While many men state that they love women, are attracted to women, etc… why do women think (or pretend to think) that men are unattractive? Is it foolish pride on women’s part to hate to admit they find men attractive?
On one response to another question, one woman said she only finds 0.1% of men to be "sexy". Is that true?
Why do women hate admitting that they’re attracted to the opposite sex?
My theory:
It seems like a lot of women try to act like men are unattractive.
I think this has something to do with a "power" move by many women, as women want to hold the upper-hand and the position of power regarding sex & attraction, so they act like most guys are disgusting and unattractive. To many of these women, suggesting that a man is "sexy" or "gorgeous" is a means of submission to the opposite sex.
Men on the other hand do not care about this power ploy, as they find it trivial; and readily state that many of these women are "hot" and attractive.
Here’s the other question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnuE2oCWySP3e19MtOJng1cYxgt.?qid=20070730111744AAxvtME
moxie_slacker: You seem annoyed and upset. Perhaps because I told the truth and struck a nerve? Instead of making personal attacks against me like a child; how about addressing the issue instead?
I’m a "random dude online", and you’re a random chick online. Your point?
I’m not talking about "all women being interested in men"… I’m talking about so-called heterosexual women that hate to admit they find men attractive. Moxie, it’s safe to say that you fit the description in my question, as you are also an arrogant narcissit that feels insecure about stating she finds men attractive.
You mad? LOL
Let me also state the premise:
Men like to feel desired… just about as much as women.
Many women fail at the ability to make her man feel desirable. Truth. Men continuously go on about "hot" women, and women enjoy this attention, despite the fact that many women pretend this attention is unwanted. She likes to feel desired.
Delicious: Wow! The first truthful and honest post on this question so far!
As far as men being called "players" and "studs" when having sex with many women, whereas a woman is seen as a "s.lut" and a "ho" for doing the same — well, that is something I want to go in to later (perhaps a different question). However, I will say that this notion is fair? Why? For one, with all of the perks and advantages a woman gets in the dating/sex scene, why do women want to keep all of their perks, yet want to "even out" the few perks men get? Is that unfair?
The reason why men are congratulated and admired when they have sex with many women, is that MEN are the ones that have to WORK HARDEST for the sex, have to almost always initiate conversation and make the first move… this is a lot of pressure put on the men. A woman that wants sex is guaranteed to get sex and she doesn’t have to work hard for it, other than drop a few hints. Since it’s so much harder for a man to get sex, it’s only fair
moxie_slacker: Why would I not "like" you. I don’t even KNOW you. This is the first time I’ve ever seen your screen name, and you’re already saying I have something against you. I think you put way too much importance on yourself. As far as you being a "s.lut", well that was TMI on your part, since I never asked. But, alas, that description of you is not at all surprising. Also, no one said anything about whether you’re "smart" or not. The fact that you have to announce such a thing speaks volumes of your own insecurity.
I have no problem with women, just the misandry from women that goes on.
Yes, I was going to respond because I always respond when false accusations about me are made. I stand up to lies and libel. That’s just who I am.
