know the obvious things, like hold eye contact, don’t stare at her breasts, smile, ask open ended questions, have a sense of humor, don’t be needy or beg for her number/a date, don’t talk about myself too much, etc. What else needs to be there for there to be chemistry?

How to approach women I've never met?

Give me some tips, cuz I need to step my game up.

How to approach women/ladies/girls?

Whats the best way to strike up a convo without looking like some creep? Best way to ask for phone #? Uh yeah, the usual

How should I approach women?

I really want to know some bona fide tips to approaching women without looking like I’m some stalker.

I need help on what to say and how to approach women,what to say to her online and in person,Please help me?

I need help to talk to women,to approach them,i need help,what do i say to them online,on the phone and in person,please help me,I’m 43 years old,what do i say

How do you show confidence when approaching women?

My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with a ‘how’s it going?’

In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.

How do you show confidence when approaching women?

My thoughts are to always look at them in the eye when they past by you and just simply do a smile or a smile with ‘how’s it going’.

In your mind, what does it mean to show confidence when approaching women? Thanks.

Can I overcome my anxiety in talking to women with self-hypnosis?

I am 33 and single, and am still generally too shy to approach women in most situations, unless they are introduced to me. I have only had a few girlfriends over the course of my life and I am tired of being single. Would self-hypnosis be an effective way of reducing my social anxiety? My buddies all tell me to just "suck it up and go talk to such and such girl" but my buddies are all naturally outgoing and I don’t think they understand or appreciate how hard it is for me to do.

How can I increase my confidence to approach women?

how dose one approach women in england?

hi im new to england from california getting used to this country tryin to figure out how do you approach women in england and if there are any places better then one another?
the only reason i ask this is because the women iv met have been realy rude and dont lik to talk to random people from what iv seen english people aren’t very social

I"m the Biggest Puuts ever! HOw do i approach women?

I rate myself a 7. I can talk to women, but i have no idea how to approach them! Specifically this week. I saw 2 great looking women that were actually checking me out as well. (i’m pretty sure of this). 1 was on the train, another a club. BUt i pretty much had ZERO balls to approach them, now i’m left sulking. Any good books, tips. I NEED HELP HERE!!

should I wait longer for a woman to approach me?

should I wait longer, since they’re more women in this world than men. i’d wait to have them come up to me. i dont know how to approach women I dont know what to say or have a conversation for some reason with them what do I do? im 23 and had only 1 gf.

why don't women approach men more often?

I have a fear of talking to attractive women in person. So i started searching for help on how to get over this fear. I found it’s more common than i thought. but then i got to thinking, why is it the men that have to approach women? what’s wrong with a woman making the first move and starting the conversation?

*NOTE* If your reply is going to be criticizing me for my fear or just to say "get over it" then please don’t bother replying. I only want replies about my actual question.

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