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How do I start picking up women?

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I just got over all awkardness/shyness with them. I don’t care if I get a no anymore if I ask one for a date because I feel that even if a bunch say no one is bound to say yes and then I win.

So how do I do this most effectively?

How to be less shy when approaching women/girls?

I have had the fear of rejection for as long as I can remember. It sounds quite dumb, because I know the worst thing that could possibly happen is for the girl to say "no." And they are just.. girls. Why in the world should I be afraid of them?
I make attempts to approach them around campus or at school but I always freeze up before it happens. Are there any tips you would like to share?

I’m thinking the only thing that will get me through this is experience. And that means a lot of bumps along the way.

how to attract women?

I am an 18 y/o good personality, smart, funny, all over sociable, but seem to have trouble finding decent women to date, what can i do?

(Preferably high school Guys please, but also girls.) How to get a guy to notice you?

So I really like this guy. I only have one class with him, and we don’t sit next to each other (assigned seating). I’m a sophomore and he’s a junior. From a scale from 1-10, 1 being super dorky, and 10 being super popular, I’m like a 5. I’m in band, but band isn’t considered super nerdy in my school. I also get fairly good grades. I’m super shy, and he’s this football and basketball player. He’s way more popular than me. I’m not usually into these types of guys, but this guy is the one of the best-looking and nicest guys ever, and is smart. I don’t think I’ve ever liked a guy this much.
I also don’t like saying this, but he kinda knows my name. He said it once, and pronounced it wrong.
1)Main question: How do I get him to notice me?
if you want to:
2)what you look for in girl?
3)What do you like her to wear?
4)what’s the first thing you notice about the girl (honest)?
5)does how popular the girl is really matter?
6) for those football players out there, would you want to go out with a band person?

Have you ever liked a guy/girl for a long time even though you knew you could NEVER be together?

It’s really hard forgetting about someone. It’s weird. And it’s sick and tiring.

How’d you get over someone?

How can I pick up woman in public?

Ok.. I’m 18 years old about 6ft I got good broad shoulders good psychics. But I just can’t pick up woman in public I don’t want to brag but I’m good looking they say. Wah… I just hate it because I don’t know how and that I can see ugly guys holding hands with beautiful babes. will someone teach me

I keep chickening out on approaching/talking to women. How can I approach them? How can I stop being chicken?

I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)

Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.

How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.

How come its much easier to get girls when you have a nice car like a BMW or Mercedes Benz?

I mean i dont have one but my Dad has a mercedes 550 (very nice!) and he asked me to take his car to the car wash today.. I’m 20 and when i pulled up there were 3 other girls (same car) waiting for their car to be finished. Its like when i pulled up they couldn’t keep their eyes off the car.. I went to have a seat and grabbed at magazine to read, one girl comes up and says hello (In the back of my mind i was like oh yeah ******* right you want to chat with me because you saw me in that mercedes) anyways she ask how old me i! I told her i’m 20 then she goes, wow thats a nice car, i just nod ok.. And kept reading, she ask where i’m from, then she just GIVES me her number and says to call her for lunch.. Yeah freaking right.. I’m not going to even bother to call because as soon as i tell her the car is really my dads,she’s going to be gone. What would you guys do? Would you call?

How to attract women through your deviantart gallery?

I do paint realistically. What topics really creep women? What topics do they like in general? I do like to enclose female nudity in my paintings, does this creeps women?

how many times does a guy approach a girl first before he gets annoyed?

if a guy keeps approaching ME first, and it’s been like four times, do you think i should be the one to approach him next time? i’ve been nice to him when we talk, but he’s always the one to initiate.
…or do guys like the "hard to get" type of girl?
how hard is too hard?
^ no perverted jokes about that

Do Women Have "Game": How Do Ladies Approach A Man?

I hate the term "Game" (it sounds sooo lame!) but I’m curious, in social situations like you know everyday normal places like at a club, a party, or in line at McDonalds how do you try to pick up a guy? Do woman use pick up lines too or do they not like them.

I know social norms say that us guys have to be the one’s to approach women but if any woman here ignore’s "social norms" how successful have you been in your attempts, why did you approach him first , and how did/do you go about approaching a man?

how do you pick up women?

i’m 19 and right now i want to start dating i’m in college and i see alot of beautiful women. Now my question is how should i approach them i’ll take any tips.

how to attract women?

i can get women to like me i have lots of women as friends but they dont like me i make them laugh im am decent looking i dont talk to them alot i have never had a deep convo with a girl or flirted and i am single and getting depressed any tips on how to make girls attracted to me should i make them feel special by comforting them when there sad
Please help !

How to get girls to talk, call, text, or talk to you online first?

Girls rarely talk to me first, is it my problem? Or girls can be shy too?

How do I get over a guy ( GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!)?

I broke a guys heart and my own how the hell do i move on because i cant seem to and its been awhile! HELP ME

I keep chickening out on approaching women. How can I approach them? I hate being chicken!?

I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)

Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.

How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X

How can I be succesful at picking up women in bars/nightclubs?

Don’t look needy, confident, positive, don’t talk about your job or ex’s or negative aspects of your life, get them to do 80% of the talking about themselves, stand up for something, appear to be somebody of value, what else?

I don't know how to get to know this girl better?

Because of my fucked up timetable I only see her in drama, I never see her outside of that lesson. Also, I rarely get chance to speak to her in there because of her friends and the work were doing. And although I have her facebook, I’m not sure if I should speak to her on chat yet, since we barely know each other, but I have next to no opportunity to speak to her in drama and no chance outside of drama so how can I get to know her better, and how do we become friends, since we barely see each other? How do I make the transition from knowing her in drama to dating. I like her, but I’m screwed, its too soon to ask to see her outside of school but I never see her in school

White women, does it creep you out when men ask questions like, "How can I get an attractive, white woman"?

When men ask how to attract women solely based on their skin tone?

Did you learn anything from the Tiger Woods event?

Is anyone else having problems seeing the current YA! questions?

What's that movie with the guy that gets hit by the bus? Is it Meet Joe Black?

I can’t remember all the details, but its a romance and the guy & girl meet in a restaurant/bar and have an instant connection, leave and walk away from each other. They each look over their shoulders back at the other one, but at different times. Then one of them (I think it’s the guy) steps out in front of a bus and shocks the audience SOOO completely! I want to say it’s Meet Joe Black, but I can’t remember. How did that play into the rest of the movie?

WOMEN ONLY!!!!I feel like a moron when i approach a girl. what should i do?

I apologize for posting this here but i need mature responses. First off im 30. Fairly good looking, well established. Dont get me wrong Ive been with my share of women. The only kink in my armor is that i have trouble approaching women in public settings. Im more better on the one on one approach but when it comes to when women are in groups (which is like 90% of the time) I find it difficult. I feel like im in the middle of giving a presentation. I dont wanna look like some of those creeps i see at clubs or bars. How should i approach? what should i say?

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