Can I improve my personality to attract women? how?
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I dont really look that great, so I need to have a good personality right. How do I know if I have one? How do I make mine better?
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first of all Confidence is the sexiest thing in a man. I haven’t dated the "hot guys" since high school. theyre a real pain in the butt its like dating a woman… seriously! so believe me when i say yes your personality is key but the truth of the matter is that women outnumber men almost 2 to 1 so if you are just confident in yourself you can so easily meet someone. besides i find that guys who aren’t the best looking but aren’t flat out ugly are the wittiest and funnest to be around. Own who you are and just have a good time.
secondly be yourself being a gentleman only goes so far. being romantic all the time can become cleche and annoying too especially if its forced or akward, thats not to say dont make an effort but rather dont let the effort overcome who you are as a person. if you’re not naturally a romantic only do it on special occassions. try to show her a good time but dont sweat it if you forget to open her car door. You sound like a nice guy (being so mindful of yourself) so you should be ok. dont sweat it dude you’ll be fine.
Hope that helps
Well, act like you have money. That will attract them in droves.
you really cant improve your personalty.
you just have to be your self and if people dont like it then its theyre loss
Everyone has a personality your born with it be nice especially to her friends, be a gentlemen to her everywhere you go and have confidence in yourself and try to look your best whenever you can as much as possible key thing: confidence! and put a smile on =D
I know its hard.. but todays society mostly depends on looks unfortunately because the first thing you see is how a person looks not what they’re personality is like.. so i recommend that you try to look as best as you can.. your personlity.. i have no idea how it is so i don’t know what changes you would need.. sorry..
Let me reccommen a book to you. "What Women Want Men to Know" by Babara Deangelis. It will give you a huge advantage over most men when it comes to woman.
Be very confident, assertive and very sure of yourself. Get a good sense of humour, and relax. You’ve seen plenty of ugly guys get good looking women; so you know its very possible
Don’t pretend to be something you’re not; changing your personality can only take you so far… because when you start dating, it’ll be hell to continue pretending to be something you’re not and you’ll just end up falling apart and wasting time with a project.
Don’t be clingy, and don’t come off as desperate. Good luck
btw; i heard this and it was pretty funny:
Women want men who have 3 things- Money, good looks, a sense of humour. But then if you have the first two, they’ll laugh at anything you say.
the first problem you have is that you want to have a good personnality only to have women to your feet…
does that mean that if tomorrow the women doesn’t longer exist you would not try to have a good personnality?
Be confident.
well what i did was work with what ive got. the most important thing is not not care what people think of you. you need to be confident in the fact that there are people out there who are right for you . not everyone will like you . its the same with every body. its no ones fault. its just that there are certain personalities that are more or less compatable with each other. example, coworkers, family, friends, relationships. its also all about how you present yourself. do you have good hygene? do you normally go out in your scrubs or are you nice looking no matter what. i recently learned that first impressions do matter. so even if you have to run to the store, look decent. stand out a little. im always surprised at the looks i get after a night out with the girls, when i stop in a store or gas station, all dressed nice. it does help. having a good personality is your own personality. i would say everyone has the potential to have a good personality. its just how you work with yours. like me i really dont care if i come off as a dork because if i feel it and i think its funny, usually ill get a few laughs.
people feed off each others vibes. if your totally going out there with a woa as me attitude, youll seem standoffish. but if you believe that you deserve just as much as anyone else, and not care if someone will like you or not, people will feed off that air of confidence. the look doesnt matter apparently because ive seen even the ugliest people get the person their ment to be with. its all about compatability. so the next time you feel rejected ,shrug it off because trust me we all have someone were ment to be with. its just the when and where.
Don’t worry so much about it. Honestly. Just do what you like, and be who you want to be. Do what you think is cool. If it makes you happy… pursue it. If it doesn’t… then don’t! You will be much more desirable once you are comfortable in your own skin and surrounded with things that you like. I know this from years of experience and observation. Yes, there are women who only want money. Yes, there are women who only want rugged good looks. Yes, there are women who only want artsy fartsy types. And yes… there are women who will like you the way you really are. I know many of them. We are always searching for a man who is himself, and himself only. We love guys who love themselves. Regardless of whether or not that’s "cool." IMO.