Need help with women? Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women:
1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to build REAL attraction Read more...

What would you say if I told you that there’s a small group of Asian men who account for 90% of all interracial hookups and relationship? That there’s this select few of Asian guys who absolutely have their stuff together when it comes to picking up women? Would you call me full of it?

I know, being Asian is supposed to be this huge disadvantage in the dating game. That’s why we have all these Asian guys crying online on their message boards about racism and negative Hollywood stereotypes (you know which forums I am talking about). I used to be one of those people spending all day talking to other lonely Asian dudes about how we need to change society and what not. I don’t do that anymore.

Asian guys are just to damn shy for their own good. I talked to a girl yesterday who told me she had never considered dating Asian guys before. I was curious as to why, so I asked. Guess what she said? It wasn’t about Asian men being short or skinny or any of the other things that Asian men fret about it. What was it? ‘Asian men are just not confident!’, she went on to tell me how she would sometimes be in a bar or coffee shop and there would be an Asian guy she found attractive, but when she tried getting his attention he would look down and not keep eye contact. That marked him as unconfident and lack of confidence in a man is a major deal breaker for women!

Women like confidence in men. I know you have heard this before.

Don’t get me wrong here. It’s not easy to just go over and talk to a girl you have never met before. And those rejections kind of sting, don’t they?

That’s were real, inner confidence comes in. Here are a few tips on how to proceed:

- Become extremely confident. I’m not talking about false, macho bravado. It’s about eliminating ALL negative self-talk from your mind. Your confidence should come naturally from your positive outlook.

- Have powerful body language. Don’t slouch around or fidget. Move slowly, back erect, look people in the eye, particularly girls. I don’t know if this is some kind of cultural thing but many Asians have really bad body language.

- Socialize. Make an effort to socialize regularly. Choose socializing over all those other lonely activities, PlayStation, message boards etc. You don’t have to hold deep 2 hour conversations, a simple ‘Hi, how’s it going’, is going to do the trick.

So, as you’re reading this, one or more of these may hold true for you. But so will it have done for those Asian PUA’s I mentioned earlier. Here’s what it takes to get where they are now:

1) Admit you suck with women
2) Acknowledge that you can learn to attract women
3) Buy a couple of seduction books or take a boot camp
4) Practice, Practice, Practice

It’s going to take some dedication on your part to get this part of your life sorted out. It’s not going to happen overnight. You need to get that negative self talk rewired and then go out and start talking to people. I started late, close to 30, and I wish that I would have had this information when I was younger. I felt embarrassed all those years, but ultimately I made the right move. Now, I want you to take that same leap of faith.

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